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frankenfurter80 -> RE: Why won't anyone talk to me? (10/5/2010 6:25:29 PM)

I'm new here too so I'll take any advice too.
My advice is to make the profile color easy. It might look cool but it's hard to read. Make sure you are telling the slave/sub what you're looking out of the relationship. Might be  unorthodox but it works out better. Look at their likes and dislikes. Might not be compatible if everything she hates you like.




phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: Why won't anyone talk to me? (10/6/2010 5:10:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: olinkalex

Sorry to ask, but I've been having hard weeks and I just want to know what I'm doing wrong.

I've send tons of messages to alot of girls that I realy want to talk to, but no matter what I do they just don't reply. I've check my inbox and they say that they have read my message, but they just won't reply to me.

I don't say anything rude or sick, I messages aren't short nor long, and I do send them a picture of me.

I don't know what else to put on here, but I guess I'm just asking can anyone please help me.


just looked at your profile the first thing i wondered was your loves etc there are way to many and unless you are experienced at shibari and suspension then i wouldnt put them as a love only curious my master although he has been using shibari for over 30 years still wouldnt attempt suspension as he feels he hasnt had the right knowledge to be able to carry it out safely and yes he could do it and has tired but wont do much untill he is sure.

your list of loves and hates etc is way too long and your profile colours give me eye ache looking at it if you ahd send me a message i would have looked at your profile and seen nothing about you only a list which cant tell me anything about who you really are.

i am dyslexic, ADD, and aspergers but i would never put any in a profile its something that i would discuss later.

also how you phrase your profile it looks to me like you only want a house help, there is noting that shows qho you are and what you can give to a sub that is special over the next person.

when i was looking profiles were the most important thing when communicating online with others if the profile didnt enspire then i would look at the next, it is a window to who you are , a medium to advertise yourself, impressions are made in the first few minutes and the profile is the first few minutes.




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