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sunshinemiss -> RE: Oregon Dominant seeking female play partners and/or subordinate (10/13/2010 3:24:55 PM)
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Thanks for the sweet compliments, pooh. Please remember them when I get my dander up!
Dude,
I think (I could be wrong, but...) you are perhaps new to the online dating world or perhaps you haven't ventured out frequently or recently? You see, you've made something of a rookie mistake. The way your post is written suggests that you presumed that the ladies here are here ONLY for sex and swats. While this may be the case for some folks, it generally is not the case for the majority of ladies here. We are here for the discussions and real honest to goodness relationships - of all types. It also could be that this wasn't your intent. However, you are a new person, so we can't tell anything about you except what you post.
Now, it is after all a certain type of website, and so a few presumptions can be made. For example, the greatest majority of people here are a bit (or more) sexually adventurous. That's a pretty safe given. That includes - we presume that about you. It's like seeing someone reading a book from the Sleeping Beauty series. You can make a couple of presumptions about that person and usually you will be correct. Your other rookie mistake was stating the obvious.
Here's what you may want to keep in mind. (I wrote this post awhile back about a fellow who was atrociously inappropriate and insulting on the boards. The thing was, his posts created really spirited discussions that turned into some fun silliness. http://www.collarchat.com/m_2915280/mpage_2/tm.htm ) It might help you get a perspective of what you are walking into. Pretend you are coming to a book club meeting and don’t know many of the people. How would you approach a group of women? The book club just read the book listed above, so there is a commonality amongst everyone. Here is what you said upon joining the book club. “Hello, my name is Dudley Do Right, and I would like to spank a woman and receive head. You look like a group of women who are as good looking as I am. I will gladly take one of you. Which one will be first?” That is how you sounded on your introduction. That is why poise poked a bit of fun at you and why Steven said you were doing stand up. If you were at a book club meeting and said that, we'd look at each other and say "Right. Go away."
I hope you will take this in the spirit it is intended and not be embarrassed. Generally, we look at a body of posts rather than a single one. You are clearly not being defensive or mean spirited, so you should do ok. Just remember. Women are women no matter what they like. It takes practice. Please stick around. We're generally a pretty good bunch... Except the drama llamas. They need to be sheared on occasion. [;)]
Best wishes,
sunshine
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