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Re: my hopeful lifestyle to come! - 9/30/2010 6:29:11 PM

binkeeboo4u

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Please Mistress,

I have read and correspondingly became excited about, the subject of 'Tease/denial' but it seems to be solely designed, and entered into, by menunder the tutelage of women! Is there no such thing for woman to woman available anywhere?

Hopefully,

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RE: Re: my hopeful lifestyle to come! - 10/2/2010 5:09:23 PM

MaamJay

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Yes there is a lesbian bdsm scene ... and also other instances of D/s between women who aren't necessarily lesbian or sexually involved. However, it's probably not as obvious as hetero D/s, you have to look a bit harder. Read profiles, some of the Dommes here are seeking female partners. Others may be open to either males or females.

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RE: Re: my hopeful lifestyle to come! - 10/9/2010 2:50:59 PM

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About denial, as opposed to control. In general men who are denied become more focused on their mistresses. Whereas women tend to turn off totally. You can't tease and deny someone who doesn't want it to begin with. If you're talking about control, with teasing lasting either hours or a certain number of days, that's different.

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RE: Re: my hopeful lifestyle to come! - 10/9/2010 3:57:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

You can't tease and deny someone who doesn't want it to begin with.

What is the "it" in this sentence? I would say that I tease and deny my girl often (and she hates/loves it!) but we may be defining this in different ways. Regardless, I wouldn't say that it's entirely about control: I like getting her aroused (teasing) and significantly delaying orgasm/sex/release (denial) in part because my sadistic side enjoys her discomfort and aching need.

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RE: Re: my hopeful lifestyle to come! - 10/9/2010 4:52:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: strangedesire

I would say that I tease and deny my girl often (and she hates/loves it!) but we may be defining this in different ways. Regardless, I wouldn't say that it's entirely about control: I like getting her aroused (teasing) and significantly delaying orgasm/sex/release (denial) in part because my sadistic side enjoys her discomfort and aching need.

What she said!

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