Zevar
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Hi all, this is my subs blog, for some reason her link had been deleted in the past, we don't do it for money, she tells of the things we have done and how she feels. It's not for everyone but if you have something to say please post comments on her blog, she loves getting comments.
http://memoirsofasubslut.blogspot.com/
While you have the right to make choices that suit you, I find your choice in publicly humiliating this woman, you call your “sub”, to be worthy of incurring public disgrace, at best. Your entry appears to be likened to a failed stratagem. Or it might simply be misguidedness on your part. Then again, perhaps [Public Humiliation] is the goal of the linked blog?
I fail to understand why you would post the link to this blog if you did not want more traffic? Was there another motive that I missed?
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Do note, I fully understand you have every right to do as you find suitable. I simply do not find publicly humiliating a woman I claim to love on the Internet noteworthy for the entire Universe to view and read of intimate details that [IMO] are confidential.. But then my definition of loving a woman excludes humiliation of any sort.
In closing, I would offer a Welcome but I am unsure if doing so would incite further fueling of this altogether tactless blog where you have [IMO] exploited this woman that you claim to “love” in order to get YOU a few moments of Internet “ Star-Dom.” No pun intended, aye!
Be Well!
HE calls me a sub because that is what i am to HIM.
Being called a sub does not humiliate me, It is an honor, i am loved, owned, and cared for.
Being called a sub means that in O/our situation i am HIS girl. and to me that is everything.
Hopefully will learn your limits in time. Your being called a sub by this man is not the issue. He has an obligation as a man to protect you and not simply use you. Healthy relating is indicative of dynamics that include mutual respect, one to another.
I did not read anything in your blog that is demonstrative of mutual respect. I read all sort of sexually exploitive behavoir that is required of you in your relating with this man. Does he ensure that SAFE SEX is being practiced? Hopefully so, since there was talk of body fluids being exchanged. There is a serious obligation for him in "contracting" you in being sexual with strangers or whomever!
STD's are serious and not to be forgotten because some man says so. I do hope that you are tested regularly as are the strangers he allows to engage sexually with a woman he calls his " sub." YES, there is a world of responsibility in engaging sexually. SAFE SEX or NO SEX!
Further, I do not consider your man noteworthy of debating. One would need to understand the principles of debating prior to engaging. It is obvious that the man you have allowed into your life has yet to demonstrate what is noteworthy in any of his replies. Nor has he proven to understand the principles of debating or intellectual discourse.
What I have witnessed is that he insults ladies that are intelligent and capable of debating him under a table. He has proven to refuse to think in a rational manner thus does not prove his ability to calmly debate the subject he proposed, {your blog.} He has you reply to replies that were for him, which is questionable, at best.
He has also proven that when he does not like the answer presented he resorts to back alley fighting tactics and toward ladies no less. I have no respect for any man who treats ladies in a way that is demonstrative of verbal assaults on their dignity. How cowardly and unmanly indeed when a man chooses less than what is his responsibilty to accomplish!
What you and he do not know is that many of the men and ladies here who post regularly do so in a manner that is noteworthy. Worthy of being read. Worthy of understanding. Worthy of debating. Worthy of listening to and learning a different perspective. Based on the actions of your man I cannot say the same for him, regrettably.
I find any further time toward mentioning my position regarding your blog to be fruitless. Sad but true as the man you allow to lead you has led you into a place he will eventually have to confront, that is if he is seriously willing to accept the responsibilities of being a man of integrity. You may think as you choose, obviously. However what goes around will eventually come full circle from whence it was sent.
Remember though, what you cannot identify does not mean it doesn’t exist and in many instances is eroding at integrity, which is the true noteworthiness of a man. Not how many times or how he can sexually use a woman. Or how many times his semen is ejaculated. Nor how many times he allows other men to sexually use his lady whom he is solely responsible to care for. Love includes far more than sexual pleasure. As does genuine care. Consider this, aye!
Be SAFE!
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Take really good care of you!
< Message edited by Zevar -- 10/19/2010 10:34:45 AM >
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RE: My subs blog - 
Try to put the criticism aside and keep having fun. Welcome..........luci 
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