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What am I doing wrong? - 10/24/2010 1:47:09 PM   
skinnybitch05


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Status: offline 		Hello all,

Im a crossdresser exploring becoming someones submissive. Im in Virginia Beach VA. I am trying to find a master/mentor male or female, to learn as much as i can from. I hope, in this journey, to become more feminine and comfortable with myself in a sub role. Iam new to this site, and want to meet someone who can help and also enjoy me as my true self.My name is Todd. When I dress up I call myself Niki. Any advice would be outstanding. Thanks,

Niki/todd
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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/24/2010 2:01:08 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Okay.  I assume that "by doing something wrong", you're saying that your search is taking longer than it should?  Is that it?

If so, how long have you been looking, and what resources have you used?  have you been answering other's profiles, or waiting for someone to contact you?


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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/24/2010 2:06:20 PM   
skinnybitch05


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Status: offline 		I meant that its taking longer than i thought it would your right.

I am answering back to profile just a few people have replied back.

I guess i need to be more patient.

Niki/todd

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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/24/2010 2:11:27 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Well, if I contact people in unsolicited messages, I am lucky to get a 5%-10% response rate.

So you're using collarme exclusively, and you are contacting others.  You just joined three days ago - yep, I'd advise some patience.


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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/24/2010 2:14:04 PM   
skinnybitch05


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Status: offline 		makes perfect sense thanks for the advice

Niki

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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/24/2010 2:29:36 PM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		You have a cock ( I think). Therefore, the odds are against you.

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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/24/2010 2:56:42 PM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: skinnybitch05

I meant that its taking longer than i thought it would your right.

I am answering back to profile just a few people have replied back.

I guess i need to be more patient.

Niki/todd



Welcome, and you've only been here a few days.

Be much more patient.

You aren't doing anything wrong, you just need time; perhaps a little more, perhaps a lot more.

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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/25/2010 8:12:24 AM   
myotherself


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OP - I've been here a few years and I'm still looking, and I'm one of those who apparently have some kind of advantage (I'm sub, and I have a vajajay)

Increase your chances of finding what you need by getting out and meeting people - you might have fun too!


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Well, if I contact people in unsolicited messages, I am lucky to get a 5%-10% response rate.



So does that put me in the top 5 - 10%?

Cooool!!

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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/25/2010 6:10:57 PM   
DMFParadox


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Status: offline 		Get OFFLINE and GO OUT.

Rocky horror picture show ftw. I've seen more crossdressers hook up there... Just go meet people, and be straight up about what you're looking for.

ESPECIALLY in my birth town of VA Beach, it's like crossdresser central or some shit. All the navy dudes hanging out... I had to learn how to tolerate the idea real fast around there.


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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/25/2010 9:53:55 PM   
chiaThePet


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Well, for starters you're a skinny bitch.

Just sayin.

Politics and Religion, ask for Popeye.

chia* (the pet)


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RE: What am I doing wrong? - 10/26/2010 12:18:12 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		According to your profile you're looking for NSA. Most people here want to be friends minimum, before they do the nasty. Beyond that, you're looking for someone to fulfill a script for you, with nothing in it for them. Why would they want to force feminize you and have it all be about you with them getting nothing back, not even the promise that next time it will be their fantasy that gets fulfilled? After all, nsa frequently means one time only and then poof.

If in fact, you are looking for a relationship of sorts, even if just fwb, I would suggest you clarify in your profile.


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