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midtnsub4use -> Advice on assignment (9/9/2010 10:55:24 PM)

My Dom has ordered me to post photos of myself, this is a punishment for me. (I do deserve to be punished by the way)  He gave me very little guidance, only instructing me that I was to first, ask for advice from others and then follow through.

Here are my questions: One of the photos that I am to post includes my face. He told me that I was allowed to obscure my face if I choose by using some sort of blur or block. Here is my first problem, how much of my face do you think I can block and still provide the exposure that he wants? I really need help with this one, because my first thought is to totally block my face but I know that will not please him at all.

The next question is where are some places that I can post either the photos or a link to them so that they will get exposed. I know that I can put them on here but that is somewhat limited and I don't think it would please him at all. Also, how long should I leave them up? I am thinking 24 hours or so.

Anyway, thanks for reading this even if you don't have an opinion.

Amber



CalifChick -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/9/2010 10:59:56 PM)

How about you start off by getting rid of that gaping pussy pic? None of us really want to see it.



peppermint -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/9/2010 11:05:34 PM)

Please tell your Dominant that you can not post pictures on Collarme that are against the TOS that you agreed to follow when you joined the site.  Explain to him that when you did post the picture, it was removed for violating the rules of the site.  That includes explicit pictures as your first picture.  You can have this picture show up as a secondary picture, but genitals are NOT permitted in your first profile picture. 

As to where you can distribute your pictures.  Go to any yahoo adult chat room.  Give out your pictures.  I guarantee that within a short time they will be shared with all the horny net geeks on the site. 



FelineFae -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/9/2010 11:09:16 PM)

Agreed.

Do you have a valid reason that you shouldn't let your face be viewed ? Would it be harmful to your career or reputation ? If so, you need to talk to your dom.



GreedyTop -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/9/2010 11:17:24 PM)

what has already been said./...



KatyLied -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/10/2010 4:15:32 AM)

quote:

how much of my face do you think I can block and still provide the exposure that he wants?


Considering that we do not know him, how the heck can we answer that question?



DesFIP -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/10/2010 4:36:39 AM)

If you don't want to risk being outed to friends, family, and employers present and future, then don't show your face. Don't show any part of you that is very recognizable such as an unusual tattoo or a handmade piece of jewelry that you own the only piece of.

Tell him that punishment should be between the two of you. That since what he really has is an exhibition fetish by proxy, he needs to be honest about it. And not think with his dick instead of his brain.

And if this dom isn't your husband, then by outing yourself you are ruining your husband's life also. Or is he trying to get you outed so your husband will boot you out? Does your husband know about this? Because his wishes matter and an honorable dominant wouldn't be undercutting your husband.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/10/2010 7:30:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If you don't want to risk being outed to friends, family, and employers present and future, then don't show your face. Don't show any part of you that is very recognizable such as an unusual tattoo or a handmade piece of jewelry that you own the only piece of.

Tell him that punishment should be between the two of you. That since what he really has is an exhibition fetish by proxy, he needs to be honest about it. And not think with his dick instead of his brain.

And if this dom isn't your husband, then by outing yourself you are ruining your husband's life also. Or is he trying to get you outed so your husband will boot you out? Does your husband know about this? Because his wishes matter and an honorable dominant wouldn't be undercutting your husband.


What she said. ALL of it.

And there is NO way in HELL I'd post naked pictures of me anywhere.....with or without my face.

~sweetsub~



thishereboi -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/11/2010 5:16:40 AM)

quote:

He gave me very little guidance, only instructing me that I was to first, ask for advice from others and then follow through.


Tell him, when I get his money through pay pal, I would be glad to help him humiliate you. Until then, he is on his own.

As to how long you should leave them up? I guess that depends on how much you want them to be copied and used somewhere else. If you want them all over the web, you should leave them up at least a week.



purepleasure -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/11/2010 7:04:38 AM)

A punishment that could damage your offline life? I'd reconsider the relationship with this particular Dominant, or the types of punishments that he doles out.



SubPet715 -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/11/2010 9:08:11 AM)

So this is about the 4th thread I have seen like this, i'm desensitized to it...



PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/11/2010 9:23:49 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SubPet715

So this is about the 4th thread I have seen like this, i'm desensitized to it...


yeah, it is quite tiring that these days people don't seem to bother anymore to learn out of their own experience and find out things by themselves [8|]



DesFIP -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/11/2010 12:31:29 PM)

I have to admit that I'm curious if she's even ever met this doofus. Because I doubt it. It sounds like all online stuff to me.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: Advice on assignment (9/11/2010 1:58:35 PM)

~FR~
I think he's probably a HNG, cause if they were realtime, you'd think he'd do some kind of hands-on, real life punishment. I'd reconsider that "Dom" if he insists on doing something to ruin her offline life......pics like that could ruin her realtime family/friends/employment relationships, cause her to lose her job......all sorts of negative scheiss. If He really cared about her, He wouldn't make her do something that could ruin her entire life....in my opinion anyway.

~sweetsub~



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