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LovingLoyalPet -> Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 6:41:53 PM)

Good evening all.
I have been on CM for years now, thank you all for your informative responses in the past.
Tonight I am trying to think up a creative punishment for myself.
I had disobeyed a direct order from my Master.. At the time, I thought was I was doing was right.  I know going forward, it is not my place to think, it is my place "to do" as he says.
He has put me in charge of what punishment he thinks I should have. I am searching outside the box this evening. Putting aside the typical wire hanger or electric cord beating. Any suggestions?
Thank you.
s.




LovingLoyalPet -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 6:43:17 PM)

Typo:

At the time, I thought that what I was doing was the right thing. ( apologies )




Hillwilliam -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 6:47:06 PM)

Time for a "figging"




LovingLoyalPet -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 6:49:53 PM)

A figging? Please explain :)




SmilingSub4You -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 7:03:39 PM)

links to explain figging:

http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/mstmichaelfigging.htm

http://www.figging.com/




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 7:43:26 PM)

I don't do punishment/reward. So I can't help ya there, OP.

I suggest that you write up a paper on what you did and why, why it was wrong, and how you will avoid making the same mistake again. What will you do instead, next time the situation arises? How will you think about it differently, to change your actions?

That's not punishment, though. Its a consequence, and its to help you learn- so that the offending behavior is discontinued. Another type of consequence would be "natural consequences": the kind of thing that will naturally result from the offending behavior. Ideally, natural consequences will make you want to avoid making the same mistake. So maybe you might write something about them in your essay.

For example: "As a natural consequence of a pattern of disobedience: Master's faith and trust in me will be eroded over time, and may lead to my release from his service. Therefore I will keep this in mind, and take care not to show a pattern of disobedience over time. And even one incident of purposeful disobedience may be enough to destroy what we've built, in some cases... And it just takes one incident to begin a pattern, anyway. So any instance of direct disobedience to him is to be avoided, because I deeply cherish him and his leadership, etc." Something like that- you get the idea.

Try to make concrete plans, of actual things you will really think, say and do, to change. This way you can show him that you've followed through and have really changed and grown, when the situation comes up again. You can also ask him what he would like you to think, say and do instead, of course. But coming up with your own ideas may help him to see what you think would work for you.

I hope this helps.






LovingLoyalPet -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 7:50:29 PM)

Thank you so much :)




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 8:01:34 PM)

You are quite welcome.


And welcome to the forums!

[:)]





Hillwilliam -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 8:08:16 PM)

I forgot to say 5 miles on an exercise bike during the figging.




LovingLoyalPet -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 9:06:54 PM)

The figging was mentioned and will be used, just not for this punishment. He seeks more Humiliation Punishment.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/28/2010 9:38:15 PM)

Well then I hope you don't like humiliation. For my slave, it wouldn't be a punishment. [:)]

Just sayin'...




ranja -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/29/2010 2:12:21 AM)

As you need punishing cos you did a shitty thing i suggest you poop a tittle turd in a sandwich bag and carry that around in your pocket all day, that should teach you not to do shitty things




DesFIP -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/29/2010 1:44:29 PM)

If you thought you were doing the right thing, is this because he did not express himself clearly? Because around here that kind of thing is chalked up to being human and therefore not always speaking or hearing correctly. And not subject to punishment.

But honestly, if he wasn't clear, then he's at fault. So what kind of punishment does he deserve?

We're big into solving the problem for the future, which may entail repeating an order to see if I got it right, him writing it down so I have it to refer to, and so on. YMMV




nzxtsword -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/29/2010 1:55:40 PM)

Take a shower with your Master, while in the shower you are to bathe him entirely down, licking his parts clean, he will then take the shower head if possible remove the shower head unit to leave just the hose for the water. You bend over, recieving numerious spankings to then feel a tube sliding up deep into your ass to which he'll turn on the warm water and recieve an enema.
WHile your bent over, he'll grab your hair, shoving his cock deep into your mouth, making you gag on him, you will lick and suckle it clean of your spit. If your unable to take the shower head off the tube, you will hold your ass open wide while bent over and feel the water spraing deep inside your ass.

You will relax bent over, the water now turn off, as he spanks your ass hard, making it red. You are told to stay bent over, as he goes downstairs to the freezer to get some ice cubes, he starts sliding ice cubes into your asshole, your ass and body start feeling the cold, and a deep cold burning sensation forming deep inside you. He then gets behind you while grabbing the ass cheeks hard, he starts fucking your pussy.
You begin to scream, and he grabs the bar of soap putting it into your mouth making you bite down onto it, not being allowed to scream, feeling the soap in your mouth makes you want to gag.
He grabs your hair, hard pulling it back while pounding you, you feel the damn cold ice in your asshole, while his cock penetrating you a lot.

He slides out of you, you stand up with the bar of soap still in your mouth. He dries off and gets out of the shower, turns the water onto cold and begins washing down your naked body.
You are then told to bend over and push out some of the ice cubes, as he sprays your ass with absolutely cold water feeling it all over you, making you freezing.

After the ice is gone. You are to clean the bath tub entirely up, making it shine spotless, dry off and go to bed with him as you then worship his fully body with non stop kisses until he says otherwise.




crazyml -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/29/2010 2:02:24 PM)

How about you scoop an eye out with a spoon?

If you're careful you'll be able to splock it right back in again once you've revelled in the creative novelty of being able to see right up your own nose without the aid of a mirror.





Acer49 -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (9/30/2010 6:16:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LovingLoyalPet

Good evening all.
I have been on CM for years now, thank you all for your informative responses in the past.
Tonight I am trying to think up a creative punishment for myself.
I had disobeyed a direct order from my Master.. At the time, I thought was I was doing was right.  I know going forward, it is not my place to think, it is my place "to do" as he says.
He has put me in charge of what punishment he thinks I should have. I am searching outside the box this evening. Putting aside the typical wire hanger or electric cord beating. Any suggestions?


Thank you.
s.


I am having a problem with the " at the time, I thought what I was doing was right" did something happen that changed things that had your dominant been aware of, his instructions may have changed? I am not getting the sense you simply blew off his desire in leu of your own?
So do you trust your dominant to make decisions, because that is the bottom line. There is no discipline/punishment that can instill trust, least none that I am aware of




EclipseAbove -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (10/1/2010 1:10:15 PM)

You are asking for a creative punishment, but my first question is "are you looking for a punishment that corrects your behavior or a punishment that is fun?" Any punishment that takes the form of something that you find a to be a turn-on will not encourage different behavior in the future. In fact, it will do the opposite. Don't get me wrong, I use this kind of "punishment" all the time, but I know that it is really play and will not actually change behavior. If I really want to change behavior, I have to pick a punishment that is not fun in any way. Of course what is fun and not fun is extremely personal. So, what are you asking for? New and different play "punishments" or something that actually changes behavior?




Arpig -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (10/1/2010 8:43:17 PM)

I don't know about anybody else, but having a master who sends you to the forums to choose your own punishment seems like punishment enough to me.




poise -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (10/1/2010 8:54:23 PM)

Ill admit to feeling punished at having read some of these responses.....ouchies and ickies![:o]




thishereboi -> RE: Need a creative punishment idea (10/2/2010 5:15:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LovingLoyalPet

The figging was mentioned and will be used, just not for this punishment. He seeks more Humiliation Punishment.


Well, he could make you come on CM and admit that your master can't come up with ideas on punishing you on his own. Not sure who that would be humiliating though.




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