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hello some advice/guidance - 10/18/2010 7:09:01 AM

Rescuer13601

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Hello all, been here for a while and have not posted much, and not sure this where I want to post this....

My wife and I have been doing some talking/exploring. she is very sub, and I am switch, but lean towards sub. She wants me to be more dom, and also she has done a little domming, or topping from bottom. I want both so that is why I am listed as switch, but I want to give her what she wants. So I am seeking some guidance, online, on yahoo or msn or skype or aim. , or text .....

Thoughts, ideas, lessons, etc.

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RE: hello some advice/guidance - 10/18/2010 8:58:29 AM

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welcome I would start reading all I could in the ask a switch forum, find local events to go to, and keep doing what you just did ask a lot of questions. good luck in your journey

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RE: hello some advice/guidance - 10/18/2010 9:50:13 AM

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Welcome to the forums. Look up local area munches, or the nearest big city where you live, meet people who live it in real life, read the different forums here, use the search button available at the top right hand corner and enter a subject, find online material. Start your own threads if you can't find it in the search engine, make sure it's older than 6 months, there's a lot of re-hashing of the same thing over and over again.

There are books available, forget the porn ones, and some are better than others. Pick and choose what you think may be relevant to your situation.

You have to be careful in asking direct questions of strangers in cmails, as quite a few consider this to be a private matter between themselves and their partner. Read old and newer posts, there's lots of information to be had there also. There are no stupid questions, but there can be stupid answers, so beware and take everything with a grain of salt and sometimes a sense of humour. Good luck.

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