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hi, im crystal - 10/28/2010 11:38:58 PM

texastgirl

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im 30, and im transgendered. ive been searching for a place to belong my whole life, a master to belong too, but no luck. i thought this wouldl be the place to belong, and its been a good site to me as long as i dont go in chatrooms. i didnt know this site had a rule of no trannies in the chatroom. but going into the chat and being call fruitloop and a freak i guess you learn the rules the hard way. also if anybody from the chatrooms read this, id like to say i didnt know the websites rule of no trannies, so im sorry i went into chat. other than that the websites been good. so i came in to just say hi to everybody

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RE: hi, im crystal - 10/29/2010 12:10:03 AM

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That's the silliest thing i've ever heard of: TGs not being allowed in the chat.

And they're calling you a freak? Really?! That's a bit like the pot calling the kettle black i think. Every single one of us here are freaks to one degree or another.

Ignore the jerks, block them if possible through the chat...i'm not sure i've never been in the chatrooms, and then go on your way.

**hugs** i wish you the best of luck, and i'm sorry it started off so rotten for you.

Oh, and before i forget:

< Message edited by YoungBlondeSlave -- 10/29/2010 12:33:09 AM >

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RE: hi, im crystal - 10/29/2010 2:37:37 AM

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You Know Crystal..Just because there are IDIOTS in the chat does not mean that you are not welcome there...their just morons...go into chat and enjoy yourself

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RE: hi, im crystal - 10/29/2010 3:31:38 AM

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Welcome crystal,

A couple of things to keep in mind...there will always be people looking to humiliate others. The trick is to think enough of yourself to let the name calling roll like water off a duck's back.
A profile is a chance to accentuate your positive without highlighting your negative. I'm sure you're more than the person you choose to advertise in yours.

For the record...I think the pink hair rocks!

Best of luck and I hope you enjoy your stay here.

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RE: hi, im crystal - 10/29/2010 3:37:54 AM

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I'll add my welcome! to everyone else's

And I'll echo advice you've already been given - ignore the morons and find the good people!

The only person who can make you feel bad about yourself is YOU. And from what I see, the picture of the attractive woman on your profile bears no resemblance to the negativity in your profile. If you ACT positive and happy, you will find it goes a long way to making you actually BE positive and happy.

I hope you find what you are looking for

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RE: hi, im crystal - 10/29/2010 4:24:37 AM

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i cant go into the chat, everytime i try to go into it, i got kicked out. and now i cant even go into it at all, it just says cannot enter. i asked one of the creators or whatever and he or she said i was banned. i said why, they said no trannies in the chat room. so i thought it was rule for chatrooms. but its cool, i mean i dont want to make them mad, so i just keep my distance.

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RE: hi, im crystal - 10/29/2010 7:07:57 AM

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Know that the forums are much different from chat, at least from what I've heard. There's much more acceptance here, and know that anyone who ridicules you is the douchecanoe who can't accept you for who you are. It's their problem not yours.

Thick skin is sometimes needed here, but answering back in no uncertain terms that what is said to you is unacceptable is ok too. Just don't make it personal and don't be vicious about it. Others will back you up, and the boards are populated by some terrific people. Don't let the asstards colour your whole view of the website. We're not all neanderthals who can't accept others for who they are. Except for the trolls looking for wank material, but that's a whole nother ballgame.

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RE: hi, im crystal - 10/30/2010 7:37:33 AM

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Welcome to CM Can't give you advice on chatrooms, i never use them, though if someone ever gets smart with me, i either laugh it off or give em some back, only harder!

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RE: hi, im crystal - 11/13/2010 6:31:40 PM

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thank you all

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RE: hi, im crystal - 11/13/2010 9:56:30 PM

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Welcome to the boards. We like good people, and you're welcomed here.

I like pink things, too.

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RE: hi, im crystal - 11/14/2010 7:08:47 PM

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Hello Crystal
Don't let anyone bother you here. When I first joined (under a different name) I was intimidated by some rude messages I got. I was very new to this and it freaked me out, I closed my account right away. Then my Dom encouraged me to rejoin and not let those people bother me. I did and I'm so glad I did. I don't have a lot of friends on here yet, but the ones I communicate with are great and very supportive. And I love what youngblondeslave had to say, none of us should be judging anyone else. Aren't we here because we're different from the mainstream? That's also a part of what I love about this lifestyle, and I love the uniqueness of this site.

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