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Toppingfrmbottom -> Holyshit batman way to come across as a condesending jack ass (10/20/2010 5:27:15 PM)
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So I posted some new photo's of myself on fetlife, and someone emails with me you're to young. I was like to young for what, huh, and opened the email. and the email reads
You are still young enough that you should be able to lose weight. You need to do it. It's very unhealthy. Get out and walk then jog then run......
. now I am prepaired for the worst, but still, I ask what do you mean, because the breast question or something else. Because on a forum on fetlife I asked a boob related question.
They replied with
I'm just looking at your pictures and reading your posts. Sounds like you have a lot of free time. You need to work out. From viewing your pictures it appears that your house is a mess too. Doing housework will allow you to get some cardio and you can lose weight. It looks like your dom is obese as well. If he can't control his own eating habits, how is he able to control his submissive?
This is some good advice and you should heed it, hon.
I admit I was far to polite in my reply.
I said,
Have you perhaps considered I prefer being a bbw? Or We're what you term a feeder feedee fetish, where the goal is to be fat, Or perhaps he's a chubby chaser, as they call it. I hate the term it's a bit derogatory I feel, but some women do / are you know. I don't of course, want to get fatter, or are a chubby chaser, but you know, what ever floats a person's boat.
And I'm not his submissive, I am a baby girl. We don't have a relationship based on domination or D/s.
I guess you could still consider it controlling if you put it at the right angle because parents control their children, and I am his "child like" partner.
He's actually started martial arts, we're so excited for him. Hopefully it'll build his sense of self worth and self esteem and help with some of his depression.
But it's nice of you to be concerned, even if the tone was a bit patronizing.
:)
I haven't heard back from them yet, but maybe it made them realize just waltzing into someone's email un invited and out of the blue and saying condescending things, even if you mean well, is poor taste and tacky.
It's true I have a lot of time, and it's true my house can be seen to be a mess in some of my pictures, but I'd never dream of going up to someone, not having ever spoke to them or know them, and comment on their situation. She doesn't know why my house is a mess, maybe I am going through a truamtic time in my life, maybe my mom just died and I am depressed, and in that case maybe my house is justified in being a bit messy.* I'm not so all the good people here please don't worry, but SHE doesn't know that, and it's not her place, means well or not to tell email people with her comments.
Or maybe I want to clean house but I have reasons I can't do it all alone, or do very much of it, and I can't get no fricken help cleaning my house from my SO, and can't do it all alone, and what I do do, is slow going.. Or maybe those pictures are really old, but still good valid happy memory shots, so I am not taking them down even if they're not a snap shot in this moment and time that is current any more.
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