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Tonguezila -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 1:21:30 AM)

Why do so many of you have a holier then thow attitude, this it not a bible studies group here it's a BDSM forum. I was not aiming to humiliate her; I was aiming to share our experiences. I am sick of judgmental know it all’s mouthing off.
How dare you pretend to think to tell me what love is or how I should express it. This is an alternative lifestyle or have you forgotten that? BDSM is only part of what we do and we are very happy doing what we do. BDSM is as varied as the imagination, just because we do it differently then you does not make it wrong. I bet you would not post your experiences here for fear of ridicule by the same type judgemental dilatants that you yourself are.



GreedyTop -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 1:25:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

I seriously doubt a fashion blog would be of interest to me so I can appreciate your lack of interest in my subs blog and I seriously doubt it is far more fabulous then my subs blog.. But then it is all just a matter of opinion I suppose. Good luck with your blog, and may I suggest you don't post it here.
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

Hmmmm I'm sorry I posted my subs blog here, all I seem to get are pedantic little complaints about font and punctuation. For a group into extreme lifestyles there seems to be a lot of intolerance over some full stops and gawdy fonts.


You will have to quickly get over the myth that because one is into a kinky lifestyle they are any less tolerant over grammar, spelling and a myriad of annoying things that life provides, such as font size.

Aside from that, I am not interested in reading sub blogs, I have a fashion blog that is far more fabulous.




I'd actually like to SEE the fashion blog.. god knows I need help in that department!



GreedyTop -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 1:28:33 AM)

Personally, I choose not post my experiences because I feel like those experiences between and the person I am seriously involved with to be PRIVATE, and not for public consumption.




Tonguezila -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 1:55:00 AM)

Hi GreedyTop,
I respect your desire for both a fashion blog and for privacy, and admit what we do isn't everyones cup of tea. We are all different and I think the differences make this world interesting.



GreedyTop -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 2:03:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

Hi GreedyTop,
I respect your desire for both a fashion blog and for privacy, and admit what we do isn't everyones cup of tea. We are all different and I think the differences make this world interesting.



That difference is why you're getting so much flak on posting her blog.  Just sayin'....



Zevar -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 9:12:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

Why do so many of you have a holier then thow attitude, this it not a bible studies group here it's a BDSM forum. I was not aiming to humiliate her; I was aiming to share our experiences. I am sick of judgmental know it all’s mouthing off.
How dare you pretend to think to tell me what love is or how I should express it. This is an alternative lifestyle or have you forgotten that? BDSM is only part of what we do and we are very happy doing what we do. BDSM is as varied as the imagination, just because we do it differently then you does not make it wrong. I bet you would not post your experiences here for fear of ridicule by the same type judgemental dilatants that you yourself are.


It appears you have chosen to grossly misinterpret the constructive input offered in reply to your entry regarding “My subs blog.” It is unfortunate for this woman you claim to “ love ” that you refuse to even consider constructive input.

FYI - I do not enjoy exhibitionism, public humiliation or degrading any woman. Nor do I find any of the preceding to be erotic. Judgement? Not! We simply differ & I feel intensely strong about my beliefs that contribute to how I treat a lady, as you do, aye!

Take care!



sexyred1 -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 9:27:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

Why do so many of you have a holier then thow attitude, this it not a bible studies group here it's a BDSM forum. I was not aiming to humiliate her; I was aiming to share our experiences. I am sick of judgmental know it all’s mouthing off.
How dare you pretend to think to tell me what love is or how I should express it. This is an alternative lifestyle or have you forgotten that? BDSM is only part of what we do and we are very happy doing what we do. BDSM is as varied as the imagination, just because we do it differently then you does not make it wrong. I bet you would not post your experiences here for fear of ridicule by the same type judgemental dilatants that you yourself are.



First off, the word is:

dilettante [( dil -uh-tahnt, dil-uh- tahnt )]


Someone who is interested in the fine arts as a spectator, not as a serious practitioner. Dilettante is most often used to mean a dabbler, someone with a broad but shallow attachment to any field.

