Sirandlittle1
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ORIGINAL: Unameme Mental Bondage, im not sure what it is really ? If i was to guess its being restrained without fetters. But what does that mean ? Is it obeying a Domme/ Dom's command like not leaving the house, or not doing certain bodily functions on one's own ? is it being put in a corner ? and staying there ? i would really like to know about this, Anyone care / would explain this . Thanks in advance , Sincerely Unameme. While Celeste, Amayos and others have commented, I think one important division has been left out. Mental bondage is being conditioned to a state wherein, one obeys or responds without conscious choice, that is, your behavior is or appears automatic. A simple example would be putting your hand on a hot stove. Suppose you started to touch the burner on a stove and felt it was hot. Feeling that heat, you pause and make a choice not to move your hand any closer. That involved choice. But suppose you were in a hurry or not paying attention, and actually put your hand on the hot burner. Immediately you pull it away without thinking... that's an automatic response, you didn't make a choice. Now keeping that in mind, let's look at your examples. You are given a command not to leave the house? You choose to obey. That's not mental bondage, that's simple obedience. You choose to refrain from various bodily functions when told? Again, simple obedience. You are put in a corner and stay. Again, obedience. Now some other examples. A submissive is whipped with a flogger and becomes sexually excited despite the pain after being conditioned to respond this way. This is involuntary, this is mental bondage. A submissive is trained not to orgasm without permission, and even when having a "wet dream" does not orgasm even though they are sleeping. This is involuntary, this is mental bondage. A submissive is trained to always drop to all fours when placed on a leash, and as a result feels an overwhelming urge to do so anytime a leash is attached to their collar. This is an involuntary response, this is mental bondage. A submissive is taught to speak only in third person when referring to themselves until it becomes an habit performed automatically. This is involuntary and thus is also a form of mental bondage. Does that help clarify the difference? Mental bondage means you obey without conscious choice, it feels like a reflex, an overpowering urge, a need. Its literally submitting your free will to another to the point some of that free will is removed in observable and measurable ways. Well then, ive a ways to go yet. This language style, is so far removed from my reality, that i cant comprehend ever putting myself if not first, at least 2nd! Fucked if im doing 3rd.
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