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cuddleheart50 -> Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:29:11 PM)

I don't think this is a question to everyone, just an observation on my part.  Recently, in the past few weeks, I have been receiving large amounts of email from submissive men wanting to Dom me....Is it just me? my looks? that attract submissive men.  Maybe this is a question. Anyone else have this happen to them?



truesub4u -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:35:39 PM)

Nope... been getting same e-mails... i usually have to tell them... apparently you didn't read whole profile. 



KarbonCopy -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:37:27 PM)

Its the nature of the beast.

9 times out of 10, the men on this website are just cowardly little men sitting behind they're computer screens, looking for something to wank off to.

They're not submissives usually, but it puts them in a place to recieve attention from Dom/mes, and to Attend to submissives.

They're looking for anything  they can get really.

Welcome to Collarme.



darq -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:39:54 PM)

I've been on other BDSM sites before and I have the word submissive listed in my yahoo profile ... (I always clearly state that I am the submissive one ...) ... I usually get approached by submissive men wanting me to dominate them. On Yahoo I get approached by guys who expect me to not only dominate them, but to meet in real life at some place and go from there with 'some hot kinky shit, ya know?'



Phoenixandnika -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:43:10 PM)

Sadly, many simply send out what I call the cookie cutter emails. The send out the same exact email to everyone woman that shows up in a certain area or simply as a dominate or submissive.
 
Many also do not bother reading profiles.
 
Such is the nature of CM I suppose.
 
Nika{Phoenix}



OnyxGoddess -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:45:59 PM)

Might be me just butting in...BUTT- the same thing is true of dom/dommes.  Many of them claim they are but they just like freaky sex.  Nothing dominating about that.



bandit25 -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:46:17 PM)

I've been getting emails from submissive men that want me to dom them.  My response is usually,,,sorry, I wouldn't know what to do with you.



SweetEscravo -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:48:21 PM)

Most of those men probably just didn't take the extra ten seconds to read the profile before assuming you would do whatever they asked of you.



MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:48:49 PM)

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to Dom me

Do they want to Dom you or want you to be a Domme to them? Just clarifying.



foxnotinsox -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:49:47 PM)

quote:

... just an observation on my part.  Recently, in the past few weeks, I have been receiving large amounts of email from submissive men wanting to Dom me....Is it just me? my looks? that attract submissive men.  Maybe this is a question. Anyone else have this happen to them?


Just the past few weeks?? Hmmmmm patience .. plenty of time to get myriad other offers.

Myself ... I have had submissive men want me to top them, want me to submit to them, or even want to watch as somebody else dominates me. I have had offers to dress and attend me during play, and to clean me after sex. I have even had offers to dominate me after I refused to dominate them.
Hmmmmm .... but I have not been offered money for it yet ....

I think that it is the impact of numbers .. the more strikes they make, the more likely they will have a hit ...
<evil grin> either that or it is your warm welcoming smile =]



cuddleheart50 -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:51:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

quote:

to Dom me

Do they want you Dom you or want you to be a Domme to them? Just clarifying.


They want to Dom me.  They tell me that they would go from submissive to Dominant just for me...lol



foxnotinsox -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:53:29 PM)

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They want to Dom me.  They tell me that they would go from submissive to Dominant just for me...lol


heheheh .... such good boys, aren't they??
always willing to please =P



cuddleheart50 -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 4:56:13 PM)

If only the true Dominants were that persistant..lol



OnyxGoddess -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 5:00:56 PM)

key word with any category is TRUE.  Not just the ones looking for freaky sex.  And I agree with the reading a whole profile thing.  I think most people look at the pretty pic and drop an email.  Go figure.



OTKkindaGirl -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 5:04:59 PM)

i received an e-mail from a switch.....what he wrote was no form letter as it was directed towards my screen name and seemed a bit personalized.  to be honest i am not into switching so i was a little put off at first about responding to him... but i figure, you just never know.  He is in the adult industry and he is not just submissive in his roles but  he is well known by many Pro Dommes who would love nothing more than to dominate him, but he is not easily attainable.  In the vanilla world away from his realm of  BDSM/porn world and behind closed doors with me, he is quite dominant and more than adequate about it.  is it possible for somebody who is publicly submissive to be privately dominant?  just as easy for somebody who is publicly dominant and submissive behind closed doors from what reading these boards have taught me.  it is possible to be dominated from another submissive.  the question is, are they strong enough to withstand being  topped by you and if not then don't mess with them.  i personally think that his years of experience as a submissive makes him that much more better as a dominant.  he seems to know and understand my feelings better than i do myself sometimes. 



MstrTiger -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 5:48:48 PM)


I get a similar thing lots of Dom guys keep approaching me asking if they can become my hebitches.



cuddleheart50 -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 5:50:55 PM)

I just wish everyone would just read my profile, it does say submissive on there.....



ropesubby39 -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/22/2006 5:55:00 PM)

I do get emails from submissive male and i wished i knew why when it specifically states that i am a sub and not a switch.



MissyRane -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/23/2006 8:20:27 AM)

*A man's brain*: female=sex on legs    Domme not Domme who cares as long as I can get LAAAAIIIIIDDDDDDDD

[>:]



TeeGO -> RE: Submission attracts Submission? (4/23/2006 9:12:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50
Submission attracts Submission?


Not the thread I thought it would be. So maybe this is a hijack attempt, but it does match the title.

Anyway.

Finding a fulfilling D/s relationship is a VERY difficult task in and of itself. Finding what I’m going to talk about would have to be damn near impossible. I’m not looking for this, so let’s just call it a fantasy.

What I would love to find would be a female sub and connected to her in a fairly vanilla relationship. Together we then could serve a Dom/Domme couple. I just think that the dynamic would be so very cool. The energy, the relations, the empathy, the ecstasy. Call me crazy but that is what I think of when I think of heaven. But realistically to find such a group of people that would find that appealing would be very small. Then you’d have to be compatible. What chance of that happening? Not much that’s for sure.

Just a thought I’d share. I’m sure this does exist, maybe even it is quite common when couple convert from vanilla. But to actually seek this out and find it, that would defy all the odds.



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