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sub to sub munches - 9/28/2010 5:42:08 AM

RealSub58

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There is a sub to sub munch in our area. I no longer attend. I was bored out of my mind.

I am wondering what other sub to sub munches are like??

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RE: sub to sub munches - 9/29/2010 2:43:03 AM

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Lol, I've never even heard of a "sub to sub" munch....

Every munch I ever went to was maybe 60% male subs in attendance. So yeah, I totally relate to the boredom bizzo. Somewhat creepy, too...!

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RE: sub to sub munches - 9/29/2010 9:40:18 AM

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Wow. I never heard of a sub to sub munch. For me that would be unbearably limiting! In our area the population is not so large as to accomodate specialization. Even the TNG only has 10 members and most of those live 90 miles away. Find a munch that offers you more conversation is you can.

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RE: sub to sub munches - 9/29/2010 9:52:54 AM

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In Sarasota Florida we had an evening munch and a separate submissive's lunch.

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RE: sub to sub munches - 9/29/2010 10:16:21 AM

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I had the pleasure of attending a "slave circle" once or twice where the subs/slaves/property/etc got together and talked for awhile. I can't relate to being bored though. I found their company fascinating, I learned a great deal from them and it was very nice to have others where I felt like it was 'safe' to release/vent about things Valyraen did that drove me crazy. Sadly, it ended due to members having to move/life situations changing and it, overall, simply dissolved shortly after I joined. Which I swear was not my fault...

I would very much like to find another one to attend. While I'm not very head spaced focused, I found that it did wonders for me to be around others who 'got it', where I could share my frustrations and my joys about the life path I've chosen.

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RE: sub to sub munches - 9/29/2010 1:46:07 PM

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I think if I was owned, then I might find it interesting and useful. Much as Aqua said, it would be a great place to vent, solicit advice, and discuss 1001 other relationship issues.

But as I'm unowned, I think I would find it a bit frustrating. I need to be IN a relationship to get the sub/slave headspace.

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RE: sub to sub munches - 9/29/2010 8:22:04 PM

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I've attended many munches, though mainly pansexual with all types present. However, there is always a healthy number of sub/slave men. Believe it or not, they are people too, and have interests and ideas. I know, who knew? I'm pretty darn verbal and I like to talk.

If we meet in a play space, it's similar. Sometimes one of our owners has to step in and take control, or haul off a slave to beat on him for a while, but I've never been bored. It's fun to watch a fellow slave grovel and get slapped or otherwise beaten, anyway.

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