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looking for a slave - 10/7/2010 8:12:03 PM   
BlackFeather


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Status: offline 		well I have been on this site for a while and gotten a few offers but nothing I would consider serious as none have panned out. everything I'm looking for is on my profile. I make no illusions that I am emotionally damaged but I am a good Master looking for a long term live in slave. I wouldn't expect her to move right away but as I live in a smallish town this site is my last resort.
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RE: looking for a slave - 10/7/2010 8:17:13 PM   
January


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM, BF,

You're likely going to have to be very patient.

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I live in Manitoba Canada, come be my plaything - 10/7/2010 8:17:57 PM   
BlackFeather


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RE: I live in Manitoba Canada, come be my plaything - 10/7/2010 8:24:22 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I don't understand why newbies want a slave.  It'd be far easier to find a submissive.  Especially since I don't get the feeling that you've had a lot of experience.

You've been on the site for a month.  Patience....


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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 4:48:44 AM   
BonesFromAsh


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackFeather

well I have been on this site for a while and gotten a few offers but nothing I would consider serious as none have panned out. everything I'm looking for is on my profile. I make no illusions that I am emotionally damaged but I am a good Master looking for a long term live in slave. I wouldn't expect her to move right away but as I live in a smallish town this site is my last resort.


The bolded part is what caught my eye and made me want to have a look at your profile. Emotionally damaged isn't the first thought that came to mind...emotionally immature maybe. You want a bdsm novel life and what you offer in return is....

quote:

As my slave I would put a roof over your head, food in your belly, and clothes on your back.


All this, along with the not so pleasant photo of you flipping the bird and sticking your tongue out at the camera, not to mention the request for a nude photo (oh, sorry not a requirement) and you want to be taken serious?

Good luck.



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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 5:33:13 AM   
BlackFeather


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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 5:42:23 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Does the woman in the pic know she's on this site?

Perhaps you might want to go to a munch in your area and see what's what.

Good luck,
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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 5:56:14 AM   
BonesFromAsh


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackFeather

this is my second account and i'll give the profile a rewrite.


BF,

You do understand there's more to this than writing a good profile? A well written profile is always a good thing, but being able to live up to the words in that profile...in person is something entirely different.

DarkSteven is right....why the rush for a slave? Are you able and willing to live up to the responsibility that entails? What makes you, dare I say, worthy?

I could offer you tons of links from this site that talk about writing a good profile, what it takes to be a good master/dom and a host of other related topics, but as the dominant (?) person...why don't you show some initiative and do what needs to be done to make yourself an appealing partner..dominant or not.

Good luck....seriously.

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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 6:07:29 AM   
GreedyTop


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Whenever I see someone "looking for a slave".. I have to resist the urge to say.. Did you lose her? how irresponsible!

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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 6:24:38 AM   
BlackFeather


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Status: offline 		yes I am able to live up to my profile. I make enough money to rent my own place, buy groceries for a few people and have enough left over every month for a couple of toys or some fun. there are no munches in town as it is a smallish out in the middle of nowhere town with no big BDSM scene. i would be lucky to even find a submissive in this town. all the nearby towns are just as small and just as lacking in lifestyle participants.

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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 6:34:34 AM   
thatsub


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Status: offline 		In my humble opinion, your main profile photo make you look much younger than your profile age ("2007" date on that picture does not help either). "Too young" is not always the look you want to go for as a male Dom. You have several other good pictures that would work better as your profile pic, granted they don't have the black background, but they are still better.


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RE: I live in Manitoba Canada, come be my plaything - 10/8/2010 7:05:42 AM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I don't understand why newbies want a slave.  It'd be far easier to find a submissive

And what's the difference there, Steven?

`stef


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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 7:22:16 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh

the not so pleasant photo of you flipping the bird and sticking your tongue out at the camera, not to mention the request for a nude photo (oh, sorry not a requirement) and you want to be taken serious?


Oh.  My.  God.  I didn't look at his pics before.

OP, what makes you think that you have what it takes to be a Dom, let alone a Master?


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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 9:41:37 AM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Oh.  My.  God.  I didn't look at his pics before.

OP, what makes you think that you have what it takes to be a Dom, let alone a Master?

What makes you think you can tell what kind of a dom a person would be from a handful of photos?  You need to seriously get over yourself.

~stef


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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 9:49:51 AM   
RedMagic1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackFeather
I wouldn't expect her to move right away but as I live in a smallish town this site is my last resort.

