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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 11:07:39 AM   
Twoshoes


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The first time he did this I got all upset and when he asked what the problem was, I wailed "My hair needs washing"! First he calmed me down and then he explained it wasn't my hair he was looking at.


What was he looking at, your outfit??

Nope, probably his own outfit.
Something along the lines of:

"Wow, I look good in this shirt!"

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 12:32:55 PM   
rob21


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Status: offline 		I don't think any of you brought up anything about networking:

Because I am young and single, I often get coworkers or older friends pulling photos of there Daughters, Nieces, Cousins... out of there wallets to show me.  They may mention somthing along the lines of "shes really focused and doesn't go out much" or even more bluntly "she's single".  I guess I should be flattered they think I'm the sort of person they would want dating their relative, but it's awkward to be set up like this and it's nearly impossible to figure out if your sexual desires are going to match. 

By doing shoots you would be meeting like minded people.  You will be talking face to face so they can see for themselves what type of person you are. 

I think most of you have already found "the one" in which case you have supplied very valid reasons not to be filmed. The career issue is also a big concern and was brought up a few times.  I'm not concerned as I work in the technical field, I'm in a management position but am fairly low profile.  Everyone has their secrets.  

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 1:02:47 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		No problem at all with my owner filming me.  If I chose someone I can trust my life with, surely I can trust him with a camera and subsequent tapes.  I gave myself to him based on his character, and I trust in that character whether or not we remain together, years down the road.

No I would not do "adult modeling" and probably wouldn't have someone who did as a life partner.  I'm probably just ignorant on the topic, but it's just not something I'd be comfortable with. 


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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 3:02:12 PM   
DesFIP


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What was he looking at, your outfit??


You could call it that. About 30' of rope comprised the outfit.


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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 3:50:20 PM   
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By doing shoots you would be meeting like minded people.  You will be talking face to face so they can see for themselves what type of person you are. 

Oy vey.

Do you know what I did yesterday? I went to the London Alternative Market.
Do you know how many attractive,  friendly, like-minded people I met and talked face-to-face with? No, neither do I, because I lost count.

If you need people to be paid to have sex with you in order for you to meet them, you're doing it wrong.

<edited to add a preposition>


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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 4:41:35 PM   
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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 4:41:57 PM   
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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 5:11:22 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		I think I'd like to do one with my partner, more fun that way, and then relationship boundaries won't have to be compromised* such as no sex and oral sex out side our relationship* and if my partner was into that and did it with out me I'd be fine as long as I trusted them, and the money they made went to help the household, and not just stuff their wallet.

Hell yes I'd watch hehe.
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ORIGINAL: rob21



AND

2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all?  Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you?  Would you watch?

I did some modeling when I was younger and really enjoyed it.  Now that I'm older I would like to try some modeling of a different type.  I'd like to get a few views on this, anything you have to say is appreciated. 


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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 6:52:39 PM   
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Just be aware that any photos or video can come back to bite you in the ass later in life.


One of the advantages of already being later in life, I guess...

For me, its kind of a turnon, performing in front of others filmed or not.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/7/2010 7:33:46 AM   
SubPet715


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Status: offline 		I don't even keep a facebook or a myspace or a mybook or whatever the young people are doing these days, out of paranoia. One bad post about how I hate my job can get me canned, so you can imagine my reluctance to be filmed.



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RE: Being on Camera - 9/7/2010 8:15:01 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Ugh. This topic is very upsetting to me. My stupid ex took non-consensual videos of us and I have been trying to get them back for years now. He says he got rid of them, but I don't believe him. He has always threatened to post them somewhere and of course, you can hardly see HIM in them. I am infuriated with him and that is just one of a myriad of reasons I ended it.

I have had others take regular photos of me, but always got them back and destroyed them.

I would never do paid videos; I was a plus size model for many years and that was with clothes.

I will NEVER let anyone NEAR me with a video camera ever again.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/7/2010 1:23:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rob21
1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

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2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all?  Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you?  Would you watch?

1. I would let Daddy take pictures. I can trust that He wouldn't "show them around" or let them fall into the wrong hands.