Your use of the word is incorrect in that eveyone posting to you is very experienced and no dabblers here. Even if inexperienced people replied, it would still have no bearing on their interest in you.

Your problem is not that you love your sub, or what you do in BDSM, your problem is that you have internet-ego-itis. A disease where you believe that everything you write or your sub writes would be of interest to people who happen to be on the same site as you.

There is nothing wrong with sharing, but when you have a blog, such as my fashion blog, you don't post it and order people to read it, you let people know you have it available and if they are into it, they reply. You would do better to stop whining and post your sub's blog, if that is what she wants, on her JOURNAL where others can view it. There is a tab for searching by journal on the other side of CM.

Your immature reaction to people not interested in your sub's blog is interesting considering it is a free public kink site and not your own personal webpage where you can control the action posted.

I don't see judgement, I see people who are allowed to say they are not interested in sharing what you have posted.

I personally would not share a blog of my personal experience; it is private between me and whomever.



GreedyTop -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 9:51:20 AM)

so, Sexylicious.. I can count on you not posting our shared sexybombness when it happens?  lol ;)



odysseyIndeed -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 11:16:51 AM)

~FR~

I read the green entry and skimmed other parts of it. The only thing I really have to say is I truly hope that when you are choosing these people that your submissive does not seem to even know and cannot see while blindfolded .. these men that are randomly feeding her their semen .. that You have gotten recent test results that definitively prove they don't have any transmittable diseases. I know that sharing out one's submissive or slave is done in some relationships, it just never occurred to me they were being shared out bareback :(

I'm really glad I'm not into humiliation, especially public, but I am glad your submissive has an outlet if it is something she enjoys. I hope she stays safe.



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 4:46:43 PM)

Thank you for the compliment in saying i have a great blog.



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 4:47:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Awesome blog!

Like sunshinemiss said- there's no way I'll post comments there. But its a great blog, thanks!



Thank you for your compliments.



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 4:49:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KitchenWench

Wow...that font is not the easiest on the eyes. Impossible for me to read. Too neon green and way too large. And there's been a pea under my mattress keeping me from sleeping well, too. ;-)


The font will improve. Thank you.



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 4:51:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: poise

Im kind of confused that this is in an Introduce Yourself thread, and yet you are directing us to your subs blog.
Are we supposed to learn about you via her experiences, and if so, why would any of that be of interest to us?
If you would like to offer this link for others to read, try posting it in the Scene Related links section, but be sure to
read the guidelines first so it isnt deleted again. (ie: you cant just post the link itself...it also needs its own intro)
It's wonderful that she wants to share her experiences with the world and is using the blog to do so, but if she is
hoping for more traffic and more positive comments, I'd suggest she focus less on the color content and font size
which are tolerable at best, and focus more (alot) on punctuation. Proper punctuation is like music to a story
as it gives it necessary rhythm.


My punctuation I will try to improve.



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 4:53:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tewy01

You need to change the script.Hurts the eyes my friend.


For future posts i will not use fluro script. Thank you.



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 4:57:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

I read it. Not really impressed. The Wall-O-Text made me wanna nail my tits to a moving train. And yea...punctuation is a free renewable resource. Use as much as possible. PLEASE!

Other wise...uhm yea. Congrats on the blog.


It is unfortunate My blog did not impress you.
Punctuation is a great thing to be good at and i will be working on it.
A bit of advice for you though, yea's and ...'s are pretty lame too.
Maybe give that tit thing a try i know i would love to see YOU do it.
Have a nice day [:)]



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 5:00:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

Hmmmm I'm sorry I posted my subs blog here, all I seem to get are pedantic little complaints about font and punctuation. For a group into extreme lifestyles there seems to be a lot of intolerance over some full stops and gawdy fonts.


You will have to quickly get over the myth that because one is into a kinky lifestyle they are any less tolerant over grammar, spelling and a myriad of annoying things that life provides, such as font size.

Aside from that, I am not interested in reading sub blogs, I have a fashion blog that is far more fabulous.


