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BeautyInSilence -> Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/14/2010 9:37:46 PM)

Don't get me wrong, I'm perfectly happy in my current existance as a single female. But, it wouldn't hurt for there to be (at least) one known (to me, anyway) Master/Dom around here.

The munches are few here, and the BDSM community could be tighter. ...so, where are you guys? Or am I just becoming impatient?




sofldan -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/14/2010 9:43:48 PM)

patience young skywalker. I'm sure you will find what you're looking for, but don't let your impatience make you jump into something with someone too fast. Some people here suggest that it can take years to find someone, but I'm more of an optimist. But while you are looking make some friends and enjoy yourself. Good luck in your search.




DarkSteven -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/14/2010 9:43:52 PM)

We're all in Colorado.  C'mon over!




crazyml -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 1:37:17 AM)

Welcome!

Without wishing to advertise a "competitor" site - but FetLife may be a better way to get into the NC scene (munches, gatherings, etc) than here.

That said - if you're looking for a friendly Dom chap to correspond with, you could do worse than chatting to a few of the regs here.

If you're looking to get your kink on, you'll have no problem getting offers... your challenge will be filtering out the crazies, incompatibles and "not quite for yous" from the deluge of mail that you get!

Good luck!




Focus50 -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 2:31:43 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BeautyInSilence

Don't get me wrong, I'm perfectly happy in my current existance as a single female. But, it wouldn't hurt for there to be (at least) one known (to me, anyway) Master/Dom around here.

The munches are few here, and the BDSM community could be tighter. ...so, where are you guys? Or am I just becoming impatient?



What, are you blind???? I'm right here...! [sm=couch.gif]

I'm assuming you're in Newcastle (Oz) because I've often wondered the same thing about fem/subs....

And if not, welcome to the forums anyway.... :)

Focus.




DesFIP -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 4:58:03 AM)

So where is it written that you can't write to the guys whose profiles you find attractive? Read through profiles of males in your area and write the ones that appeal.




IronBear -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 6:15:45 AM)

Forget New South Wales (Australia) when it is universally known that here in sunny76 Queensland (Australia) is the location where quality Dominants reside.........




crazyml -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 6:26:14 AM)

'Stralian Doms.... so competitive ;-)




IronBear -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 6:35:38 AM)

Aye mate 'tis but an interstate rivalry..




poise -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 6:39:11 AM)

Hello Beauty...welcome to Collarme. This forum is visited by many wonderful people
of all dynamics. Since your profile states that you are seeking a Master or a Mistress,
perhaps you could introduce yourself to this forum in the Introduction Section.
It's a great way to get your foot in the door....so to speak, and you will get more exposure there.




LadyPact -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 8:31:34 AM)

I checked your location on your profile because someone mentioned NC. 

Munches in North Carolina are not "few".  I've been to kink events in NC and My experience does not match yours.  Have you thought about visiting some other locations within the state?  Believe Me.  Some of the kinky folks in that state are worth the trip.




tazzygirl -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 9:51:05 AM)

SC has quite a few as well. Might be worth the trip.




weaselwelder -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 6:33:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

So where is it written that you can't write to the guys whose profiles you find attractive? Read through profiles of males in your area and write the ones that appeal.


I'd love  to know who had the idea in the first place that subs don't or shouldn't message doms on here. I have a list of people to headbutt in the community and one more wouldn't hurt.* I for one had better luck with subs who messaged me than I ever did the other way around.

Seriously, this is good advice. Just look at the profiles and MESSAGE THEM.


*Okay, it would hurt them, but I expect my head will be rather numb by the end. It's a long list.




Kaliko -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/15/2010 6:52:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

We're all in Colorado.  C'mon over!


I was just in Colorado - I didn't see any of you!




AnimusRex -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/16/2010 5:44:09 PM)

Hmm, perhaps posting a naked picture, preferably of the vaginal region, and state boldly that you provide free beer amd nachos with every encounter.

This may drive up the traffic to your inbox just a bit.




unnamedpet -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/16/2010 9:04:27 PM)

Beauty,

There are a few groups in the NC area some are age restricted over 21 others are 18-35. I spend up to three nights a month going to regular munches and then 2-3 nights a month at socials. As someone else suggested Fetlife does have regularly posted events and a more active database than here. Goodluck in your pursuit.




Arturas -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/16/2010 9:14:17 PM)

Greetings,

Suggest you check out the "CPI/TheMark in Nashville" group on Fetlife. The Mark is a lifestyle weekend evening club in Nashville. A wonderful first class bunch of people you'd ever want to meet. Nashville is not too far from NC for a weekend getaway.

Arturas

edited to correct the group name.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/17/2010 11:08:27 AM)

She just needs to follow AnimusRex advice:
1 - stick "free beer & sandwiches" in your profile.
2 - post tits and ass pics
3 - write how you like giving head to guys while they watch sports on TV
4 - don't say anything that will give away how you are an impatient brat that thinks CollarMe will delivery you a "Daddy Dom" in 2 days or less
5 - don't mention that like CollarMe, you expect your "Daddy Dom" hand you the world on a silver platter
* just focus on the free beer and head, you'll do fine.

How do you tell an 18yo brat that after being here for 2 days, she is just being impatient? 




sexyred1 -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/19/2010 7:56:10 PM)

I think you just did.




CreativeDominant -> RE: Asking The Master(s) - Where Are You Guys? (10/20/2010 3:05:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kaliko


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

We're all in Colorado.  C'mon over!


I was just in Colorado - I didn't see any of you!
Should have looked harder...you'd have noted the glow from my halo burn if you'd looked northeast from Denver...[;)]




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