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Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 4:18:41 AM   
BlueTrance


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Where everything just seems to.. click? Where thoughts and ideas drifting on the edges of your mind finally come into focus and make sense, in an earth shattering way? That was my experience being introduced to BDSM. A lot of things finally made sense, a part of me felt complete, at home with the new knowledge - part of me was like a child moving into a new home - wanting to see everything, try everything, do everything.

Thankfully, unlike a child I didn't make a big mess in the process.

To introduce myself, I am a young Australian man, a writer, a student and a few other equally ambiguous titles too I'm sure. In an attempt to be concise I will state the following:

I enjoy debate on a subject, I dislike arguments between people.
I love to learn and try new things, although I don't often enjoy being taught.
I've been places in my life, walked on both sides of the tracks and with all the vast experience (relative to age in comparison with peers, before I get snarky comments), it makes me realize how much more there is out there to see, experience and learn.
I believe myself to be a simple man with complicated beliefs.
I believe the whole purpose of fishing is separate from catching fish.

That should do for an introduction, I may post from time to time but I enjoy reading more at the moment. I welcome any questions providing they are questions you are willing to answer yourself, any answers I choose to give will be honest ones.

Enjoy your day,
Blue.
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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 4:20:57 AM   
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Welcome.

To answer your question, yes. Usually after smoking a big fat one.

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 5:16:17 AM   
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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 5:52:15 AM   
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Yeah I have those Moments often it seems lol...Sometimes I do not even feel like getting up...Sometimes I don't ....Depends on my Mood...Being morose and sullen helps me to look at things in a new light...

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 6:21:37 AM   
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Welcome to the group and yes, I think I do know what you mean - usually happens while lying awake at night when I have time to really think things through.

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 7:15:57 AM   
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Welcome from a fellow Victorian (well at the moment I am anyway), enjoy your time here and if you participate in the discussions on the boards I can guarantee you will make some fabulous friends 

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 7:38:43 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: wandersalone

Welcome from a fellow Victorian (well at the moment I am anyway), enjoy your time here and if you participate in the discussions on the boards I can guarantee you will make some fabulous friends 


Not entirely sure I'd consider myself a Victorian, as I only moved here this year from South Australia, but it might come in time, since it looks like I'll be here a few years at least.

Thank you for the welcome.

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 7:52:56 AM   
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I am similar in that I was born in Vic but lived in other states for most of my life so only came back two years ago.

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 10:22:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlueTrance
I enjoy debate on a subject, I dislike arguments between people.


You might want to avoid some sections of the message boards here, then. 

Just teasing.  Have fun here.

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 10:29:02 AM   
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Welcome! Im having one of those moments right now.........

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 11:03:40 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Welcome.

To answer your question, yes. Usually after smoking a big fat one.


*dies laughing* Awesome.

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 4:52:27 PM   
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Eh. With every such earth-shattering realizations come questions that turn the whole thing around again. At least, if you're doing it right.

BDSM is no different. But for what it's worth, I had an 'Aha!' moment just like that when I first came across it.


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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 4:53:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlueTrance
I enjoy debate on a subject, I dislike arguments between people.


You might want to avoid some sections of the message boards here, then. 

Just teasing.  Have fun here.


Like any section I've weighed in on.

Such as this thread.

Oops.


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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/25/2010 5:04:35 PM   
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Welcome to CM and the boards. Yup, had one of those moments when I was told I was submissive. Now those AHA moments are when I'm thinking O shit I screwed up! But 'tis all good in the end. Lessons learned the hard way and all that.

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/30/2010 9:06:20 AM   
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Ooohhh ah know! Welcome to CM!

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/30/2010 10:18:13 AM   
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Oooooh ya does?

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RE: Have you ever had one of those moments? - 10/30/2010 8:18:13 PM   
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Hello, and welcome, Blue!

Enjoy your stay.

Like DaddyRsgirl said above, i like those moments, too. Peaceful.

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