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juliaoceania -> Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 12:58:51 PM)

I have a question about something on collarme.. Is it normal to email people and offer  money for submission? I had this happen to me and I was wondering if this is a common thing. I cannot remember ever in my life being offered money for my "favors" and it kinda shocked me (although I guess it shouldn't, this is the internet after all...lol). Im not exactly new to every BDSM user site, and I cannot remember this ever happening. Has this happened to others here?



Phoenixandnika -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 1:02:17 PM)

Perhaps they are offering tribute to submissives because they see submissives offering tribute to Dommes?
 
Nika{Phoenix}



bandit25 -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 1:03:42 PM)

Nope, but I could sure use a new car!



juliaoceania -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 1:05:21 PM)

Perhaps you will be "lucky" enough for him to contact you...laughing



Phoenixandnika -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 1:06:51 PM)

julia,
 
Here is another thought.
Perhaps they are simply used to paying for services?
 
*laughs*
 
Nika{Phoenix}



bandit25 -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 1:07:45 PM)

I was just thinkin' the same thing...LOL



BitaTruble -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 1:54:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I have a question about something on collarme.. Is it normal to email people and offer  money for submission? I had this happen to me and I was wondering if this is a common thing. I cannot remember ever in my life being offered money for my "favors" and it kinda shocked me (although I guess it shouldn't, this is the internet after all...lol). Im not exactly new to every BDSM user site, and I cannot remember this ever happening. Has this happened to others here?


Oh yes. In fact, I had one 'Master' contact me on my alternate nick offering me $ to worship my feet.. then the same "Master" write on this nick offering me $ to worship HIS feet. lol

I just figured him for a bit confused and decided to keep my feet to myself and let him do whatever he wanted with his own feet. ;)

Celeste



juliaoceania -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 2:02:51 PM)

Perhaps you could have told him to take the feet out of his mouth so you could judge whether or not they were worth worshipping?..



Proprietrix -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 2:31:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
I had one 'Master' contact me on my alternate nick offering me $ to worship my feet.. then the same "Master" write on this nick offering me $ to worship HIS feet.


Talk about a foot fetish. lol



Phoenixandnika -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 2:34:03 PM)

For all that why not worship his own 2 feet?
 
*laughs*
 
Nika{Phoenix}



theRose4U -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 4:30:54 PM)

I think it's just worms that haven't had any kink, any sex, any access to a woman in so long that they will LITERALLY do anything...I see this a lot with so called kinksters posting on craigslist.
" I want a DOMINATE [grrrr] woman to whips an spank me...must wear heels"

If you bother to contact them to inform them of their mis-use of the word Dominant and see if you might direct them towards kink education or a boot worship group you'll get anything from elaborate stories that obviously evolved from watching porn, weiner pics or my personal fave an elaboratly laid out set of leather that from the pic you can tell is so stiff it's never been used.



darq -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 4:37:10 PM)

Maybe this makes me sound a little mercenary .... But ... Well ... I think, depending on the 'favors' ... I'd accept the money. Such is the life of a poor girl ... lol



KarbonCopy -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 4:41:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: darq

Maybe this makes me sound a little mercenary .... But ... Well ... I think, depending on the 'favors' ... I'd accept the money. Such is the life of a poor girl ... lol


I'm not sure that Mercenary is the right term. You're basically trying to cover up the harsheness of the word Whoreing.

Although mercenary is technically a term you could use in the instance, its not exactly in the same mood.

mer·ce·nar·y   [image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/JPG/pron.jpg[/image] ( P )  Pronunciation Key  (mûr[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/prime.gif[/image]s[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/schwa.gif[/image]-n[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/ebreve.gif[/image]r[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/lprime.gif[/image][image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/emacr.gif[/image])
adj.
  1. Motivated solely by a desire for monetary or material gain.
  2. Hired for service in a foreign army.
intr.v. whored, whor·ing, whores
  1. To associate or have sexual relations with prostitutes or a prostitute.
  2. To accept payment in exchange for sexual relations.
  3. To compromise one's principles for personal gain.


Now say you were hired to kill the general of a terrorist organization or the american government, not that there is much of a difference, then you'd be a mercenary. Or hey even an assasin, that sounds even cooler ;)



Phoenixandnika -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 4:45:52 PM)

Karbon,
 
But is being paid for nonsexual favors the same as whoring? By its own definition whoring is being paid for sexual contact, favors, or compromising ones principles.
 
I mean think about you can scene with someone and not have ANY sexual contact at all. So in this instance I don't think being paid to allow someone to worship your feet is whoring because frankly I do not consider it sexual contact nor a sexual favor.

