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OTK Spanking - 8/31/2010 3:35:43 AM

spank14me

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Hi People..im looking for advice,ever since i can remember ive been obsessed with being put over the knee of a well built mature woman,in fact its now all i ever fantasise about,if i see a mature woman on the tv thats sat down i imagine being over her knee, i trawl the internet looking for pictures of women in the sitting position,unfortuanately most mistresses for me seem to be quite young and slim,can anyone one give me some advice because until i can live out my fantasy it will just get worse..thanks

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RE: OTK Spanking - 8/31/2010 3:51:20 AM

ranja

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Well... if you have a partner or a wife, maybe she can help?
if you are single i hope you hook up with someone soon, you sound a bit desperate

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RE: OTK Spanking - 8/31/2010 4:32:31 AM

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Your profile states that you are an expert in spanking, while your post here sounds like you have little or no experience.

1. You DO know how to search your area using the collarme main page, for women that are Domme, who live in your area, and are in your desired age range, right? Do the search and find some and then for the love of God, chat them up before you beseech them to spank you. Women like to get to know others as people - odd quirk they have.

2. Consider a spanking-only site like Shadow Lane.

3. You're not ready to get spanked yet. At this stage, you should be looking for Dominant woman, and also for people who are into the spanking scene. Get to know people and then see if any are compatible with you. Ask the lucky lady out and get to know her. Make darn sure that you would like to spend time with her AFTER the spanking is over.

4. Consider looking for a pro Dominatrix, at least to scratch your itch while doing the above.

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RE: OTK Spanking - 9/1/2010 10:06:01 AM

spank14me

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Sorry if i sound desperate im certainly not, but what i am is frustrated at not being able to find that certain woman with whom i would be able to fulfil my fantasy,but there again ive waited this long a while longe wont hurt..thanks anyway

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RE: OTK Spanking - 9/1/2010 10:07:58 AM

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A lot of munch groups have SIGs (special interest groups) that are solely dedicated to those who enjoy spanking. Why not join your local munch group and see if someone there has the same kink as you do?

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RE: OTK Spanking - 9/1/2010 10:12:04 AM

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How long have you actually been searching here? I am certain that if you are diligent and put out feelers, send polite messages that tell a bit about who you are and what you are seeking that you will find someone here who you can at least establish a connection with. There are real people on this site, I've a feeling that the forums are comprised of many such "real" people. These people take their time to chime in, offer advice and at times just provide smiles and giggles for others here. I am very new to the "lifestyle", spanking is one thing I quite enjoy. I am not the only such Woman here, take your time, search thoughtfully and you will find what you are seeking. It does take patience, and lord knows I was not blessed with much of that, but I have learned. Take care, good luck to you on your search. Red handprints on a nice bare bottom make me smile...

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