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Younge Dom needs Help - 9/3/2010 5:03:25 PM   
olinkalex


Posts: 16
Joined: 6/29/2010
Status: offline 		Hello, my name is Alex and well I've been having a hard time finding a Subs/Slave to talk to, so I was wondering if someone could check my profile or give me some info on what I'm doing wrong.

Please and Thank You

P.S. I know I'm younge, but I'm strongly into the lifestyle and I know what I'm doing, so don't bother telling me that I'm too younge for this.
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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/3/2010 5:12:28 PM   
DCWoody


Posts: 1401
Joined: 10/27/2006
Status: offline 		Never too younge to start. Never too old to cease crimes against art.

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/3/2010 5:19:02 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		Hell, you won and lost a lovely young slavegirl while I've been still looking, so I dunno if I'm the one to give you advice.  But that's never stopped me before!

I'm able to prove that I'm not a fake, I do have a Pictures, WebCam, etc.

Making an offer to prove you're real is silly.  Delete this first sentence.

I'm a Dominant who is Loving Sweet, Kind, Trustworthy, Funny, Honest, and Caring to his Slave(s). I'm also a person who has Asperger's Syndrome (A type of Autism) and sadly because of my disorder and were I live, I never had a real relationship so I'm hoping to find one here.

Okay.  First, you're not ready for a slave.  Go for a submissive instead.  Second, the whole sentence just sounds sweet, but not really Domly.  You might be able to get a Daddy Dom/little girl dynamic, but it sounds like you might be better off in vanilla. Rewrite the last sentence like this: I have Asperger's Syndrome (A type of Autism) but am capable of full relationships.  I'm new to the scene and prefer that you be as well.  Don't apologize for who you are.

As a Dominant, I'm strongly into doing Bondage on my Slave(s) mostly Japanese Bondage, Suspension, and Mummification. Also while I'll be your owner I will never treat my Slave(s) like junk. Also I do have my limits I will never do any kind of Choking, Blood, Scat, Knife Play, Needles, or anything that is really gross or that can cause serious damage to the body.

Wait a second!!!!!  You have no experience, and you want to do suspension bondage?  Where did you learn to do that without injury?!?!?!  Rewrite to:  I love bondage in all its forms.  My hard limits include Choking, Blood, Scat, Knife Play, and Needles.

My Ideal Person: Seeking Female Slave willing to give 24/7 TPE to me preferably in the ages of 18-24. Also She must be Sweet, Kind, Trustworthy, Caring, Lovable, and Honest. Also because of my disorder there are things I need to help me with like Driving, Reading, Cooking, etc.

Forget about 24/7 TPE.  You need to build up to it.  Try this: My ideal match is a sweet, loving submissive from 18-24.  Service to me will include cooking and driving.


< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 9/3/2010 5:24:17 PM >

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/3/2010 6:02:35 PM   
SubPet715


Posts: 337
Joined: 8/24/2010
From: Brooklyn, NY
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DCWoody

Never too younge to start. Never too old to cease crimes against art.


I see what you did there, my god it took me a while to stop laughing...

To OP, many see me as young to be a submissive go figure. Being on the message board is a good start, show that you're dedicated to learning all you can about being a dom. Maybe write in that journal feature (I do...a bit much I think) about how you came to the conclusion that you are how you are.

Also DS is right, you aren't ready for a slave as I wasn't ready to be a slave. That is something that takes time and build up and has much more implication than simply saying "Yes" to everything your master wants.

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/3/2010 6:07:09 PM   
Twoshoes


Posts: 1218
Joined: 7/27/2010
Status: offline 		I thought I was gonna go read your journal, real quick and then I realized "wow, this could take awhile".

Is there no way to line break that text in journals?

Maybe I should write a journal entry.

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/3/2010 6:10:08 PM   
SubPet715


Posts: 337
Joined: 8/24/2010
From: Brooklyn, NY
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

I thought I was gonna go read your journal, real quick and then I realized "wow, this could take awhile".

Is there no way to line break that text in journals?

Maybe I should write a journal entry.


There is I just find it stifles what i'm trying to write about. So I just write and write, would you believe people take the time out to read what little ole me has to say? That sure is nice of them ^_^

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/3/2010 9:22:51 PM   
inkSecret


Posts: 83
Joined: 3/4/2009
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: olinkalex

Hello, my name is Alex and well I've been having a hard time finding a Subs/Slave to talk to, so I was wondering if someone could check my profile or give me some info on what I'm doing wrong.

Please and Thank You

P.S. I know I'm younge, but I'm strongly into the lifestyle and I know what I'm doing, so don't bother telling me that I'm too younge for this.


Replace all that worthless text with

HI IM ALEX
MY PENIS IS HUGE
I KILL PEOPLE USING KUNG FU
"I'm on a Horse"

Done.  You're a fucking chick magnet.


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Stop asking questions only you can answer
There's no standard to adhere to
We dominate and submit as we choose

You can't ask us
What's right for me?
We're not you

Decide your level of involvement
Find yourself
It's your decision

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/4/2010 10:30:57 AM   
olinkalex


Posts: 16
Joined: 6/29/2010
Status: offline 		Thanks for the advise I'll fix it up now.

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/4/2010 11:07:46 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Just a thought.  I haven't read the profile, but if it includes the same kind of spelling errors that you have on the thread, you'll need to fix that up.  

