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breatheasone -> RE: subs as pimps (4/30/2009 11:01:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingmaster45 I have seen quite a few profiles here and on other sites which are solicitations from submissive females to other sub females to come join them and their Master for play. Exactly what is their role here? Are they acting as pimps? I would have thought that any competent Master would not have to have his sub out trolling for him; but rather that he would be choosing from a large number of interested sub females to join his "family". What am I missing here? Help anyone? Insight? Master Jerry Yeah, i really don't get it either[8\|]

pinkpantherette -> RE: subs as pimps (4/30/2009 11:04:15 PM)
Mmm, sounds that way to me! Unless they are going to surprise him.

WyldHrt -> RE: subs as pimps (5/1/2009 12:24:07 AM)
psst Necro alert on a 5 year old thread.....

breatheasone -> RE: subs as pimps (5/1/2009 12:43:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt psst Necro alert on a 5 year old thread..... AWWWWW.... i HATE when i get sucked it to an old thread! YUCK!![sm=tantrum.gif]

GreedyTop -> RE: subs as pimps (5/1/2009 12:59:52 AM)
wow.. Mod6 was kinda cool :)

DesFIP -> RE: subs as pimps (5/1/2009 5:08:23 AM)
The OP has large numbers of females interested in joining him and his partner on a permanent basis? If he could bottle that, he'd make a mint. If you want the relationship to work, the two women had better get along. If they're both protective of their control in the kitchen, it won't work. If they don't like each other and are jealous of each other the dominant is going to be spending all his time trying to keep each one calm so they don't both walk out on him.

RealSub58 -> RE: subs as pimps (5/2/2009 8:13:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: ORIGINAL: WyldHrt psst Necro alert on a 5 year old thread..... AWWWWW.... i HATE when i get sucked it to an old thread! YUCK!![sm=tantrum.gif] I was in the mood to be pissy [8D][8D] a few days ago so wondered how long it would take. [:D][:D] [sm=waves.gif] You are quick WyldHrt [sm=waves.gif]

RavenMuse -> RE: subs as pimps (5/3/2009 2:27:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorSix The reason that it doesn't work more often than not is that, what they are called notwithstanding, "slaves" for the most part in this lifestyle are really "submissive girlfriend/boyfriend/spouses" Bingo. I can see 'subs' wanting to 'screen' any potential and having veto rights etc. they are basicaly the ones in charge in their relationship, hence it is their call. It wouldn't work for Me. My girl is Owned by Me, not the other way around. The first thing looked for in any third is compatability for a TPE Dynamic with ME.... I am the one she will be submitting to. If that part doesn't work then the rest is irrelevant. From there I see if she is also compatable with the girl I already Own. It is MY call, MY judgement and hence ME that searches.

InTonguesslut -> RE: subs as pimps (5/3/2009 9:56:23 AM)
~FR~ Ah the old procuring sub's for your Dom debate. Always sure to raise a few eyebrows and tempers lol. Personally i see nothing wrong or strange about getting a sub to find potential partners for their Dom. In fact i can even see advantages to it if i'm honest. Having your sub look for potentials is a great way to keep her fully in the loop of what is happening. Far too often we hear the old 'my sir just added someone new to the mix without telling me, consulting me, having my input etc. That happening can be very disconcerting, unnerving, upsetting. Having your sub look means she will be looking (in the majority of cases)for potential compatibility between all three of you. It has been my experience that Dom's looking to add a third only take into account their compatibility with a potential and not that of their sub. Women (some not all) tend to be able to see things about people most males will miss. They are intuitive and can see potential in people far easier than males can i find. The sub will not be thinking with her vagina and will possibly see flaws that a Dom may not. It has been my experience that flattering a males ego, putting a pretty face in front of him, offering him all he desires often obliterates his ability to see flaws.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: subs as pimps (5/3/2009 10:06:05 AM)
I see this all the time but one thing you can never say.>>YOU have never seen mine out cast a net for others to join my home, I guesss it must work as so many doing so smile..bounty

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: subs as pimps (5/3/2009 10:10:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorSix It's really hard to paint anything like this with too broad a brush. Some of these are single men who post a picture of a gorgeous babe looking to add to their wonderful master's harem. Just another 'net scam. Others are women who have been ordered to do this for reasons that could range from their own bisexuality or need for companionship in a household where their master travels for business to a disciplinary measure to break them of irrational jealous behavior. I maintained a poly household for a number of years that consisted of slaves that were more or less permanent, and, from time to time, novices that came to learn with the intention of moving on to a permanent situation later. While I never had my slaves actively solicit novices to train, it was often the case that the novice would approach the first girl in the house to ask about joining the household, rather than approaching me directly. I think that in a poly situation, a woman's biggest fear often is that she is going to end up in a 24/7 cat fight over access to the master(s) and/or mistresses of the house with the more senior slave(s). Getting to know the slaves of the house first, and being made welcome by them before approaching the dominant member(s) of the household is a way of building some trust without pressure. Mod6 Hello mod6, its actually nice having a moderator joining in a discussion from time to time..Bounty

Huntertn -> RE: subs as pimps (5/3/2009 11:46:11 AM)
How long? 6 years..and still it raised vaild questions on both the dom side and the sub side of the issue

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