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slavetobetrained -> warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 10:40:35 AM)
how does one go about warning others about a so called "Master" who is down right dnagerous to potential slaves on this site??? He is not what He claims to be, nor does He have the experience that He claims to have had? i was very lucky to have escaped with just a broken heart, but He does and has found slaves on here to seek other slaves for Him. i have done it myself. if there is any way that i can put out a warning please let me know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks

kyraofMists -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 10:46:11 AM)
On this site there is no way; it is against TOS to do something like that.

MoRsSweetOne -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:01:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavetobetrained how does one go about warning others about a so called "Master" who is down right dnagerous to potential slaves on this site??? He is not what He claims to be, nor does He have the experience that He claims to have had? i was very lucky to have escaped with just a broken heart, but He does and has found slaves on here to seek other slaves for Him. i have done it myself. if there is any way that i can put out a warning please let me know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks Hi I dont think you can warn anyone about masters, we have all had a bad experience of the way a master treats our good nature. From my own experience i can only suggest that you maybe learn from this and be wiser next time about who you meet and what you are willing to do. If you are not comfortable with what he ask you to do then do what your heart tells you and get out of it and dont waste anymore time on him. There are lots of 'players' on here and you start to learn who are genuine and who are players. If you want to talk about it please feel free to message me, sometimes talking can help, I know, i have been there Take care and be strong Hugs lisa xxx

truesub4u -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:05:49 AM)
I am sorry about your problems with this one Dom. But I can't understand.... why what you found to be no good for you.... you feel is no good for everyone else?.... Outing someone because they do things you do not agree on.... I find this strange. I mean.. to disagree with someones way of doing things... I can understand... but not everyone will.

sharainks -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:11:16 AM)
I would be very careful about doing that in any situation. Just because someone hurt your feelings doesn't mean that will be the case with someone else. Lots of people claim to have more experience than they have. That doesn't necessarily make them dangerous, just liars. To me what you are saying falls short of dangerous. Dangerous is harming someone permanently either physically or psychologically. Its going on after a safeword is said. The word eventually gets around when people are truly dangerous. My suggestion would be either to communicate with other subs in your area or join a group. That will help you find a safety network.

quietWonder -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:12:46 AM)
the problem i see with having a black board of all the naughty Doms is that in pointing a finger at someone there are always atleast 3 pointing back at you. Regardless even if you ask for references we know darn well all we are going to get are positive references cause i am sure that no dumb Dom would give out the bad experiences to others especially if it is he/she that faulted. Be careful and ask for references and follow through with the reference check. Or ask others you trust in the lifestyle if they have heard of the said 'One'. If they have not, then it should leave one wondering why. Anyhow best of happiness and health.

ownedgirlie -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:15:45 AM)
What is horrendous to one is appealing to another. I am sorry you feel hurt, but I would advise you to focus your energies on moving forward and healing.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:18:54 AM)
Yes it is against the TOS here on collarme..and as truesub4 said your definition of bad Dom does not necessarily fit someone elses..We are all adults and will all hopefully have to weed through all frogs as best we may.I wish there was some way to avoid danger in our lives,whatever form it takes,but there isnt and lifes lessons and instincts will have to be enough..be well..Tempting

enthralled -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:25:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavetobetrained how does one go about warning others about a so called "Master" who is down right dnagerous to potential slaves on this site??? He is not what He claims to be, nor does He have the experience that He claims to have had? i was very lucky to have escaped with just a broken heart, but He does and has found slaves on here to seek other slaves for Him. i have done it myself. if there is any way that i can put out a warning please let me know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks My condolences with your situation; but there's no warning system here. Out of curiosity and with due respect, I'm curious as to why, if he's so dangerous and a fraud, do you continue to give him the respect of capitalizing when refering to him? Respectfully, enthralled

kyraofMists -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:28:37 AM)
Rather than pointing fingers at someone as "dangerous", maybe start a thread to discuss the warning signs and red flags that indicate someone as dangerous, a thread about what do others consider as dangerous behavior or a thread on what questions to ask before getting involved with someone. There are many more credible ways to communicate your message without naming names. Knight's kyra

JohnWarren -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:33:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists Rather than pointing fingers at someone as "dangerous", maybe start a thread to discuss the warning signs and red flags that indicate someone as dangerous, a thread about what do others consider as dangerous behavior or a thread on what questions to ask before getting involved with someone. There are many more credible ways to communicate your message without naming names. Knight's kyra This is an excellent suggestion... on a par with the differences between giving a fish and teaching how to fish.

sherry85 -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:41:38 AM)
If this person has asked you to commit illegal activities such as rape, bestiality, or necrophilia then you can turn them into support by selecting 'report profile'. There is no reason to turn someone in for being a liar. If you did that, then 80% of all profiles would have to be investigated daily.

