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lizi -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 11:54:56 AM)
Your profile is 90% kink/sex interests with no text, you have explicit pictures up, and you have listed that you are looking for any type of male or female regardless of orientation. If you wrote me, I'd draw the conclusion that you were looking for anything you could get- I value myself more than that. You also have a derogatory username, and you are a crossdresser so we don't even have common interests. I wouldn't bother to reply because you and I are on completely different planets and I wouldn't want to give you any kind of encouragement whatsoever. When something is that far off the mark for me I just don't deal with it and I generally do reply to say no thanks. I guess sometimes it might depend on who you are writing and if they find themselves compatible with what you have presented to them so far. Btw, using spellcheck might give the impression that you give a darn but it probably won't help a lot with the other stuff.

nephandi -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 11:58:00 AM)
Greetings People often do not have the time to answer every mail. Now I do not know what sort of mails you send, but I get allot that sound like this. Hi u want to chat? Nothing else, just a one liner with 7 words and less. Such mail is not always a priority to send an answer to. I wish you well

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:00:28 PM)
When your main pic is what pops up, and seeing that it's obviously in a park, right next to a road, where I gather any family with kids could drive by? Don't wonder why you don't get a response. That says it right there. Now how complicated is that? There's also the legal aspect of having the police "drive by" and arrest you. For obvious reasons. And you're how old? Suck it up buttercup, you're not going to be everyone's cup of tea, or coffee, get used to the idea that not every cmail sent is answered. Especially if they look at you're profile first. It's going to be a huge turn off to a lot of people here.

AquaticSub -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:02:17 PM)
To be fair, it could be private property. Anyone can buy those types of benches and stick them on their land.

lizi -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:03:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nineveh quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP So, OP, when you get a letter in the mail offering you a credit card, do you write back no thank you letters? Why not? I mean, if you want others to respond to your unwanted mail, shouldn't you lead by example? No response is a response, a response meaning no. The reason women aren't going to write back to say no is that men get hostile when rejected. If we don't respond we don't get mail threatening us, if we do respond with a rejection, then we do. So we don't respond. Go join your local community and make friends. That's your best way of finding a partner. Sending unwanted spam asking people to do you in a way that gets you off and wastes their time is the worst way of looking for a partner. I assume women also do not write back because they are getting pages of mails. taking the time to respond to all of them would mean they wouldn't be able to send more than a sentence or two, and wouldn't be able to properly focus on the ones they are itnerested in. Yes, women get a lot of mail and it takes time to respond, this is true, but it's not the main reason why they don't respond. Des told you the main reason why and you ignored it for some reason. It's because women get hostile mail in return when they do reply with a no thanks. Like she said, if women do not reply they do not get the nasty comments in return, whereas if they do reply they run the risk of having some stranger penalize them for their reply by being nasty to them.

DesFIP -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:07:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nineveh I assume women also do not write back because they are getting pages of mails. taking the time to respond to all of them would mean they wouldn't be able to send more than a sentence or two, and wouldn't be able to properly focus on the ones they are itnerested in. I'd much rather get 1 well thought out reply than 4 one sentence ones that don't really say anything. Originally I would answer every email with a no thanks. It stopped after I started getting really ugly threats. Guys hoping I met a serial killer who would slice me up and such. One email of that kind is enough to keep you from ever answering again.

Zevar -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:13:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pigslave2abuse what i hate is when people can not take the time to reply look if i take the time to send you a email please even if your not interested reply and say so I hope you know that it is unrealistic to believe that everyone you send an email to will reply or like you? If someone replies then great. Discuss what you may. However when someone ignores your email, so what? Their loss, aye! Oh yes, do not look back you might get tricked into believing this or that which is not true whatsoever. Do yourself a favor, go take a walk as it might do you some good in forgetting that you did not get an email reply. I say, Live life regardless of this or that or guess what or oh no! Take care!

DomMeinCT -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:28:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pigslave2abuse what i hate is when people can not take the time to reply look if i take the time to send you a email please even if your not interested reply and say so Do you reply to every person and company who sends mail to you in your home mailbox? That's probably a "no". Why should it be any different online here on CollarMe, or anywhere else?

crazyml -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:51:18 PM)
Yeah, I'm sorry about that - I just kept coming back to your profile and getting the urge to mail you! Hell of course you got a ton of emails - hawt, young, single...

crazyml -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 12:53:11 PM)
Having taken a look at your profile, there's no way I'd reply. For fuck's sake - you have "Historical Shows" in your list of loves. That's a hard limit for me.

Hillwilliam -> RE: relpys (10/19/2010 1:34:42 PM)
If you wrote me, I wouldn't answer you back either.

Nineveh -> RE: relpys (10/20/2010 12:04:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP quote: ORIGINAL: Nineveh I assume women also do not write back because they are getting pages of mails. taking the time to respond to all of them would mean they wouldn't be able to send more than a sentence or two, and wouldn't be able to properly focus on the ones they are itnerested in. I'd much rather get 1 well thought out reply than 4 one sentence ones that don't really say anything. Originally I would answer every email with a no thanks. It stopped after I started getting really ugly threats. Guys hoping I met a serial killer who would slice me up and such. One email of that kind is enough to keep you from ever answering again. To you and tizi both. I'm honestly kind of glad that women take that approach. I'm not going to threaten anyone for rejecting me, but I can only take so much rejection, if every non response was a rejection instead, even a polite one, I'd probably stop sending messages at all.

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