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How to acquire a male slave? - 10/14/2010 9:35:05 PM   
baycitymibi


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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/14/2010 10:01:31 PM   
WolfyMontgomery


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Status: offline 		The same way a Master finds a slave. They meet, they click, they learn about each other and get to know one another, gain trust, gain respect, gain affection...

And then things just sorta go on from there. =)

Works that way for either sex or sexual preference, whether it be male, female, trans, gay, straight, bi, etc.

The thing that matters first in my opinion - and I've noticed in most successful relationships - is the compatibility between the two (or more if you're poly) people and how they enjoy each other as individuals. The slavery and Mastery comes later once trust develops.

So get out there and meet some people who identify as slave, introduce yourself, get to know them and let them get to know you (as people, not sexy objects first ;P) and see how things fly!


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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/14/2010 10:38:55 PM   
MstrssScarlet


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Status: offline 		Events, munches, and sloshes are good places to start. From there you can branch out to more private meetings and parties once you find people that you click with. That's how I found my submissive. I wish you the best of luck my friend.
Ms. Scarlet

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/15/2010 5:10:26 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		You also have to be trustworthy, smart and capable if you want someone to turn over control to you. You need to inspire their submission and that requires thinking ahead.

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/15/2010 8:22:25 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Mine met Me by asking if he could come and meet Me at the dungeon I was planning to attend the following evening.  Then, he drove the three hours the next day to follow through.  We didn't play together that first night, but he did watch Me play with others.  Things progressed naturally from there.  In November, it will be three years that he's been collared to Me.

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/15/2010 8:33:57 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		I thought all you had to do was dangle the bait, and watch them swarm. Ever see those zombie movies? You know the ones, where the helpless young sexpot is wounded and wandering about the town calling out for help, when suddenly she looks up and becomes frighteningly aware of the swarm of drooling, moaning undead shambling toward her? That's about how it seems to happen with many of the male submissive type. Although maybe it is different for the gay community of male submissives?

Serious answer? Contact a few Master/Dom individuals local to you and ask for some advice on how to get involved with your local scene. Make your profile attractive to male slaves looking for what you have to offer. I'm not saying it isn't. I haven't looked.

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/16/2010 6:20:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Be yourself, be honest, be open about what you are looking for, and what you have to offer.  I look at profiles and closely read them.  I look at likes/dislikes, and sort of get an idea from there.  It's not rocket science.  It's just like the vanilla scene, just a different twist to it.

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/16/2010 6:30:15 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Dude, seriously.  You posted the same exact thing five years ago.  http://www.collarchat.com/m_113510/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#113510

And in another forum you asked basically the same thing.    http://www.collarchat.com/m_3438030/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3438030

Have you taken any of the advice given to you or are you just here to "yes, but" the people?  You sure haven't taken any of the advice Steven gave you about your less-than-stellar profile. 

Fish or cut bait.

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/17/2010 9:36:15 AM   
txurinal


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Status: offline 		Believe it or not, i met my last MATERS at church

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/17/2010 1:34:25 PM   
Voodali


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Status: offline 		What denomination ?   I thought that when they said you could meet decent men at church, that didn't necessarily apply to people like you and me.  How the hell does one the conversation flow from bible study to "I like to be peed on " ?

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/17/2010 3:18:41 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		I met Mistresses many ways.  Personals online...in print, on jobs, at school, at parties, etc.

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/17/2010 3:49:38 PM   
ResidentSadist


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ORIGINAL: txurinal

Believe it or not, i met my last MATERS at church

Inquiring minds want to know . . . were they clergy?


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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/17/2010 6:12:55 PM   
sofldan


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Status: offline 		Bacon always works. Who can resist bacon?

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/17/2010 8:43:44 PM   
SubPet715


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Status: offline 		So far i'm having much better luck with craigslist, people get to stay anonymous and its *dare I say* easier.

Easier in the way that its like laying out bait for a trap, if your bait is good it will attract something good and you can just check the trap every so often. While as here you need to correspond and such, some people (not this guy) are not into the upkeep of an online profile.

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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/17/2010 9:07:05 PM   
BurntKitty


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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/18/2010 12:45:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		They castrate themselves because true submission can only be given by the sterile.

Then the masters will come runnin' to ya!


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RE: How to acquire a male slave? - 10/18/2010 4:11:13 AM   
atursvcMaam


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