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Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a Maste... - 9/14/2010 8:47:09 PM

slaveWpbFL1969

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Hello Men!
i just joined this site. i am a gay male sub or slave - 40 years old and fat. i am in NEED of a strong firm hand that will train and discipline me to ALWAYS SERVE You... as You see fit! i am telling You now that i am obese, because i want to always be truthful, forthcoming, respectful, and pleasing to my new Master!!!
i realize that most Masters will REQUIRE lots of hardwork and exercise and will also REQUIRE His slave to develop physically and to keep improving!!! i fully understand that, accept that, NEED that, and am willing to do just about WHATEVER IT TAKES to become a better slave/sub for Master, Sir, or Daddy! i am single, able, and willing to make long term commitments to a Master!
i humbly BEG to hear from You Sir!!!
slave wes

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/14/2010 9:59:25 PM

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Welcome to cm, Wes. I'd suggest dialing it down a bit.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/14/2010 11:40:13 PM

Toppingfrmbottom

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I know I am a woman and so not your target audience, but turn down the desperation. It's never appealing in either gender.

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ORIGINAL: slaveWpbFL1969

Hello Men!
i fully understand that, accept that, NEED that, and am willing to do just about WHATEVER IT TAKES to become a better slave/sub for Master, Sir, or Daddy! i am single, able, and willing to make long term commitments to a Master!
i humbly BEG to hear from You Sir!!!
slave wes

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/14/2010 11:53:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: slaveWpbFL1969

<snipped> am willing to do just about WHATEVER IT TAKES to become a better slave/sub for Master, Sir, or Daddy!
<snipped>

WHATEVER? Get real. Calm down. Read some NON-fiction (Start with Joseph Bean.)

But to the REAL issue here: A D-type can't solve your weight issues for you. You seem to be holding the thought that He will force/require/demand your weight loss. And worse, much worse, you have convinced yourself that the weight loss will NOT happen without such demands.

You are asking for a personal trainer. Nowhere do I see any relationship component. And nowhere do I see anything about what you have to offer.

Get real. Calm down. (A proven way to calm down is to walk around the block. Just once today. Report back, mister. That is, report back to yourself. See whether you feel better. Lather, rinse, repeat.)

Your goal here is to be able to write a profile that starts - Working on my weight loss, so hopefully that won't be an issue. I am.... <now give the positives in your life>

Look at the profile of SpiceGuy2009 http://www.collarme.com/personals/o/1/v/939555/default.htm
Look at all photos! Compare his 1st standing pose with last (most recent) standing pose.... Hard work so far, but he's getting there. WHY? Because HE decided HE didn't want to be fat. You are waiting for someone to decide that for you. Not gonna happen whether you are gay, straight, slave, Master, leather, or vanilla.

No one can decide that for you! But wait! There is one person! YOU can decide for yourself! (That's the hard part, the deciding. Acting on your descision will be much easier - not a walk in the park, mind you, but much easier than that first step. Speaking of steps.... did you walk around the block yet today?)

Join the thread about CollarMe biggest losers.... as of this writing 82 pages!
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2932206/mpage_1/tm.htm

Oh, and by the way.... do NOT bother writing directly. I simply don't have the time for a "slave" that can't even take care of himself. If he can't, how can he take care of the rest of his duties? Consider this a statement of tough-love.

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 9/15/2010 12:39:42 AM >

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 12:22:24 AM

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Your profile suggests calling a phone #. That's a red flag against you. Why? 'Cause scammers use that alot.

And VICE-VERSA, boy!!!! If someone does call, be careful that your desperation doesn't out-run your common sense.

Get that phone number OUT of your profile ASAP.

Calm down! (A proven way to calm down is to walk around the block. Just once today. Report back, mister. That is, report back to yourself. See whether you feel better. Lather, rinse, repeat.)

Oh, and by the way.... do NOT bother writing directly. I simply don't have the time for a "slave" that can't even take care of himself. If he can't, how can he take care of the rest of his duties? Consider this a statement of tough-love.

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 9/15/2010 12:28:17 AM >

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 12:44:56 AM

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One last one, folks. (Those of you that know me are going, "Yeah. Right. Sure, Lance. 'One last one' my ass.") LOL!

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveWpbFL1969
<snipped> am willing to do just about WHATEVER IT TAKES to become a better slave/sub for Master, Sir, or Daddy!
<snipped>

What if I said, "Lose 100 pounds and you WILL be a better slave/sub."?
I think your "just about" tells me the answer.

Get real. Calm down. (A proven way to calm down is to walk around the block. Just once today. Report back, mister. That is, report back to yourself. See whether you feel better. Lather, rinse, repeat.)

