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Gay Masters: Bisexual Guy's Expectations for Anal? Your... - 9/27/2010 7:14:54 AM

DudeBro

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I'm in my mid twenties, have had girls on and off but also am attracted to guys that are agressive, very masculine, and that are the type of dudes that throttle types of guys like me...but as a bi guy I feel like my hesitations and need to be managed if anal is involved somehow in the eyes of Masters / Trainers puts me at a disadvantage compared to gay subs....how do you handle things with your subs who are bi / straight even?

Any advice on how I can be a better and obedient dude?

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RE: Gay Masters: Bisexual Guy's Expectations for Anal? ... - 9/27/2010 7:48:32 AM

Twoshoes

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Well.
I'm not Bi (as far as I'm aware).

But one of the things that's preventing me from fully testing that out is the dislike for anal sex.

So... I know what you're talking about.

Luckily, I'm attracted to women and half the people I meet happen to qualify as such!

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RE: Gay Masters: Bisexual Guy's Expectations for Anal? ... - 9/27/2010 8:16:08 AM

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Personally, I don't fuck.....

Kinda got out of the habit as soon as the transmission vector for AIDS was known (1984, yeah, last century! LOL!)

IMO, most BDSM does not involve cumming.

There's so many other ways to play with a boy than fuck him.

I do like getting blown - a quid pro quo for most sessions with Lance. One of my best relationships started with: "I'll cane you if you'll blow me." Ans: "Sure." And off we went for a 2-1/2 years together.

How many orgasms (total count) have happened in your BDSM experiences so far?
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ETA: Nice profile... you mention (at very end) getting fucked. That could easily disappear from your (almost too long) profile. You list many, many ideas as to what might happen. Journal has results of San Antonio trip but you don't say whether that included anal..... mAybe expand what was good and what was bad, so that a potential top / Master would get a better feel for you and what you're looking for.

Flashed on this: You talk about expanding limits all over your (almost too long) profile. Anal sex could be negotiated INTO scene - resistance rape kinda thing.

Tone down porno aspect of your (almost too long) profile. I started to glaze over it, since it got a little repeatitious.

Just keep on keepin' on.

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RE: Gay Masters: Bisexual Guy's Expectations for Anal? ... - 2/15/2011 11:27:51 AM

AzLavan

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Wow. My pet is bi, and we TALKED BEFORE WE ACTED. lol The point is, talk it out, make sure all apprehension is made known.

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RE: Gay Masters: Bisexual Guy's Expectations for Anal? ... - 2/15/2011 11:40:21 AM

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I'd make it clear on your profile that you're not into anal, that's all. I've seen plenty of gay doms who aren't into it either.

Personally, I love being fucked ^_^
I could never be with a dom that didn't have an interest in it, but everyone's different

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RE: Gay Masters: Bisexual Guy's Expectations for Anal? ... - 2/15/2011 1:03:33 PM

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Make your preferences known and accept that it will limit your appeal.
Alter your preferences with physical or emotional training.

-=Retraining=-
If it’s emotional - Find a nice partner willing to anally train you. Someone to open your mind to a different perspective and ignite your passions for anal.

If it’s physical – go to sex shop and buy a set of plugs that graduate in size. Sleep with one in at night and step up the size as you are able. Eventually you will be much more comfortable.

Or, fuck the dumb shit and just give up the ass anyway, you can’t always get what you want. And just in case, remember Astroglide is your friend . . . carry it with you at all times.

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