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Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 11:02:23 AM

mandmlv

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I am looking for ideas on public bondage. The corset is one, but I am seeking ideas beyond the leash and collar. Be creative please!

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 11:27:13 AM

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You want us to be creative?

What happened to YOU being creative?

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 11:27:46 AM

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I've often put a harness of sorts on my boy either under her clothes or over her clothes depending on what I'm thinking about... or what impact I want to have...

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 3:32:02 PM

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If I saw you do anything overly explicit I would probably call the police. Deep down inside, there's a grandma in me that says "In the name of Jesus, sinners begone! Where's my rotary phone?!" But she's just about on her last leg of life, so that shouldn't be a concern to anyone.

Corset with a handle or otherwise some form of grip on the back. Any type of harness or handle anywhere is good, really. Especially something that can be twisted and tugged in order to further constrict or control the movement of their body. Having a handful of corset strings pulled forcefully, for example, is a painful but potentially pleasant way for someone to remember that they are under the control of another. It would be a bit too obvious in public to have the strings visible (which may be acceptable in certain outfits) so a shirt over them that can stretch in a way that will allow you to still pull the strings back and tighter would be fun. But that's still a spin on the corset idea.

No idea what else can be done subtly that wouldn't be silly. I even considered sewing sleeves of a shirt down each side from shoulders to elbows so that they couldn't pivot their shoulders, but that would look more silly than anything else.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 3:33:07 PM

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 6:05:26 PM

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very high heals is good for most people... then they won't be able to walk without someone to help them.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 6:29:39 PM

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Public bondage... what pops to mind is tortoise shell shibari worn under vanilla street clothes.

Think about what it feels like!

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 7:09:41 PM

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I'm with Queen Victoria. I don't much care what you do as long as you don't scare the horses. But I'll add minors and elderly to that. Why do you have to do this in public? Instead of disturbing my elderly father, why not show up at your own grandparent's house like that? Surely if you want to go around shocking people, it would be much more satisfying to shock your own grandfather instead of someone else's? And why waste time frightening unknown children? Why not do it to your own nieces and nephews?

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 9:10:56 PM

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For something discreet that is still sexy, have your sub wear a buttplug or (if female) a dildo. Though make sure they're wearing tight undies to keep it in, because I've heard horror stories of those things falling out in public places and shocking innocent civilians.

Also, rope bondage under the clothes. Different ropes give different feelings, like silk gives the pressure but it's a nice soft feel, but if you use hemp rope or something it can itch and scratch against the skin and cause that sexy kind of discomfort. Make a rope thong and make sure it's tight along the cracks so they're constantly being reminded that it's there ;)

Make a rope bra if you like slightly chafed boobies. Master doesn't, but I know plenty of people who do. It's pretty sexy to look at without tops, and I'm sure it'd be pretty sexy to know that it's hiding right under a pretty shirt.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 10:06:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: Bravado
Having a handful of corset strings pulled forcefully, for example, is a painful but potentially pleasant way for someone to remember that they are under the control of another.

DO NOT DO THIS! At all, in any way whatsoever. Corset laces are not to be yanked on at any time. Unless, that is, you don't mind risking the rupturing of internal organs, or other slightly less severe injuries, and the associated jail time for such actions.

Corsets might be pretty and sexy, but they are not toys. Please do your research before doing anything at all involving corsets. Or restrict your play to non-living dolls.

As far as the OP, I would urge you to consider the idea of non-consensually involving strangers in your scene by doing bondage in public. Consent is still needed even if the public are just "observers" of your scene. And while in public, it's impossible to get everyone's consent, so keep it discrete and unnoticeable. Collars often don't even get a second glance and leashes are acceptable in some places and not in others, but more overt forms of bondage are not generally ok in public. Anything under clothes or hidden from view is probably acceptable. The point is, have some respect for the other people who share your city, don't force them to share in your scene just because they happen to be walking down the same public street as you.

Also, anything that'll be visible out in public is subject to the "moral" laws of your city. Check the laws themselves or talk to someone knowledgeable before engaging in public play of any kind, even if it's discrete. Some places give you more leeway as to what is considered "public indecency", but many places are still very restrictive. Best to know beforehand what will be acceptable and what won't be, if you want to avoid problems. That includes attire as well as behavior.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/11/2010 11:34:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KariCloud

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Having a handful of corset strings pulled forcefully, for example, is a painful but potentially pleasant way for someone to remember that they are under the control of another.