2. I would NEVER do an adult modeling shoot. I had pics taken ONCE by a kinky friend though....with MY camera, as a surprise for Daddy, BUT person who took the pics didn't have copies. (It opened up a whole can of worms, but that's a whole 'nother topic.) Being tied up around other kinky people, yeah, I'd do that.....but NOT with pictures/films/videos being taken. I wouldn't want adult films of me to be made public. My profession has rules against "moral turpitude." I don't think it's necessarily immoral or anything, but employers and the nursing board don't always see things the same way I do. If Daddy wanted to be in an adult shoot without me, I wouldn't mind, as long as no actual sexual activity took place. If it was just bdsm activities w/o actual sex, that would be fine. If I knew He was having sex w/ someone else, I'd flip.......and not in a good way. Also, yes, I would want to watch.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/7/2010 1:42:39 PM   
SorceressJ


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ORIGINAL: rob21



I would like to know your opinions on the following:

1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

AND

2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all?  Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you?  Would you watch?

I did some modeling when I was younger and really enjoyed it.  Now that I'm older I would like to try some modeling of a different type.  I'd like to get a few views on this, anything you have to say is appreciated. 


1. Not for Me. I prefer to play My cards a bit closer to the chest - but that being said, I think there's definitely a market for alternative/BDSM porn (which done right, can even be educational, as well as wicked erotic), and if that's what interests you I totally think you should go for it.

2. Not at all, with or without My partner. I love to watch what others come up with, and My partner and I enjoy an *EXTENSIVE* porn collection, but it's not a choice I would make for Myself, it's just not My thing.




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RE: Being on Camera - 9/7/2010 6:03:32 PM   
Chrisincuffs


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Status: offline 		I allow Master to take pics of me however he pleases. I also love to take them for Him. I also have a Flickr account where I post some, however they are set to a private account and have to grant others permission to see it. Those pics are nothing that show my face and even if someone who knew me saw them, they wouldn't know they were my pictures anyway.

I don't enjoy being taped even by Master though. That's a hard limit for me

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/8/2010 2:57:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		I allowed Daddy to make a video of my masturbating for him one day, and when I played it back and saw the footage, I wanted it deleted immediately. I felt I looked really fat, horrid, and it was so not attractive, but Daddy said it was wonderful, cause it was me, doing something for him, an he loves me as I am. I was like awwww, thank you for the sentiment, but I still hate the video.
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I don't enjoy being taped even by Master though. That's a hard limit for me


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RE: Being on Camera - 9/8/2010 3:56:12 AM   
SorceressJ


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Status: offline 		tfb, I understand you here; and this is from someone with a more or less positive physical self-image. I do not feel that I am terribly photogenic, yanno?

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/8/2010 4:35:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		YES! I do know , and sometimes it sucks cause the emotiona an the place of the picture are sooooooooooooooooooooo pretty, and happy, but you're like ug, no way, this pic's never seeing the light of day again.

I purposely posted a pic I hated once, just cause the sentiment was there, and Ironically every one loved said pic.

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ORIGINAL: SorceressJ

tfb, I understand you here; and this is from someone with a more or less positive physical self-image. I do not feel that I am terribly photogenic, yanno?


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RE: Being on Camera - 9/8/2010 5:11:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		what also made making the video suck for me after the fact was, that when ever he'd masturbait, he never seemed to want to do it to the video I made, an it fueld my thoughts that it wasn't an appealing video, but really, it was more the fact that you gotta hold this cam corder, in one hand or somehow prop it up to do whatcha gotta do, an that only leaves one hand free, or is very awkward.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/8/2010 8:56:02 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		If Master wanted to film us not a problem It would be with the understanding we do it , we watch, we delete it. I trust Master 100% but things have been known to fall into the wrong hands. If we delete it right away no chance of that happening. Pictures no i don't think i would like pictures taken of me i am not photogenic.

As for modeling well depends if i would have to me naked no thanks. Even if i was gettin paid for it. Having videos taken with anothor also no go. If Master was going to do it with another that would be a huge problem we made a deal i was the only one he would be with. So obviously i would not watch, knowing me i would inttruput the shoot to ask him why he was doing that. That is just me.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/8/2010 8:42:54 PM   
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Interesting topic. I'm fine with being filmed in a situation/scenario, and wouldn't mind trying a modeling shoot now and again. Maybe it's that I've spent most of my younger years in utter shame of my body. It's a release for me in this stage of my life.

- Jewel

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ORIGINAL: rob21

I would like to know your opinions on the following:

1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

AND

2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all?  Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you?  Would you watch?

I did some modeling when I was younger and really enjoyed it.  Now that I'm older I would like to try some modeling of a different type.  I'd like to get a few views on this, anything you have to say is appreciated. 


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