Nika{Phoenix}



jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 4:50:51 PM)

julia
is in the oceana????hope not; cause I do HAVE  a missing(suspiciously-missing in-absentia) aunt julia,too
anyway ,if i catch on to what you as a woman are saying
its that prostitution, or pandering insults never crossed your path,when in reality for a lot of womin,
insults for sex should be familiar to any woman
lucky to survive the daily habitual-harrassment.
i know some woman get some kind of sexual remarks,or sexual harassment at least 3 times per day minimum,or on the adverage,thats rite;
it's like waking up to:' good morning vietnam!!!'
(i did that,and practically the whole-script words and actions apart from production and addition of pretty pictures,THAT were added for mega bucks;i got ripped;it's, not a slave-thing;its a family thing i found out...anyway;
back to the subject);
SO.... ;it's,not unlike 'good morning vietnam,'!
,for womin, ESPECIALLY,....those who don't like men ,at all,but ,that's ,probably ,not the point ,of offering money, to submit;
its sort of a compliment,in a more positive lite,
out of respect ;saying you are 'in demand;'
and,
if you respect back ;you hand it back ,to the top ;somehow;anyhow....
it's ,also; an i don't wanna be close signal,
IE:i used,to offer,to pay,for "one kiss"....SO IT CAN BE CONSIDERED AS MORE OF A POLITE,GESTURE,RATHER,THAN A MORE PERSONAL OR MORE ,INTIMATE ONE,in,other respects; it CAN be somewhat appreciated ,as a power- game.
If you like the top; you could say: i love ,to see my mistress ,or master (who ever....) really do something imaginiative ,with money,and,is this it?

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I have a question about something on collarme.. Is it normal to email people and offer  money for submission? I had this happen to me and I was wondering if this is a common thing. I cannot remember ever in my life being offered money for my "favors" and it kinda shocked me (although I guess it shouldn't, this is the internet after all...lol). Im not exactly new to every BDSM user site, and I cannot remember this ever happening. Has this happened to others here?



KarbonCopy -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 4:57:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika

Karbon,
 
But is being paid for nonsexual favors the same as whoring? By its own definition whoring is being paid for sexual contact, favors, or compromising ones principles.
 
I mean think about you can scene with someone and not have ANY sexual contact at all. So in this instance I don't think being paid to allow someone to worship your feet is whoring because frankly I do not consider it sexual contact nor a sexual favor.

Nika{Phoenix}


To be hired out to be the object of a foot fetishes fantasies is sexual. Mabey not for you, but for them it is.
Its still a fetish.

fet·ish also fet·ich   [image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/JPG/pron.jpg[/image] ( P )  Pronunciation Key  (f[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/ebreve.gif[/image]t[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/prime.gif[/image][image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]sh, f[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/emacr.gif[/image][image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/prime.gif[/image]t[image]http://cache.lexico.com/dictionary/graphics/AHD4/GIF/ibreve.gif[/image]sh)
n.

Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.


Not to say that this is a bad thing to do. I was just pointing out that Mercenary was probably the improper term to use. I was beeing cheeky.

;)




juliaoceania -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 5:07:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug

its that prostitution, or pandering insults never crossed your path,when in reality for a lot of womin,
insults for sex should be familiar to any woman
lucky to survive the daily habitual-harrassment.
i know some woman get some kind of sexual remarks,or sexual harassment at least 3 times per day minimum,or on the adverage,

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I have a question about something on collarme.. Is it normal to email people and offer  money for submission? I had this happen to me and I was wondering if this is a common thing. I cannot remember ever in my life being offered money for my "favors" and it kinda shocked me (although I guess it shouldn't, this is the internet after all...lol). Im not exactly new to every BDSM user site, and I cannot remember this ever happening. Has this happened to others here?



James, I have been sexually harassed on a couple of ocassions, but never outright asked to do sexual things for money.... there is a big diff between hinting you could do better if you were more friendly to a boss then the boss saying,... " I will pay you X for doing Y" . I am a tall swedish looking blonde so of course I am used to a certain amount of cat calls and that sort of BS, but I am also 5 foot 10 and athletic... perhaps some of those types are afraid of me? (I hope so...lol)



MstrTiger -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 5:24:56 PM)


He cant have a very high opinion of himself if he feels he needs to offer you money for you to submit to him it seams like a very strange thing for someone to do perhaps he has a very specific fetish in which he must pay to have his feet worshipped.



mathiasdomm -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 11:04:08 PM)

I haven't seen that before, but I haven't been here long.  I'm discovering that there's a whole world of cash for sex out there that I didn't know about.  It's a common practice for my favorite local casino to send people who move (win or lose) thirty grand or more home with a house girl.  Then there's tons of porn sites that show the girl being paid off.  Prostitution busts are at an all time high.  Then there was that SA who worked on Capitol Hill in 2004 who was doing a Cabinet Deputy in exchange for access to his office and her rent each month.  Maybe that's how the swingers sites like adultfriendfinder work.  Half the people there could be folks looking to boost their business.  I really have no idea how big this is, but if I use my imagination, I could find it everywhere.  So maybe soon it'll be completely common place for people on the internet to make offers and requests of prostitution.  Mayeb it's becoming accepted.  I don't think it's something beyond cognition right now. 

-m      



CrappyDom -> RE: Offers of Money for Submission (4/22/2006 11:31:26 PM)

http://www.eros-guide.com/eros.htm

Sex for money, what a modern concept!



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