DO NOT DO THIS! At all, in any way whatsoever. Corset laces are not to be yanked on at any time. Unless, that is, you don't mind risking the rupturing of internal organs, or other slightly less severe injuries, and the associated jail time for such actions.

Corsets might be pretty and sexy, but they are not toys. Please do your research before doing anything at all involving corsets. Or restrict your play to non-living dolls.

Paranoia and/or exaggeration. It doesn't take a doctor to know the difference between what is acceptable and what is dangerous, as long as you don't let yourself get carried away. I don't know where you get your fact from, but firsthand experience tells me that you are overly cautious. Or did you imagine me working the laces like the pull cord of a lawnmower?

Corsets are toys. They certainly aren't tools, are they?

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/12/2010 12:34:38 AM

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It depends on what kind of public bondage you want,

We have several AWESOME shoots done in the wonderful city of Philly where some very delicious girls are tied to some of our statues, there were a few people involved in making sure no one was shown anything inappropriate.

If you mean things your pet can wear in public or bondage to be done in public with out shocking poor innocent grandmothers, use mental over physical.

I have grown a habit if when standing keeping my arms behind my back looped thumb over thumb where my middle back belt loop is, Its subconscious and apparently ive been doing it for years with out knowing it.

Have your pet stand like that as a rule it restricts movement and is awesome.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/12/2010 9:50:46 AM

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quote:

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Paranoia and/or exaggeration. It doesn't take a doctor to know the difference between what is acceptable and what is dangerous, as long as you don't let yourself get carried away. I don't know where you get your fact from, but firsthand experience tells me that you are overly cautious. Or did you imagine me working the laces like the pull cord of a lawnmower?

Corsets are toys. They certainly aren't tools, are they?

What I was responding to was this: "Having a handful of corset strings pulled forcefully, for example, is a painful but potentially pleasant way for someone to remember that they are under the control of another." Pulled forcefully? As in the chain of a lawnmower? Yea, that's the impression given with that sentence. There's absolutely no indication of any need for caution in your statement, it just reads like "grab those laces and YANK!" That is exactly as risky and prone to causing damage as I said. It is certainly not paranoia to mention the risks, I'd consider it a required part of suggesting corset bondage to others. In fact, that little scenario that you illustrated is the number one cause of injury by corsets, because inexperienced people don't think anything of yanking hard on those laces.

For anyone who has experience with corsets, it likely isn't a problem because they already know how to pull on corset laces safely. But it is not good to assume that the OP and everyone reading this thread already knows about the risks and can interpret your statement accurately and safely.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/12/2010 10:01:35 AM

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WTF is public bondage?
Are we talking secretive under the clothing bondage like the "corset" mentioned or we talking about bondage on display like the "collar and leash" mentioned?

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/12/2010 10:05:29 AM

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Thanks for this, I really had no idea that those things were so flipping dangerous!

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/12/2010 10:12:53 AM

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They can be used safely, but just like anything else, it takes knowing the risks to avoid them. I do think corsets are lovely, else I'd not have spent hundreds of dollars on them or dealt with the necessary life changes to be able to wear one daily for the past five years. But it's irresponsible to suggest corsets and not make it clear that there are risks that need to be researched first.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/12/2010 6:59:07 PM

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Please cite some of that research.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/12/2010 9:44:39 PM

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Oh..sorry, I misread, thinking the subject was pubic bondage.

Well, ok, then I suppose I would suggest ordering a girl to place a broad adhesive bandaid across her labia, and two more across the nipples, and wearing them to work so as to feel the gentle tug all day.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/13/2010 7:28:32 AM

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Watch a few "public disgrace" movies for ideas about public bondage.

It must be legal to get a bj in the middle of the street and on a bus out there wherever it is they film those things.

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RE: Public Bondage - 10/13/2010 7:41:10 AM

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Public Disgrace generally isn't shot in the U.S. though the most recent one was at the Folsom Street Fair. Apparently it's the event to go to if you're into doing serious bondage on a street full of people.

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