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DesFIP -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/27/2010 4:52:43 AM)
Yes, they do according to the m & m site. What we haven't discussed yet is what helps prevent it. Along with aftercare comes precare, and this you do yourself. I won't play if I haven't eaten that day yet. Or if I'm already thirsty or overtired. We've learned that those kinds of things can cause subdrop to be much worse. As well as can cause me to hit a bad space during play needing an immediate end to it with me in a bad place, being very needy and emotionally all over the place. And this is my responsibility, to say wait, I need water and a power bar first or a half hour nap or to be cuddled first if I'm having a rough day. I have to assess my own state and see what I need to be in the best possible shape before play. You wouldn't run a marathon if you hadn't eaten properly for days or hadn't slept, neither should you play hard in that shape.

phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/27/2010 9:55:16 AM)
drop only happend a couple of times and he just held me till i stopped crying but normally after ive gone to space i jsut get really thirsty and cuddly. he can feel claustrophobic sometims so we can be at odds if this happens he will curl up and i attatch myself to his back a bit like a koala if not he will jsut hug me . both work

CollarSubGirl -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/27/2010 11:09:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfyMontgomery quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist I always toss her a blanky, a bag of M&Ms, pat her on the head and tell her she's a good girl. That seems to work for most people. [8D] M&Ms would be a no-no for me. Gimme Dark Chocolate! -makes grabby hands- Otherwise I'm a crabby subby girlie girl. Unless they make dark chocolate M&Ms... those might work... do they make those? They Make Regular M&Ms Peanut M&Ms Peanut Butter M&Ms Pretzel M&Ms Dark Chocolate M&Ms Dark Chocolate Peanut M&Ms

WolfyMontgomery -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/27/2010 11:17:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CollarSubGirl quote: ORIGINAL: WolfyMontgomery quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist I always toss her a blanky, a bag of M&Ms, pat her on the head and tell her she's a good girl. That seems to work for most people. [8D] M&Ms would be a no-no for me. Gimme Dark Chocolate! -makes grabby hands- Otherwise I'm a crabby subby girlie girl. Unless they make dark chocolate M&Ms... those might work... do they make those? They Make Regular M&Ms Peanut M&Ms Peanut Butter M&Ms Pretzel M&Ms Dark Chocolate M&Ms Dark Chocolate Peanut M&Ms ....I think I know what I'm asking Master to get me for my birthday.

allnewtome -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/28/2010 4:28:21 AM)
A quilt and hot tea with milk and 4 or 5 sugars in it. I get severe shakes and need an instant sugar hit.

ResidentSadist -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/28/2010 3:31:59 PM)
Glad to hear M&Ms still hold up to par. "M&Ms for the S&M moments in your life"

WolfyMontgomery -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/28/2010 3:36:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Glad to hear M&Ms still hold up to par. "M&Ms for the S&M moments in your life" Hehehehe... that made me giggle so hard Master threw a pillow at me! Bad me for interrupting important phone calls with insane giggles -slaps wrist-

SorceressJ -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/28/2010 3:40:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WolfyMontgomery quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Glad to hear M&Ms still hold up to par. "M&Ms for the S&M moments in your life" Hehehehe... that made me giggle so hard Master threw a pillow at me! Bad me for interrupting important phone calls with insane giggles -slaps wrist- [image]local://upfiles/1044097/2A746F56AE024455B092CEF12D8D0B21.jpg[/image]

WolfyMontgomery -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/28/2010 3:45:41 PM)
Damnit you did it again! I gotta stop reading things when Master's on the phone, I tend to get "the look".... I am most definitely keeping that image though. Let's hope I've prepared enough to keep from sub-dropping since I'm pretty sure my very loud giggles have earned me a punishment ;D Seeing as how I had a pretty large breakfast though, I think I'm good in the pre-nourishment department though lol

DMFParadox -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (10/28/2010 4:11:06 PM)
I want that patch. Googling it right now.

luv4softbutch -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (11/2/2010 10:53:34 AM)
Thank you for sharing articles were interesting. quote: ORIGINAL: sofldan here are some things I found. http://www.steel-door.com/aftercare.htm http://www.ehow.com/how_6601319_self_administer-aftercare-bdsm.html

DesFIP -> RE: sub drop/and after care ??? (11/2/2010 12:53:44 PM)
You can get m & m's personalized. I have a vision of a bag of them, half with a s and half with a m. S & m M & M's!

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