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RE: unrealistic? - 9/17/2010 11:48:26 AM   
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RE: unrealistic? - 9/17/2010 1:53:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSadi

Is it possible for a Domme to have other Domme friends??????


I think it is unrealistic to think a Domme or Dom can't have other dominant friends, in fact if they don't, I'd be worried...

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RE: unrealistic? - 9/17/2010 3:56:32 PM   
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RE: unrealistic? - 9/17/2010 4:20:21 PM   
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RE: unrealistic? - 9/17/2010 5:52:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think you should certainly have other Domme friends if that's what you want..
I can't imagine never talking to or being a friend with another Dominant

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RE: unrealistic? - 9/17/2010 8:58:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Stevie, you can't be friends with me.

*waits to see what happens*


I SAID, nobody tells me who I cannot have as a friend.


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RE: unrealistic? - 9/17/2010 9:34:26 PM   
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Wait, what was the stupid question?

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RE: unrealistic? - 9/18/2010 8:01:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, I know a few who are friends. It is not always easy, though. Some dommes are a bit insecure and jealous. They do not all play well with others.

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RE: unrealistic? - 9/18/2010 9:03:46 AM   
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RE: unrealistic? - 9/18/2010 9:43:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slavekal

Yes, I know a few who are friends. It is not always easy, though. Some dommes are a bit insecure and jealous. They do not all play well with others.



It's pretty easy to spot them, and avoid them, thank goodness. Of the MANY female dominants in my circle, none are insecure and jealousy? Not likely. Neither of those traits is pretty in a dominant anyway, IMO.

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RE: unrealistic? - 9/18/2010 12:59:05 PM   
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RE: unrealistic? - 9/18/2010 1:20:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzticStormz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyP4pgxaL9w&feature=player_embedded   Why two Dominants can't play cards.


That's AWESOME.Funnily enough, one of my favorite things to do with my male dominant friend is play cards. Sadly, it doesn't go down quite like that.  But it does highlight one potential pitfall in Dom/me/Dom/me (damn that's a lot of /) friendships: the pissing contest.


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RE: unrealistic? - 9/19/2010 1:14:34 AM   
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RE: unrealistic? - 9/24/2010 3:34:16 PM   
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RE: unrealistic? - 9/25/2010 5:37:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have several other Dom friends, Male and Female. I've even dated another Dom before.
(Of course it didn't work but we're still mates) Sometimes being with others just like you can really bring out your inner strength and creativity. My Slaves know what they're in for after I've had a night out with my Dom friends. A whole world of pain.

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RE: unrealistic? - 9/25/2010 7:04:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
If you're the type of person that doesn't have a lot of friends in other aspects of your life, it's probably going to work out the same in the BDSM community.


Why would you say this LP?

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RE: unrealistic? - 9/25/2010 7:13:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ReginaMirus

Not unrealistic, at all. It is the fabric of the Sisterhood. We have the uncanny ability to network and draw strength from each other.


From what I have read on the numerous sites, the submissives don't particularly like to entertain being called "sis," just because they wear the label of submissive.

So far I have found this true of femdoms as well.

To the OP, I think friendship with another domme tends to lean toward the type of personality each have.  I have a pretty laid back and shy personality and find it very abrasive when an extrovert outspoken type of femdom and I cmail.

I am not the socializing type to attend parties or munches, so I rely on the internet to help me find a domme to give me advice or chat with.
It's been difficult.

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