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where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:25:08 PM

sub4u2enjoy123

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hello all had my profile on for about a month and only 2 doms have hit it. i dont get it where in the hell are these women at? im interested in the lifestyle but cant find anyone thats interested in it too. well maybe one day shell come around and not exspect just her laundry to get washed, untill then ill be looking.

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:30:22 PM

yourMissTress

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Are you really sitting back and waiting for them to find you?????????

or are you kidding?

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:32:50 PM

LaTigresse

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Exactly what have you been doing to get their attention??? I am only speaking for myself but I rarely contact anyone.

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:36:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4u2enjoy123

hello all had my profile on for about a month and only 2 doms have hit it. i dont get it where in the hell are these women at? im interested in the lifestyle but cant find anyone thats interested in it too. well maybe one day shell come around and not exspect just her laundry to get washed, untill then ill be looking.

Well, some of them have a grammar and spelling fetish. It also may be the hat you are wearing in the picture. It also might be you don't list any BDSM interests in your profile.

Frankly, I would think a guy who at the age of 35 had accumulated the money it takes to retire. At 35, I hadn't accumulated anywhere near enough to do that. You might want to tell them how you did it; I'm sure there would be women who would be quite impressed.

However, my main recommendation would be to look at a some of the similar notestreams here. A lot of dominant women have gone into detail about what they are looking for in a man. I don't know if you'll be able to lure them into repeating themselves so you might want to find the original posts.

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:41:33 PM

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Wow, you've been here a whole month before this post?

Let me explain something (from my perspective) - most people here seem to either a- only last a month, or b- stay on here for years, and only have partial successes. This takes time and EFFORT. If you aren't contacting people, you are missing out - posting here with something other than what appears to be a whine will help as well.

Your screen name and profile aren't exactly helping either. When I read your screen name, what is says to me is that you are looking for sensual play as the only aspect of D/s that you are interested in, and that you probably have specific scenes in mind for your potential partner to 'enjoy you' during. Your profile doesn't exactly give any insights into who you are or what you are looking for ... which will up your chances of someone actually making the initial contact (although, honestly, very few Dominant Females that aren't Pros make the initial contact unless the profile is something REALLY extraordinary).

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:45:58 PM

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Yes, it is very difficult to find a real Domme. I thought I had finally found one in my area and all she did was stand me up 6 times. I could never get here to meet me and she had viewed me on cam and we had chatted for over a month. Its bad enough to live in the upper midwest, but finding a real one is a choir in itself too. I have tried contacting many, over 30, but still no luck.

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:47:12 PM

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The dominant females be at their homes, dawg. Yo gotta hit up them biatches, give 'em the low down, and then you be doin awright.

Hit me back, my brother!

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Edited to add: And with one post, I forever ruined my reputation as a real "brother"

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 2:55:59 PM

MissyRane

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O! And mind your manners, take your cap off when approaching a lady and erm...my opinion? (i love expressing opinions when they aren't wanted) pluck those ahem..hairs off so they don't stick out ya tshirt like that

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 3:04:01 PM

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the dominant females are eithre in vanilla realtionships or looking for vanilla relationships with men they can push around. However, if you are seeking Dominant Females, run a search on your CollarMe home page...there are tons of us out here trying to find subs or slaves that are not vanilla...
Good luck in your efforts!

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 5:36:05 PM

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Good advice...trying following it.

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 5:53:43 PM

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I never contact any subbies here. I wait to let them and see if they interest me.....after an E or two....you either click or NOT

Just my 2 cents.

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 4/24/2006 6:01:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Wow, you've been here a whole month before this post?

Let me explain something (from my perspective) - most people here seem to either a- only last a month, or b- stay on here for years, and only have partial successes. This takes time and EFFORT. If you aren't contacting people, you are missing out - posting here with something other than what appears to be a whine will help as well.

Your screen name and profile aren't exactly helping either. When I read your screen name, what is says to me is that you are looking for sensual play as the only aspect of D/s that you are interested in, and that you probably have specific scenes in mind for your potential partner to 'enjoy you' during. Your profile doesn't exactly give any insights into who you are or what you are looking for ... which will up your chances of someone actually making the initial contact (although, honestly, very few Dominant Females that aren't Pros make the initial contact unless the profile is something REALLY extraordinary).

I am lifestyle/Pro....I have contacted Many men that I have been interested in ...But most have been married.. that and only then I bring up the Pro side of Me ... so I must be one of the few... I myself would rather have slaves not clients...

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Well, some of them have a grammar and spelling fetish. It also may be the hat you are wearing in the picture. It also might be you don't list any BDSM interests in your profile.

actually I think if I take time to correct so should the slaves/subs if I can articulate ... so should they I myself love a smart slave/sub one that I can talk to Not just push around...

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the dominant females are eithre in vanilla realtionships or looking for vanilla relationships with men they can push around.

bullshit ... I tryed vanilla .. its too much hassle.. rather have the mutual consent instead of banging My own head against a wall ... I may have mascochistic tendencys but I'm not that stupid LOL...

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hello all had my profile on for about a month and only 2 doms have hit it. i dont get it where in the hell are these women at? im interested in the lifestyle but cant find anyone thats interested in it too. well maybe one day shell come around and not exspect just her laundry to get washed, untill then ill be looking.

most are right ... correct your spelling .. take the hat off....change name to remove the sexual induendo ...don't do anything about the hair .. some Domina love to pull that -=evil grin=-... and seek and write to them ... and fill out more BDSM interests on your profile ...

good luck

{would have corrected My own spelling but this laptop has no word or anything that corrects spelling .. sorry all for being hypocritical}

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RE: where are the dominant females at? - 8/15/2006 3:19:45 PM

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I agree with you, MissTress. I have found on most web sites that men out-number the women. The women can be very picking and choosing who they want. The man needs to contact the woman, first. A man’s profile should tell the woman a lot about him. OK- not everything about him. You need something to talk about with her, later.

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