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Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:20:17 AM   
tnFemdomcpl


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Status: offline 		Myself and My slave husband have a profile on collarme. and some Dom send a message and said I was f((((+ ugly wearing my blue scarf. I dont appreciate someone visiting my profile and saying this, I dont think this is a policy of real Doms. Is it?
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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:23:27 AM   
KyttynTheMynx


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Status: offline 		It has nothing to do with a Dom, and everything to do with someone with a lack of manners. Pardon the way this next part sounds, but you need to grow a thicker skin. Not everyone is going to find you attractive, and likewise, not everyone is going to find you unattractive. You are wasting energy on some punk that probably doesnt even amount to a hill of beans. Go spend that energy on something positive.

Block. Delete. Move on.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:23:45 AM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Why do you care what some idiot stranger thinks?
People are jackasses. Let it go.


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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:24:50 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Agreed with the previous posters.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:27:32 AM   
Twoshoes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tnFemdomcpl

Myself and My slave husband have a profile on collarme. and some Dom send a message and said I was f((((+ ugly wearing my blue scarf. I dont appreciate someone visiting my profile and saying this, I dont think this is a policy of real Doms. Is it?


No.

If I've sent anyone anything offensive EVER, it's because of bad wording not a bad intent.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:33:19 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Perhaps they meant to say that color blue is ghastly against the pale white of your skin?

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:39:18 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		The internet is full of dicks who love to send insults in the hope that they will upset someone. Block them.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 6:50:54 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Some people have such fragile egos that they have to tear others down in order to build themselves up. The internet makes it easy to do a drive by insulting. It also gives people with poor social skills a curtain to hide behind and a way to take out their frustration on others over not having a relationship of their own.

A decent person of any persuasion wouldn't stoop to this. The title of Dom is mainly self-conferred and anyone can say that's what they are without actually living up to it.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 7:15:41 AM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Obviously you didn't read the Dom manual issued at the opening of every dom account. In chapter 4, it clearly states that any dom/dom look-a-like can state any self-evident truth to anyone at anytime.   So, yes, it is policy, and he/she didn't violate any policy  -  in fact, they were being true to their domly self.

Now, if a sub/slave/bottom had made the same comment to a dom/top they would have clearly been in violation of  chapter 10, page 87443 , midway down where it states that no sub/slave/bottom can make any comment to a dom/top that could possibly be interpreted as "negative".

So , there you have it!   OK for domly types, forbidden for subly types.



so ....... all this goes to prove that when i call My Sir an arsehole, i am paying him a compliament -  - - - because i would never violate policy!


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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 7:52:53 AM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tnFemdomcpl

Myself and My slave husband have a profile on collarme. and some Dom send a message and said I was f((((+ ugly wearing my blue scarf. I dont appreciate someone visiting my profile and saying this, I dont think this is a policy of real Doms. Is it?


No, it is a policy of real assholes.

What is a real Dom anyway? What is real for one is unreal for another.

Don't be upset at what pixels on a screen says to you; your ego should not be so fragile.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 9:09:39 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Hey there,

The chances are that you'll get quite a few really stupid emails.

If you were to start a thread each time, some of us may well get the impression that you're too sensitive to enjoy a crazy place like CM tho.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 10:16:50 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		reminds me of a time someone wrote to me about me having a big fat ass. i found it funny cause if anything i wish i had a lil bit more junk in the trunk.
i read a bumper sticker not long ago that said dont worry about what people think they rarely do.
i for one find scarves and veils where only the eyes show very attractive.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 11:14:45 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I'm a real Dom and my policies are with Liberty Mutual.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 12:19:18 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		See, this only goes to show how important a sense of fashion is.  Like it says in my sig, "looking good is a choice".  We all know that blue is for boys, pink is for girls and red is for sexy women.  If it had been a red scarf, you would have avoided this calamity and there would be no need to investigate the "policy of real Doms". 

The Policy of Real Doms extends to much more than your choice in scarf color.  I can't even begin to list everything in the policy and how lipstick color effects blow job appeal or how important fingernails are and how they influence hand job appeal and are a test of intellect for women.  May I ask, are you fingernails round or square?

-=Real Doms Fingernail Fashion Advice=-

I love long nails.  Not the fake ass square tip, excessively back filled 2 inch long acrylic nails, but I love executive length to full length oval shaped tips.  Gimme’ a girl with silk wraps and a real old fashion oval shaped French manicure please. 