Never a good strategy to put all your eggs in one basket.  Just in the online world, I recently got a rope bondage partner off okCupid, and, a while back, a friend of mine found a master off SugarDaddyforMe.com.

Do you have any female friends?  Serious question.  If so, ask them to come over to your place and help you redecorate so it'll look like "home" to a prospective girlfriend.

I haven't viewed your photos or your profile, and I don't plan to.  Your cyber presence will never look good until your real-life presence is in order.  Make your reality girl-friendly, and your profile and photos will naturally appear more attractive.

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RE: looking for a slave - 10/8/2010 10:24:04 AM   
LilithNoir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef
What makes you think you can tell what kind of a dom a person would be from a handful of photos?  You need to seriously get over yourself.
~stef


I'm going to guess that Dark Steven  is making his assessment based on the same things that most people (when they are not being hypocrites) do.  

While I am not setting myself up as the Sapphic (that means I am not interested in men) Authority on Domliness I can tell you that when I looked at the pictures/profile  I thought:

1.  2007?  Is he kidding?  That picture is 3 years old - what is he hiding?

2.  Great... another 20 Something who thinks that being a DICK = Dominant Personality - Way to show what a rebel you are... Middle Finger Salute... how incredibly original.  I've never seen an unkempt Beer Keg in the Closet Cement Blocks for Furniture 20 Something doing THAT BEFORE.

3.  He is "reinventing himself" which is code for... "I had to leave somewhere in a hurry because I burned all my bridges.  He's Canadian they are a lot more tolerant than most... he had to really have fucked up." Pssst... OP: Just what did you do that necessitated moving to a SMALL TOWN to reinvent yourself?  You are 25 years old... are you even fully done being invented at that age?  Is there an Ankle Monitor involved? 


4.  "5 Piercings" Will someone PLEASE TELL the clueless that "O" and "Sleeping Beauty" are works of fiction and that Anne Rice is not a Gothic Dominatrix...she is a Devout Catholic. 

5.  You are my Maid = "I am pig and my mother kicked me out of the basement because she got sick of doing my laundry."

6. Chef - Pretentious Much?  Seriously... you can pay the rent and buy Kraft Dinner and have some left over with the change you find in the Chesterfield to buy "toys"... and you need a CHEF?  Do what others in your situation do... microwave pizza that you can eat in front of the XBox while you play Halo Reach

7. Sex Puppet because you have WHIMS - You are Capricious, Immature and Emotionally Unstable with the added benefit of wanting a sex doll that will Cook Kraft Dinner and wash your boxers while  never pointing out that getting on the Greyhound Bus in BumFuckington, KS and crossing the border to Manitoba was the second biggest mistake of her life.  The first being that she allowed you to talk her into having your buddy pierce her in five places.


And finally, when you are done cleaning up after me and my buds, cooking, and sucking my dick I want you to be a companion to me. We'll have in depth discussions about how the world doesn't appreciate me, how I am underrated and how one day my 1. Poetry, 2. Music or 3. Epic Novel will make me famous. 


Hey Stef... before you ask the question you should read Dark Steven's Profile then compare it to the OP.   It's the difference between Grown, Emotionally Mature, Self Assured ADULT with nothing to prove and well... a MacMan... you know they are like fast food - kind of tasty but full of artificial crap and not good for you.  

To the OP:  Make no mistake - who wouldn't want a service oriented, gourmet chef, rocket scientist who fucks like a bunny and never complains?   But seriously... perhaps you should Know Yourself before you take on the responsibility for someone else.  

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RE: looking for a slave - 10/9/2010 6:04:37 PM   
sunshinemiss


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quote:

Hey Stef... before you ask the question you should read Dark Steven's Profile then compare it to the OP.   It's the difference between Grown, Emotionally Mature, Self Assured ADULT with nothing to prove and well... a MacMan... you know they are like fast food - kind of tasty but full of artificial crap and not good for you.  

 
I would put up RedMagic's profile also as a good one to look at.  I have been honored to meet him in real life, and he is very unassuming, pleasant, and wicked smart.  His profile reflex exactly the man  I met that day. 

By the way, Red, next time I fly through Chicago (since you will be there), wanna have a cuppa?  Let's get me, you, lushy, and the bad boys of CM together.  What say you?
sunshine

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RE: looking for a slave - 10/13/2010 8:04:12 AM   
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