Oh, and by the way.... do NOT bother writing directly. I simply don't have the time for a "slave" that can't even take care of himself. If he can't, how can he take care of the rest of his duties? Consider this a statement of tough-love.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 12:56:27 AM

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I just lubs me some tough-love Lance!

OP, listen to him. Read and reread what Lance has said, because he is the real thing. The type of Dom that you claim to be seeking has given you some awesome advice.
What you do with it is up to you.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 1:14:49 AM

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Thanks, WyldHrt.

Let's see what happens....

I'll take the "NOTHING HAPPENS" side of the bet. Any takers for the other side?

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 7:47:04 AM

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O hell to the no on taking any bets that go against what you told him. Desperation is not a pretty trait in anyone, especially from someone who sounds, well, so desperate. I'm desperate for a million dollars, but I also know it ain't gonna happen.

Not rocket science, show yourself in a positive light, work on yourself, don't expect anyone to do it for you, and fer pete's sake, or in this case Lance's

do yourself a favor and quit acting like if you don't get what you want you'll just die. You are NOT Scarlett in "gone with the wind" so take a deep breath and give it another try, this time without the histrionics.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 7:28:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

Your profile suggests calling a phone #. That's a red flag against you. Why? 'Cause scammers use that alot.

And VICE-VERSA, boy!!!! If someone does call, be careful that your desperation doesn't out-run your common sense.

Get that phone number OUT of your profile ASAP.

Oh, and by the way.... do NOT bother writing directly. I simply don't have the time for a "slave" that can't even take care of himself. If he can't, how can he take care of the rest of his duties? Consider this a statement of tough-love.

I know you've been on CM, 'cause you perved my profile. How is ANY Master going to react to the fact that you did not follow the simple command high-lighted above?

I did not tell you to that for my sake, mister. That command was to protect YOURSELF! What the fuck is wrong with you?

P.S. Did you walk around the block today?

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 9/15/2010 7:29:17 PM >

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 7:37:51 PM

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Heck....I think you inspired everyone thats read this thread to walk around the block....
I did it twice, and Im not even in such need of the exercise as the Op is. Thank you.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 8:10:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Heck....I think you inspired everyone thats read this thread to walk around the block....
I did it twice, and Im not even in such need of the exercise as the Op is. Thank you.

You're welcome!

LOL!

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/15/2010 8:53:02 PM

WyldHrt

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quote:

Thanks, WyldHrt.

You are most welcome. Subby speaks the truth.

quote:

I'll take the "NOTHING HAPPENS" side of the bet. Any takers for the other side?

I lubs you... but I don't take sucker bets!

Oh, and I would have walked around the block today, but where I live that is 6-10 miles (depending on which block) of speeding country traffic with no sidewalks... so I settled for running my chubby butt off for 8 hours at work instead

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/16/2010 5:17:48 AM

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Welcome Wpb, you're very keen, almost distubingly anxious, even off-putting for some. You need to calm down and follow the good advice of other members.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/26/2010 3:41:44 PM

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Just checking up - OP still has one post as of this post. I wonder if his profile is still there.... BRB... yep, but hasn't been "on" since 2 days after he made OP..... :::SIGH::: I really hope he took the good comments (made by all) to heart.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/26/2010 4:10:32 PM

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Lance, many people who post here think that it's a short order cafe where they put in an order for a male or female Dom or sub. Once they find out that that's not how things work, they lose interest.

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RE: Gay Male slave will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get a M... - 9/26/2010 4:32:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveWpbFL1969

Hello Men!
i just joined this site. i am a gay male sub or slave - 40 years old and fat. i am in NEED of a strong firm hand that will train and discipline me to ALWAYS SERVE You... as You see fit! i am telling You now that i am obese, because i want to always be truthful, forthcoming, respectful, and pleasing to my new Master!!!
i realize that most Masters will REQUIRE lots of hardwork and exercise and will also REQUIRE His slave to develop physically and to keep improving!!! i fully understand that, accept that, NEED that, and am willing to do just about WHATEVER IT TAKES to become a better slave/sub for Master, Sir, or Daddy! i am single, able, and willing to make long term commitments to a Master!
i humbly BEG to hear from You Sir!!!
slave wes

Welcome to the forums slave wes. As one who is a switch and had been in service to a Master, I strongly suggest you slow yourself down and get to know people first before declaring you will do anything to be in service. Fact of the matter is, most Dominants are quite put off by a sub/slave claiming to do anything as it is far from reality and the truth. Frankly if anyone approached me in this manner, I'd quickly turn and walk away without any reply back.

Another good piece of advice is to heed the advice already given to you from Lance and from many of the other posters here. They know what they speak of. Use lots of common sense, use a level of respect and courtesy when communicating with others and your chances of finding a Sir or Master will vastly improve.

< Message edited by Wolf2Bear -- 9/26/2010 4:34:23 PM >

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