Those square nails were first (falsely) promoted as fashion by those Asian nail parlor chains in SoCal.  The clients were so high fumes because of poor ventilation in those stuffy little shops, they didn’t realize the shop was peddling an unfinished job as “fashion”.  The damn nails come from the factory square, you are supposed to shape them!  The sweatshop nail parlors fooled you into thinking it was fashionable so they could crank jobs out faster and humiliate Americans at the same time.  I don’t blame the shops, I just blame the people intoxicated on fumes that bought that bullshit.

I was embarrassed when my girl came home with square nails one day.  I sent her back and told her to make whomever did that finish the fucking job by actually shaping the ends.  It made me feel she had a “blonde moment” and let someone outsmart her.  I have since learned to tolerate these glaring “silly Sally square tip” fashion errors and I try not to think less of the fools that fell for the great Asian fashion conspiracy of SoCal.  But when women start wearing unfinished seams on their clothes, unfinished haircuts and half a make up job as fashion to match their unfinished square nails… you will all have to forgive me because I will that guy laughing out loud.  The fashion conspiracy will have just gone too far for me to keep my reaction contained.  



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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 1:12:09 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Wow, and here I am thinking I am high maintenance. RS, you warm the cockles of my heart!

P.S. I have a french manicure slightly squared off and I doubt you would have an issue with them. At least no one did when I ran my nails down wherever they asked....

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 1:33:06 PM   
myotherself


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From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline 		OP - don't sweat it. Twats send twattish messages - it's as simple as that. It's their way of projecting their own inner hatred and disgust at themselves onto a stranger.

Although in my first couple of weeks on here, I got a message from a local "dom" telling me I was a fake, a wannabe, etc. And then he blocked me so I couldn't reply.

About a year later I went to my local munch - and there he was! OMG - I nearly died laughing! He must have weighed 150lbs, stood about 5 feet 4 in his built-up shoes and had a face that looked like it had been used as a brake when he ran into a wall.

Somehow the annoyance and irritation faded into pity...lol

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 3:19:59 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		OP, there are a bazillion assholes online. Block and delete, so you don't waste time on them. You look lovely in your scarf, and it doesn't matter what every random asshole online thinks anyway. He could say you look lovely, and still be a jerk. Grow a thicker skin. Welcome to the internet.

Just because someone identifies as dominant, doesn't mean they are. I think a lot of assholes might try to say they're dominant because they think it means they can get away with being a jerk. They can't, unless we let them. So don't let them. Block, delete, and stay focused on people you like.

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 3:23:41 PM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

The internet is full of dicks who love to send insults in the hope that they will upset someone. Block them.


very well said....as others said, don't take such remarks personal, just block, delete and move on. Life is too short to be bothered about nonsense from others

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 3:37:33 PM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
how lipstick color effects blow job appeal
how important fingernails are and how they influence hand job appeal and are a test of intellect for women. 




lipstick???
long finger nails???

Heck, you should have told me before my last disaster date...NOW I know why he blamed me not to be a "girlygirl"
I did not know that fucking lipstick and uncomfortable long nails are mandatory in the US
not that I would have cared, though


quote:

I was embarrassed when my girl came home with square nails one day. I sent her back and told her to make whomever did that finish the fucking job by actually shaping the ends.


adores everhope for managing to live up to such a demanding standard....I would be wearing woollen gloves 24/7 if I would know such huge expectations


quote:

But when women start wearing unfinished seams on their clothes, unfinished haircuts and half a make up job as fashion to match their unfinished square nails… you will all have to forgive me because I will that guy laughing out loud. The fashion conspiracy will have just gone too far for me to keep my reaction contained.



looks like I would fail in all expections ....all of a sudden it is a blessing to be single

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RE: Ugly - 9/27/2010 3:43:31 PM   
MistressRosalyn


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Status: offline 		First, don't worry about what others think/say. That so-called dom is just angry that you didn't give him any wank fodder.

Second, personally, I'd have gone for a dark purple or black scarf. You can hide your identity whilst still being a fashion icon...see pics for proof...if they come out, that is. Some men go nuts for the sexiness of the unknown.

Third, RS, do you feel all better now after getting all of that off your chest? Personally, Southern Californian that I am, I prefer a squoval shape. It looks so sexy when I have his nuts in my hand.




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