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Hismouse -> WANTED: Friend but not so much a mentor (9/29/2010 7:58:49 AM)

Hi,
Thanks for dropping by and reading my post.

I could really do with a friend that I can chat with through Cmail. Most of my posts here, come from what would appear to be a troubled sub :-( 

I live with my Sir 24/7, I have been on the boards for about 18 months, and there are many here that post, that for one reason or another I admire. I would love to chat with someone who also lives in a 24/7 relationship and who feels their relationship is fairly rock solid.

It is not my intention to send you mail and tell you my Sir is a bastard and doesn't understand me.......blah.....blah......

I seem to have lost my way, and would like someone who has maybe been there and done that, who I can drop a line to, and say this is what happened, this is how I dealt with it, or this was my reaction, or this is my thought process and it hasn't or isn't working so well for me, I'm sure there is a better way, and then hopefully you share with me your thoughts/advise and I start to get back on track.

Please don't get me wrong, I'm not wanting to live your life, I'm ok with my own :-)

I need some help, and believe me, it's very hard to admit that, and even harder to ask for it.

Please check with your D that it's ok for you to chat with me, as I did reach out to one sub over six months ago and her Dom blocked me, and I do understand his possible reasons for it, however it's taken me this long to pluck up the courage to reach out again.

There are some D types on the boards that post and I always get a lot out of their posts (not all males either) :-)

mouse




AquaticSub -> RE: WANTED: Friend but not so much a mentor (9/29/2010 10:20:14 AM)

Have you tried reaching out to your local community for friends? You could also specifically message the people on here who you feel would give good advice and ask them directly. You may want to check their profiles to see if they have any contact restrictions since that has been an issue for you in the past.




DesFIP -> RE: WANTED: Friend but not so much a mentor (9/29/2010 1:48:27 PM)

What Aqua said. You want to write to people who you think have the right answers nine times out of ten. People who think like you and have a relationship like yours.




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