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TexasMaam -> RE: The first date. (10/10/2010 10:01:29 AM)
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Pet peeve of Mine: I always end the conversation, the date, the activity, when I am ready. If a potential sub has to beg off for some particular reason, has to go pick up kids or relieve a sitter, for example, he had better 'beg' off and not 'inform Me' that he has to go.
If for some reason there's no chemistry, and he's feeling the need to rush off, he should still practice consummate protocol because he never knows when he might be referred to someone of My acquaintance as a potential partner.
If he ends the date, or even if a sub ends a conversation without asking Me politely whether he can 'go' for now, for ANY reason, I get very perturbed.
Even when there is a long silence over the phone or in a one on one encounter, I may very well be testing the water simply to see whether he'll step on My toes by making a quick exit or whether he'll wait, patiently, for Me to give the cue to go.
For whatever that's worth.
TM
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