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RE: is it weird... - 9/13/2010 9:53:36 PM

hausboy

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To AnimusRex:
You asked if anyone had actually done a gang bang before:

Yes...to a fellow boi. (he was a butch dyke at the time) It was his birthday--he had mentioned his fantasy to his friends--we knew him really, really well....and it took almost 3 months to properly negotiate and arrange. Each participant was carefully screened, and every single one of us knew him, and knew that he trusted us. And we made sure that he was okay with it--and not just toying with the concept.

We all carefully went over his likes, dislikes, hot zones/places that were off-limits etc. and we all knew his safe-word. Among the tops, we also had a safe word that let us check in with each other, to make sure that we were all okay with what was happening. He arrived in the playspace blindfolded, but he was made aware how many were there.

It was very hot for all of us--and we continuously checked in with him to be sure he was able to communicate with us and wanted it to continue in a way that didn't seem foreign to the scene. This may "destroy" the fantasy for some, but it was important to all of us that he enjoy himself (it was his birthday, afterall) and we didn't want to risk interpreting silence for accordance, just in the event that he became non-verbal.

I would NEVER EVER put something like this out on Craigslist.

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RE: is it weird... - 9/13/2010 10:02:58 PM

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Fantasy. But then again, life is a fantasy.

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RE: is it weird... - 9/13/2010 10:59:35 PM

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HELL ya It's weird. Not to mention what guy in their "right thinking mind" wants sloppy seconds.

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RE: is it weird... - 9/14/2010 5:43:28 AM

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Hell no, it's not weird. Cripes, I have fantasies that make that seem like a Disney film. (I do, however think its ironic asking us, some of the weirder people in the world sexually, if something is weird).
And frankly, wanting to actualize the fantasy isn't weird in itself, but your methodology (craiglist) is kinda suspect.

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