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Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 4:37:56 PM   
Bravado


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Status: offline 		Doms and subs should both have plenty of interesting examples. As you have delved deeper into the BDSM lifestyle, what were some pleasant surprises of what you did not expect to enjoy or did not know about at all? Maybe you have a story to tell.

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 5:47:42 PM   
pwnerandpwned


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Status: offline 		Mine is mild. I never knew I'd enjoy somewhat abusive/profane language during sexual situations. I'm generally very clean-mouthed, and when first given the idea that my partner would want to be called "slut" and other such things, I felt very awkward when casually using some of my new vocabulary. :P

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 6:01:29 PM   
gungadin09


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Status: offline 		sex.
coffee, wine, roller coasters, foie gras, sashimi, horror movies

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Oh, and BDSM.

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 6:03:08 PM   
Kaliko


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Status: offline 		A good, warm, fuzzy slap across the face....who knew?

Oh, and I'm also surprised that I like to _______ a ________ out of _______ ________. Didn't see that one coming at all. :)

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 7:20:09 PM   
slaveluci


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Status: offline 		Being caned. I was always terrified of it but the first time Master did it, I absolutely loved it. It was nothing like I'd imagined. And it's been good every time since

luci

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 7:34:47 PM   
MistressRosalyn


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Status: offline 		Figging. I knew nothing about it until a friend of mine from Oz mentioned it. So we tried it and WOW! Absolutely the best!

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 7:38:07 PM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		I didn't think I would like needles and knives, but they can be great fun

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 8:25:41 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		electrical play, wax play, needles, knife play, fire play, cupping and anything else that Mistress hasn't tried yet.

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 9:25:17 PM   
Rochsub2009


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Status: offline 		Crossdressing.  I never had any interest in it.  But I once served a Domme who thought that it would bring me down a few notches if she made me go to work everyday wearing panties underneath my business suit.  I was amazed at how aroused that kept me.

That probably doesn't qualify as "crossdressing" to you males who like to wear complete outfits of women's clothes, but for me that was a big step.

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 9:59:41 PM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		I tried being stapled on a whim (I'm usually the top for sharps) and liked it.

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 11:38:35 PM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		for me it was breath play i was not sure at all and thought it may be a red but master said he would start of very lightly and softly tilll i found if it was a red or not as soon as he put his hand on my neck i was gone and it sends me to space so fast i love it

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/28/2010 11:53:57 PM   
Carouselambra


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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 4:53:49 AM   
HeidiAnn


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Status: offline 		Running on a treadmill comes first to mind. It's my self-indulgent masochistic pleasure. :)


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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 5:02:24 AM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		Wow. If you told me that having my hair pulled, throat fucked as he slapped my face causing tears, and drool and a runny nose would turn me on, I'd have argued, no way. But when he finished off using me as an "oral urinal" would cause spontaneous climaxes and end up with me in a fetal position in a pile of girl goo at his feet.....and loving it.. I would never agree to that.

I wanted a sensual sadist. I got a hard core Mr Meanie Pants whacking & thwacking me purple & black & blue with bite marks all over my tushie. I adored him. Damn I miss him again.


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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 6:51:16 AM   
sunshinemiss


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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 1:34:16 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Wax play, he was very interested before he did it and meh afterwards. I was meh before and 'can we do it again, huh, can we' after.

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 2:29:42 PM   
Wolf2Bear


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Status: offline 		Electrical play
needles
wax play
knife play



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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 3:39:16 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Orgasming with a pinwheel being run over my clit.  I've always been kind of ho-hum with wortinburg wheels but my Sir has a way with things that in the past made me yawn - like wax play. Who knew that wax play could actually hurt- not enough to leave a blister, but hurt all the same.

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 4:38:42 PM   
slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Wax play, he was very interested before he did it and meh afterwards. I was meh before and 'can we do it again, huh, can we' after.

Ha....I was all fired up for wax play and thought it would be so hot. He was semi excited about it. I ended up hating the little drips and really regretting requesting wax play. He, on the other hand, loved my pained and angry reactions to the drips and wanted to do it again really soon I loved having large pools poured on me but those damn little drips were like sweatbee stings or something. I kept saying "I hate this and I'm not kidding." He just laughed and kept dripping and has teased me ever since about "not kidding."

luci

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RE: Things you didn't know you liked... until you tried. - 9/29/2010 6:15:12 PM   
ropemaster49


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Status: offline 		I was surprised that I really liked having my slave place herself in bondage while I watched. I love the feeling of binding someone so much that this one really caught me unawares. Very hot!

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