Good luck with your fashion blog.
Try not to let your ego destroy it for you!



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 5:07:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Zevar

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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

Hi all, this is my subs blog, for some reason her link had been deleted in the past, we don't do it for money, she tells of the things we have done and how she feels. It's not for everyone but if you have something to say please post comments on her blog, she loves getting comments.

http://memoirsofasubslut.blogspot.com/


While you have the right to make choices that suit you, I find your choice in publicly humiliating this woman, you call your “sub”, to be worthy of incurring public disgrace, at best. Your entry appears to be likened to a failed stratagem. Or it might simply be misguidedness on your part. Then again, perhaps [Public Humiliation] is the goal of the linked blog?

I fail to understand why you would post the link to this blog if you did not want more traffic? Was there another motive that I missed?

If Applicable: Fill in the blank _______________________

Do note, I fully understand you have every right to do as you find suitable. I simply do not find publicly humiliating a woman I claim to love on the Internet noteworthy for the entire Universe to view and read of intimate details that [IMO] are confidential.. But then my definition of loving a woman excludes humiliation of any sort.

In closing, I would offer a Welcome but I am unsure if doing so would incite further fueling of this altogether tactless blog where you have [IMO] exploited this woman that you claim to “love” in order to get YOU a few moments of Internet “ Star-Dom.” No pun intended, aye!

Be Well!



HE calls me a sub because that is what i am to HIM.
Being called a sub does not humiliate me, It is an honor, i am loved, owned, and cared for.
Being called a sub means that in O/our situation i am HIS girl. and to me that is everything.



slaveluci -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 5:11:14 PM)

It seems like you and your master are really enjoying your experiences together. Putting colors, fonts, spelling and grammar critiques aside, what you're relating in your blog sounds like fun for all involved. Your photos and videos are nice and it's nice to see a big girl proud of her body[;)] Try to put the criticism aside and keep having fun. Welcome..........luci



toungesgurl -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 5:14:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Tonguezila

Why do so many of you have a holier then thow attitude, this it not a bible studies group here it's a BDSM forum. I was not aiming to humiliate her; I was aiming to share our experiences. I am sick of judgmental know it all’s mouthing off.
How dare you pretend to think to tell me what love is or how I should express it. This is an alternative lifestyle or have you forgotten that? BDSM is only part of what we do and we are very happy doing what we do. BDSM is as varied as the imagination, just because we do it differently then you does not make it wrong. I bet you would not post your experiences here for fear of ridicule by the same type judgemental dilatants that you yourself are.


MASTER,
YOU love me unconditionally, YOU take care of me, YOU are my best friend, And YOU know exactly what love is.
The opinions that are being placed here are from people that do not have what W/we have.
They are the ones missing out. And perhaps that is because they are so caught up in colours, and punctuation that they dont see the connection experiences and fun W/we share.

YOU calling me a sub does not humiliate me, it flatters me. i am YOURS
i love YOU

i will work harder on punctuation, And i will avoid fluro colours in my blog in future for those that did enjoy my writings and experiences.



sunshinemiss -> RE: My subs blog (10/18/2010 5:20:48 PM)

Hello gurl,

Red's blog appeals to her audience.  It's charming.  I don't like fashion particularly, but I enjoy her biting humor and charm.  I, too, have a blog, but it's more of a personal journal sort of thing.  There are a few people I'm close to who enjoy it.  I don't, however, presume that the minutiae of my life would be interesting to others.  Anybody who reads my blog is informed right up front that it is what it is.  I would not put it in the forums because, frankly, I'm not that interesting.

I'm glad you are expressing yourself.  However, Red has a point, whether you like it or not.  "Know your audience."  There are quite a number of folks here who have rather high standards for what is around.  It's great that you want to be open and share yourself.  However, there is a certain amount of privacy that is healthy.  It sounds like from this thread that perhaps you don't know your audience and that you may be writing a diary rather than a blog.  To me (TO ME) a blog is about the audience.  I try to cater my thoughts to that. 

best, and enjoy your writing process,
sunshine



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