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New and Curious - 10/11/2010 5:09:12 PM

tzr6977

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Hello, my screen name is tzr6977. I am new at this but have had a hidden interest in it for awhile. My boyfriend and I are looking for new ways to spice up our sexual life. At this time, he does not know I have been surfing it. I am not hiding it since he is right here. We have sort of talked about it, but do not know what all there is other than what you see in adult movies etc. I have been to a Dom. once, thanks to a friend and enjoyed it, but due to some health issues, not sure what there would be for my guy. I look forward to learning from all of you. Thank you for letting me join.

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RE: New and Curious - 10/11/2010 5:22:58 PM

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Welcome to you and your boyfriend! This site has some excellent threads that can benefit you both
in getting your feet wet in the world of kink. Be sure to use the Search Feature for any subject you
might like to read up on. Also, our very own Resident Sadist has a very useful book list, and Im certain
the both of you could find great reads together. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: New and Curious - 10/11/2010 5:27:27 PM

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Also search on google or fet for events in your area we have a new and nervous traveling munch, where all the groups in our area where each munch has a night for new and nervous people to come out specifically and they hold a little demo about whats up with the group the dynamics their take on the lifestyle, and the like. They also might have something in your area.

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RE: New and Curious - 10/12/2010 5:58:34 AM

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Welcome tzr, the two of you huh, this could sure spice things up for you, enjoy yourselves!

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RE: New and Curious - 10/13/2010 4:48:27 AM

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RE: New and Curious - 10/15/2010 6:27:27 PM

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Thank you so much for the welcome. I was wondering, does anyone know of a site or something where I can get the definition of a lot of the BDSM terms etc? I look and think, am I into that? Am I that? It is so much to learn and understand, sort of like going to school, but with no books.... lol. I have a feeling I am going to become VERY addicted to this life once I physically start. I already have discovered that I think about it while I am at work..... :o)

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RE: New and Curious - 10/16/2010 6:18:38 AM

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Google is always your friend, i've had to use it on occasion when i wasn't sure of what a term meant. And could you please do some of us who read with glasses a favor, make your font bigger?.

Trying to sit on the monitor is a risky thing for me, I mights falls off!!

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RE: New and Curious - 10/16/2010 6:47:05 PM

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ok so i guess this is where i will say hello.....hello....well i'm 25 and in the thought process of self discovery at the moment i've always had an interest and desire to learn about the lifestyle but never grew a decent enough pair to get out there and try it,i've merely dabbled here and there i don't know what else to say as an introduction but i feel this should suffice...

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RE: New and Curious - 10/16/2010 6:52:46 PM

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Welcome Jess. I never grew much of a pair either, but he prefers me bite sized, so its a win win.
I think instead of piggybacking on Tzr's intro, you are worthy of creating your own.
To do so, just go back to the front page of Introduce Yourself and click on New Post.
Good luck out there!

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RE: New and Curious - 10/16/2010 7:30:38 PM

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aww damn do i have to??

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RE: New and Curious - 10/17/2010 6:38:51 AM

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No you don't have to, but it'll garner more attention for yourself than hijacking someone elses thread.

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RE: New and Curious - 10/17/2010 6:54:31 AM

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BDSM glossary http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdglossary.html

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