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Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 5:53:01 PM   
sissislv4u2own


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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 6:01:30 PM   
poise


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What are you doing to make yourself attractive to a man, whether he be a Master or not?
What do you have to offer them? Fill out your profile...let it tell your story so others can see you as
a person, and not just a number begging for a collar.
Blinking neon signs of desperation isnt going to work.......not for quality at least.

< Message edited by poise -- 9/26/2010 6:03:24 PM >

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 6:13:34 PM   
littlewonder


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Talking, getting to know one another, spending time with each other, dating, loving each other, etc...

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 6:19:56 PM   
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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 6:26:18 PM   
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Filling out your profile, writing in your journal, and ditching the desperation, should really help. When you're truly happy single, and you can relate well to others- someone's sure to come along.

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 6:52:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you're that desperate, why haven't you filled out your profile?  Truly desperate fisherman put bait on their hooks.

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 6:56:56 PM   
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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 8:22:03 PM   
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answer others ads or at least look at them  and see if you get a reply

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 9:33:30 PM   
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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/26/2010 9:45:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

Does it count as kneeling if it's on all fours?

Good question. How about you demonstrate and I'll be the judge.

To the OP: There is no easy way to jump into a long term relationship, whether it be M/s, D/s, vanilla, or what have you. Depending on the type of thing you're after you can try to get to know someone (or many someones at the same time). Or you can jump in with both feet, do the whole 'here I am, take me baby I'm yours' schtick, and hope for the best.

As an old song goes: People are people, so why should it be. You and I get along so awfully?

Everyone is different. Live, learn, adapt. And best of luck!


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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/27/2010 5:25:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sissislv4u2own

How does on begin a ltr with a Master..really begging to be owned.......


do you want kink or a rounded relationship.

if youre both after the kink then i guess so, but if youre looking for something thats going to last you need to get to know each other a bit first.  no point begging to be owned by an asshat and any Master worth his salt isnt going to go accepting ownership until he finds out exactly who it is he will be the owner of.

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/27/2010 7:43:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sissislv4u2own

How does on begin a ltr with a Master..really begging to be owned.......


My Master wasn't begging to be owned but then again I wasn't either... at least not until I got to know Him.

There is so much information missing from your post.

Is there a specific Master you have in mind or are you just wanting any Master to own you.

If it is the second... and you want anyone, it really doesn't work that way, at least not in a way that is satisfying for many, I think.

For me, I needed to be worthy to a specific person.

Are you already in a relationship with a dominant partner?
If you are then you need to see if it is a good fit for both of you.
And then you meet his needs to the best of your ability.

If you aren't in a relationship, then I would advise that you become more clear on what you have to offer and what qualities you seek.

Trying to be owned by someone, when the fit isn't right is a fast track to unhappiness.

For me, it wasn't enough to be owned by just anyone.
The context of who he is and who he is to me is what makes being worthy of being owned special.

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/27/2010 10:35:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko
I fell in love with him first, gave myself to him second. I know that's not how it's always done, but that is just how it happened.
This is how it'd work for me.

Insofar as who begged whom for a collar, I personally don't care. At some point the time will be right and then someone will bring it up.

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/28/2010 11:56:46 AM   
jujubeeMB


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ORIGINAL: Shadow-tiger
quote:

ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB
Does it count as kneeling if it's on all fours?

Good question. How about you demonstrate and I'll be the judge.


That was clever. Well played, well played...

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RE: Kneeling nude on all fours - 9/28/2010 12:59:56 PM   
Arturas


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ORIGINAL: sissislv4u2own

How does on begin a ltr with a Master..really begging to be owned.......



Greetings,

I don't suggest your natural passion is "desperation". Such a passion is to be encouraged and watered and given sunlight.

Now back to the question you pose and it's a short and very interesting question. I am 24/7 with a girl I met here on CM so I am confident this worked for me.

I wrote her an honest email about myself, my vanilla interestes and no discussion of anything of kink or anything sexual. We both felt it important to become friends in a vanilla world before becoming friends in relationship less so. We wrote a few times and then called, we called some more and some more and a few weeks later she acepted a vanilla dinner date, a public meeting, and then another and another until we knew and trusted each other, then....

So, the basic formula of girl meets boy works here as on vanilla dating sites. The goals are simply spiced up, hotter and kinkier but the start is much the same even if it is on CM.

Best wishes,
Arturas

< Message edited by Arturas -- 9/28/2010 1:00:37 PM >

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