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OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 12:53:34 AM

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B had shoulder surgery fairly recently, and apparently impact play doesn't qualify as physical therapy - but hey, it was worth asking. The look on the therapist's face was priceless...

He's also been busy and stressed with work. I like to take care of most of the housework so he doesn't have to worry about it. He decided he didn't like how I rolled his socks (you know, so they stay together in pairs) and I got my first over-the-knee spanking in three months. It was more funishment than punishment, so...yay for me!

While I'm on the subject...I seem to be becoming a bit of a pain slut. J enjoys topping, but she's not comfortable hitting as hard as I'd like - and B misses being able to smack my ass now and then. Does anyone have any suggestions on a different position or an impact toy that provides exponential force on the receiving end? He needs gentle repetitive exercise to start re-building muscle, and I'm more than happy to help by providing something to aim at...purely selfless, you know. I'm a giver.

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 5:45:49 AM

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What about an acrylic cane then, it doesn't give at all and so hurts worse than other stuff.

This is funny, The Man's just hurt his shoulder and it is slowly healing but I figure there are a couple of weeks before he can spank me again. I'm taking advantage of it to get away with fun stuff. He knows what I'm doing because I told him. I think he's decided to give me enough rope and see if I'll hang myself, metaphorically.

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 6:05:52 AM

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I'm always struck by how little force it takes to make a frat paddle hurt. He'd probably need to use his free hand to help support the weight of the paddle, but his arm and injured shoulder can provide the forward movement.

If you're looking for OTK stuff, look for paddles with long handles and smallish areas of impact. (Or just buy a bath brush, if you aren't one of those people who needs specialized BDSM gear.) He'll be able to create most of the impact with his wrist, although he'll need to be careful about the way small, sharp movements affect his shoulder.

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 6:08:41 AM

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Of course, he could decide to learn to spank with his nondominant hand.

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 11:12:17 AM

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Of course, he could decide to learn to spank with his nondominant hand.

What? He has a NONdominant hand?! lol

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 3:40:14 PM

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No wire hangers ever!!!

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 4:09:59 PM

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Gotta love the arm motion ... best therapy for tennis elbow!

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 6:10:07 PM

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Hi switch2please--

If you definitely are looking for a good paddle that requires minimum force for maximum effect:
I highly suggest any of the bamboo paddles from Paddles by Walt. I've posted his website in the merchants section but I'll repost it here for you since it is related to your question. The bamboo is very hard, very effective...and quite lightweight. About half the weight of a standard hardwood paddle, so it requires less force to swing, and should be easier on the arm/elbow/shoulder. If you really want to improve the effect, Walt can drill beveled holes in it.

I also highly recommend the paddle called "the smacker". It's half the size of a standard paddle and only gets one cheek at a time, but very, very effective and lightweight. I personally suggest either the Padauk (which I purchased for my Head of Household) or the Bubinga. Both are stunningly beautiful, and very hard woods--not a lot of force still makes a very stinging blow. The Padauk and Bubinga woods give much more sting than thud, which is easier on the shoulder/elbow. (and hurt like hell on the receiving end)

And Walt and his wife Linda are just lovely. Email Linda and ask her what she recommends--she'll be happy to help you and they do all custom work. www.spanking-paddles.com

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/20/2010 8:57:50 PM

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Thank you all for your responses, I've got some toys to find online...

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/21/2010 9:35:12 AM

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Wooden spatulas are very light weight and can hurt badly if applied to more sensitive areas. Inner thighs come to mind.

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RE: OTK spanking - 10/23/2010 1:11:06 PM

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Yep, just use the other hand, or do things that hurt but don't involve impact (clamps, wax, whatever). You definitely don't want him to get so caught up in the moment that he overdoes and reinjures himself.

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RE: OTK spanking - 11/9/2010 7:04:13 PM

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any paddle will do, as the spanker hand doesn't take the hit , thus not hurt as much.. I have an evil paddle that I only use for punishment.. I got it from Mr S in san fran.. it is a rubber one ... not much force needed and it will leave some purple marks (maybe too strong for your intent)!!!

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