RiotGirl -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 11:42:08 AM)
whats one man's junk is another man's treasure.. so hook me up!!!! lol j/k

Areflectionofyou -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 1:00:47 PM)
watcha gonna do with all that junk ..all that junk inside your trunk? ...had to sing it quote: ORIGINAL: RiotGirl whats one man's junk is another man's treasure.. so hook me up!!!! lol j/k

ScooterTrash -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 1:14:10 PM)
This is redundant, but there is little you can do and as odd as it may sound, enough runners and he'll learn to be honest. Sure, hopefully no one gets hurt in the process, but you can't point them out personally. Best case is putting enough info out there that the right questions get asked and the warning signs are heeded. As sherry brought up, if it was something illegal involved (other than the typical WIITWD) then that needs to be dealth with by the law.

slavetobetrained -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 2:58:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: truesub4u I am sorry about your problems with this one Dom. But I can't understand.... why what you found to be no good for you.... you feel is no good for everyone else?.... Outing someone because they do things you do not agree on.... I find this strange. I mean.. to disagree with someones way of doing things... I can understand... but not everyone will. this is NOT at matter of "outing" its a matter of personal safety from this so called "Master" he is not genuine and does plan on prostituting out the slaves that he procures either on his own or through his other slave. he is not what he claims to be nor does he have the experience that he claims to have, i should know, i actully scened with this man and i know the difference. it was just a question and i have my answer. just wanted other potential slave to be warned and be on the look out from someone who is potentially dangerous to their physical safety.

slavetobetrained -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 3:07:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sharainks I would be very careful about doing that in any situation. Just because someone hurt your feelings doesn't mean that will be the case with someone else. Lots of people claim to have more experience than they have. That doesn't necessarily make them dangerous, just liars. this "Master" and i state that loosely, isn't want he claims to be and certainly doesn't have the experience that he claims to have, and not only on this site, though he has deactivated his profile. as for damaging him psychologically, this man has NO conscience at all. after what he did to me for 8 months i am lucky to have escaped with my LIFE. being emotionaly, mentally, and verbally abused in order to manipulate me into "ruining his marriage" amongst other things is not a "Master" at all, more like a COWARD who hasn't the balls to do what he should do, step up and be a MAN. but he won't, as he has alot to loose.

Wulfchyld -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 3:11:52 PM)
I would say follow slaverosebeauty 's example.

slavejali -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 3:13:20 PM)
You can't give a warning on here about a poster, however, if you feel very strongly about something you have learned in the course of meeting various people and want to help prevent people going through the same thing, you could introduce educational topics, or contribute to topics using your own experience as a teaching aide to new people, making sure you talk generally and aren't pointing a finger at anyone. Saying that, people have to go through the process of life experiences themselves, so dont expect everyone to heed your advise or think its suitable advise for anyone and everyone.

slavetobetrained -> RE: warning other potential slaves about a "Master" (4/23/2006 3:14:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: quietWonder the problem i see with having a black board of all the naughty Doms is that in pointing a finger at someone there are always atleast 3 pointing back at you. Regardless even if you ask for references we know darn well all we are going to get are positive references cause i am sure that no dumb Dom would give out the bad experiences to others especially if it is he/she that faulted. Be careful and ask for references and follow through with the reference check. Or ask others you trust in the lifestyle if they have heard of the said 'One'. If they have not, then it should leave one wondering why. Anyhow best of happiness and health. in this situation it was not i but him who was deceptive, who treated me badly, as he easily and freely admitted and in his words "a woman scorned" he had a hidden agenda all along and the only reason why he did what he did, was to try to manipulate me into doing what he couldn't bring himself to do. i went through 8 months of head games, lies, deceitful practices. i did a bit checking out on my own and found several other personals on several other sites and basically said the same thing..and the kicker was is that "he didn't play games" the one thing that he is a "Master" of is playing games. because that is all he did with me. to use ones' feeling for another for their own person gain is not only morally wrong, but in the end he will get what is coming to him. i am not the only one who was played by this man, and i certainly will not be the last.

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