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/4/2010 12:28:05 PM   
olinkalex


Posts: 16
Joined: 6/29/2010
Status: offline 		Hey, can anyone help me give me some tips on, what to write in a message to someone I really like to talk to?

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/4/2010 12:46:32 PM   
poise


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Joined: 7/3/2010
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quote:

ORIGINAL: olinkalex
Hey, can anyone help me give me some tips on, what to write in a message to someone I really like to talk to?

It should start with what it is about them that attracted you in the first place....ie: Hello_____, while reading your profile, I was excited to learn that you love pineapple and ham on your pizza. I am also a hawaiin pizza affectionado,
although sometimes I will settle for plain cheese and pepperoni".

Open a dialogue of common interests.

< Message edited by poise -- 9/4/2010 12:49:31 PM >

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RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/4/2010 12:46:35 PM   
leadership527


Posts: 5026
Joined: 6/2/2008
Status: offline 		Sure I can give you some tips.

  • Start out with some sort of "hello"... avoid how "hawt" the subject is.
  • Next, explain what motivated you to write to the person... if it's because their picture is "hawt", just go ahead and delete the email now.
  • Next, explain why you think the other person might be interested in talking to you. If it's because you're "hawt" or a fabulous lover, delete the email now.
  • Next, click send.
  • If the person responds positively, then they agreed with at least some of your reasoning. Proceed to discuss whatever is now being discussed.
  • If they do not respond or they send back something negative, then they disagree. Move on to another person. Do not try to argue with them about it.

    I hope that helps
    ~Jeff

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    I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/4/2010 10:39:06 PM   
    inkSecret


    Posts: 83
    Joined: 3/4/2009
    Status: offline
    quote:

    ORIGINAL: leadership527

    Sure I can give you some tips.
  • Start out with some sort of "hello"... avoid how "hawt" the subject is.
  • Next, explain what motivated you to write to the person... if it's because their picture is "hawt", just go ahead and delete the email now.
  • Next, explain why you think the other person might be interested in talking to you. If it's because you're "hawt" or a fabulous lover, delete the email now.
  • Next, click send.
  • If the person responds positively, then they agreed with at least some of your reasoning. Proceed to discuss whatever is now being discussed.
  • If they do not respond or they send back something negative, then they disagree. Move on to another person. Do not try to argue with them about it.

    I hope that helps
    ~Jeff


    • This post is hawt.


    _____________________________

    Stop asking questions only you can answer
    There's no standard to adhere to
    We dominate and submit as we choose

    You can't ask us
    What's right for me?
    We're not you

    Decide your level of involvement
    Find yourself
    It's your decision

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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/4/2010 10:47:36 PM   
    bellesoumise


    Posts: 258
    Joined: 8/8/2010
    Status: offline     		I'm going to send you a message now to tell you how hawt your picture is and how hawt you sound. Don't you think that's hawt?

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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/5/2010 12:39:25 AM   
    inkSecret


    Posts: 83
    Joined: 3/4/2009
    Status: offline
    quote:

    ORIGINAL: bellesoumise

    I'm going to send you a message now to tell you how hawt your picture is and how hawt you sound. Don't you think that's hawt?


    NO YOURE HAWT


    _____________________________

    Stop asking questions only you can answer
    There's no standard to adhere to
    We dominate and submit as we choose

    You can't ask us
    What's right for me?
    We're not you

    Decide your level of involvement
    Find yourself
    It's your decision

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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/5/2010 12:44:45 AM   
    bellesoumise


    Posts: 258
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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: inkSecret

    NO YOURE HAWT



    This is hawt.

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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/5/2010 12:58:37 AM   
    Twoshoes


    Posts: 1218
    Joined: 7/27/2010
    Status: offline     		You guys need some new words - like "superlicious".

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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/5/2010 1:04:47 AM   
    bellesoumise


    Posts: 258
    Joined: 8/8/2010
    Status: offline
    quote:

    ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

    You guys need some new words - like "superlicious".


    This is Hawt Superliciousness and totally off topic!

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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/8/2010 1:15:59 PM   
    Gage46Bstn


    Posts: 34
    Joined: 11/8/2008
    From: Master Greg
    Status: offline     		Put as much of you into your profile as possible and do the smart thing you have already done which is to come here and talk.
    Also stop spelling young with an e at the end ((Smile))

    There are some really smart interesting people here to talk to about all aspects of "the lifestyle" yet we are all different and individual


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    RE: Younge Dom needs Help - 9/9/2010 12:10:22 PM   
    atractivenuisane


    Posts: 30
    Joined: 3/13/2010
    Status: offline     		Alex,

    As to your profile, you should include more about what your non-kinky interests are. As it stands, your profile doesn't talk about what you have to offer...it's all take and no give. Giving a browser a better sense of who you are as a person might help you make a connection.

    You might do better on a different kinky site (starts with an F...). Although the forums are full of real, genuine, nice folks, the dating side of the site isn't so much.

    Besides that, you may even do well on an Asperger's message board or chat site. Meeting someone who struggles with similar issues might make your life easier. Not that you don't belong here, because certainly you do, but it may be easier to find someone on an Aspie site that's cool with bondage than finding someone on a bondage site that's cool with Asperger's.

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