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O/our profile - 9/27/2010 6:46:18 AM   
tnFemdomcpl


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Status: offline 		Good Day everyone..!!

I don't know if this is the right place to ask this or not? But I will give it a try..

My slave/husband is now confind 24/7 to a wheelchair so I had him create a profile for Me to seek a female sub.slave for a 24/7 Poly relationship. now I have had MANY view the profile. but very few have sent Me any cmai.. Are most subs or slaves see Me as a male, or is My profile show me as just to soft for those seeking a 24/7 relationship?

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RE: O/our profile - 9/27/2010 6:58:15 AM   
poise


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Status: offline 		No offense, but I didnt see anything in your profile that interested me, other than taking the long way home to the
manor and stopping to look at nature. Many will look, not everyone will buy. Its called window shopping.
Also, there is some discrepancy between your 2 profiles. Age and interests should be consistent...no?

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RE: O/our profile - 9/27/2010 7:04:03 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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Status: offline 		Single bisexual women willling to join existing couples are known as unicorns. That's because they are rare. Add in your partner's disability and that's going to make things tougher. The odds would be tough even if you had a sparklingly brilliant profile, which in all honesty you don't-the grammar makes it difficult to read, and you make a lot of statements about what's going to happen to this potential unicorn without any mention of what you can offer or what you are like as people.


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RE: O/our profile - 9/27/2010 7:09:10 AM   
Madame4a


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Joined: 2/4/2008
From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		As mentioned above, your two profiles definitely don't match.. and frankly, neither of them make any sense to me.. you might want to reread and edit carefully.. is English your first language?  Either way, you might want to fix some of your grammar and construction... which may mean nothing to some.. but means something to me...

uhmm.. I find both of your profiles a bit odd... the pictures too and if its all about the "Manor" .. .or Domain... show a picture of this manse ... if it is such.. because frankly, I'm pretty skeptical in general and when I read words like that.. they translate to townhouse... certainly that's what my manse is... LOL

good luck.. you're looking for a needle in a haystack.. search "unicorn" in the poly forums...


and edited to add... I didn't see VC's post when I posted.. but yes.. what she said

< Message edited by Madame4a -- 9/27/2010 7:10:24 AM >

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RE: O/our profile - 9/27/2010 7:20:33 AM   
Twoshoes


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Status: offline 		*Looks at VC's profile.*
*Attempts to find a grammar mistake.*

She only misused grammar on purpose. That's just peachy.

For some unexplainable reason reading that made me want to dance.
Yeah, on a Monday morning.
No, it's not lame if it's to Bomfunk MC's "Freestyler".

Who hasn't heard that since the 90s? :P

T/topic, S/something, U/unicorns. Rofl.

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RE: O/our profile - 9/27/2010 8:22:40 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		I really wasn't attracted to the profile. There was a distinct lack of warmth and the admonishments with accompanying exclamation marks left me flat. The entire profile is centered around you....it made me feel like an interchangeable toy. Of course this is what some people would like so what does/doesn't appeal to me might be heaven to someone else. Oh...and also the bit about the slave not being played with for weeks at a time until you felt like doing it again...once again, not for me. I'm more of an ongoing relationship driven person.

It seems that what you are looking for is rare to begin with - the whole unicorn thing- and then adding in what you are looking for in qualities narrows down the prospects even more. Also, your husband's disabilities could be a possible hindrence. All in all people may be dropping in to look but find themselves uninterested in the package. Have you considered being more proactive and searching out possible females yourself? Waiting for the right person to drop in and stay a while might limit you even more.

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RE: O/our profile - 9/28/2010 9:14:01 AM   
tnFemdomcpl


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Joined: 3/17/2010
Status: offline 		Thank You to everyone that has taken a look at My profile and given their opinions. I tried to fix the grammer as well as match the interests in both of My profiles.

And I have to be truthfull and leave my male slave/husband in the profile. If I take it out of the profile, I will feel like I'm lying to everyone!

Not sure how to word that it is confind to a wheelchair. but it cleans the house and cooks, does laundry etc. its legs just no longer work and it can't get on floor anymore or walk.. I dont need any help with it/him AT ALL

Thank You!!

Mistress Reddragonflowr

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RE: O/our profile - 9/28/2010 9:52:05 AM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		From my point of view, I wouldn't give your profile a second look.  You lost me when you bragged about your house being superior to an apartment or townhouse.  I really dislike someone putting down others due to how they live.  It's tacky to do so.  So, to me your profile says..."I'm a superior Domme because my house makes me so".  That rubs me the wrong way.  How does your house make you a better Domme than the one living in an apartment, condo, townhouse, mobile home, or motor home? 

Other than that, I think it's great that you take care of your husband/slave.  I cared for my late husband so I know how exhausting that can be.  It's good that you mention that care in your profile.  Any candidate to live in your superior home needs to know and understand that your care for your husband needs to come first.  It is best to be upfront about it. 

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RE: O/our profile - 9/28/2010 11:13:53 AM   
tnFemdomcpl


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Status: offline 		LOL no I dont think I'm superior to anyone but subs/slaves ... I didnt have the house mentioned like that in the previous profile.... W/we live not far from a bad part of twon called projects. I just wanted those that were/are interested to know that I am giving them a decent sized room to live in. Its far from a Superior home. and I'm really sorry you thought it says that... W/we lived in an RV for over 9 months while the house was being rebuilt from a fire..

I just took another look at My profile .. and although its a sandpaper profile.. I dont say anything about my house being superior..
W/we live in an area thats kind of in the middle... to one side is the projects.. and just a mile or so down the road is houses that make this one look like a little shack..


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RE: O/our profile - 9/28/2010 11:28:51 AM   
BonesFromAsh


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tnFemdomcpl

LOL no I dont think I'm superior to anyone but subs/slaves ... I didnt have the house mentioned like that in the previous profile.... W/we live not far from a bad part of twon called projects. I just wanted those that were/are interested to know that I am giving them a decent sized room to live in. Its far from a Superior home. and I'm really sorry you thought it says that... W/we lived in an RV for over 9 months while the house was being rebuilt from a fire..

I just took another look at My profile .. and although its a sandpaper profile.. I dont say anything about my house being superior..
W/we live in an area thats kind of in the middle... to one side is the projects.. and just a mile or so down the road is houses that make this one look like a little shack..




The word "Manor" calls to mind something like a country estate. Maybe you could be a bit more realistic in the way you present your surroundings. I also agree with what lizi said...the profile lacks warmth and comes across sort of flat. If these words aren't an accurate description of you or your partner, why present yourself that way?

Edited because I'm havin' a bad tech day.

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