Aneirin
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Joined: 3/18/2006 From: Tamaris Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Aneirin Everyone has the right to appear how they like to appear. In most states, in order to get a piercing, anyone under 18 must have parental consent. So, lets assume they all did. While these students have the right to appear as they wish, employers have the right not to hire them. And there are quite a few in the US who would not hire someone with a nose piercing. The cry for individuality is loud. But there are many ways to achieve that without the effect creating issues later in life. I dont advocate the school telling parents what they can allow their children to do by law. But just as many teens get these piercings by other means than a reliable piercer and a consent form. And when the time comes that employment is the issue, the pierced person can then decide, a job in trade for towing another's line, or keep their individuality and let jobs offered by the intolerant pass on by. I have long hair and I work in an engineering workshop, I have done so for the past fifteen years and I have given up with how many times it has been suggested to me to get my hair cut, my usual reply was you rented my skills, not my appearance. On the grounds of safety, well, I love my long hair and I make damned sure it is not going to come into contact with anything mechanised and when on the forge, welding or grinding, I wear a welder's hood and cape. Honestly it takes years to grow hair out, and mine grows slowly, I am not going to risk it for a job, for it is me, whereas the job is just employment which may cease with whatever the future brings. But the issue in this case is a learning establishment, not employment, the onus should be on people attending class, being attentitive and getting good grades, not sacrificing a young person's individuality as they are in their teens, for we all know the majority of teens experiment with their appearance. What they do in earlier life, they take the responsibility for what they may regret later, piercings are small potatoes, for they can if it is desired be removed later.
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Everything we are is the result of what we have thought, the mind is everything, what we think, we become - Guatama Buddha Conservatism is distrust of people tempered by fear - William Gladstone
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