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Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/25/2010 11:54:21 PM

PonyGal

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Hello,
I joined up just under a week ago I think, as I am very new to bdsm but keen to learn. My profile is genuine and I really do seek a Sir, I have however noticed that I have been getting a lot of nasty messages saying "fake", and then someone informed me that I have been reported as "a scammer" which is absolutely not the case and I am infuriated. I have an idea that it is a Dom I chatted to who things did not work out with, and that he is seeking revenge on me. Can anybody tell me how I can resolve this? I have no idea how to have myself cleared as it really seems unfair. I would love to stay and meet people and my profile photo is me. I have no idea what I should do. Thank you for any advice.
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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/25/2010 11:57:20 PM

GreedyTop

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most of those will go away in a week or three.. when your profile gets off the "new Users" scroll. Ignore, block and delete the ones that don't work for you (which will probably be most of them). If you feel that someone has uinfairly reported you, cntact support.

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/26/2010 12:16:26 AM

PonyGal

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Thank you, I just hate being thought of as insincere, nothing is further from the truth. I appreciate the advice :-)

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/26/2010 2:38:34 AM

BurntKitty

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I just clicked to see the profile pic & the profile seems to be missing.

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/26/2010 6:58:11 AM

DarkSteven

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OP, them's the breaks. Lots of wankers who want nude pics, webcams whatever. Block, delete, move on. There are men here that are worthwhile to chat with, and those men won't pull namecalling.

Why no visible profile?

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/26/2010 7:30:49 AM

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I don't know OP, they might think you are a fake because:

- you are a hot blonde who rejected them
- one of your CM friends on your profile is Kid Rock

Otherwise, get over it, or else you are in for a long hard ride here...unless you like that of course. :)

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/26/2010 8:55:51 PM

thatsub

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Hiding your "Last Online" date (http://www.collarme.com/personals/account.htm) might also help to reduce influx of mails from random people, since people sort search results either by "Joined" date (i.e. profile is still new and that person is more likely to have not found anyone yet) or they sort by "Last Online" (i.e. person is still active and, thus, still interested in a new relationship).

By the way, one does not get dropped from "New Users" list for quite a while - the last person on my list has joined CM on January 1st of this year.

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/27/2010 1:26:05 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Good luck.

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/27/2010 3:43:29 PM

KinkyLimits

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Hope you don't get put off by the not so brilliant start :(

Don't let online insecure people upset you. They would never have the guts to say things to your face, so simply delete and block. There are plenty of decent kinky people here ;)

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RE: Hello all :-) I am new, and real ..but I need help :-) - 10/30/2010 8:30:00 AM

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