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Imakemensquirm -> RE: clothing for men (11/11/2010 3:36:49 AM)
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Why is it that some people have to try and shut a message string down, trying to say it is somehow a silly question, without putting it in those words. Peppermint, if you think this question is suggesting that clothing is a replacement for a man, then I guess we must come from a different planet. I also don't believe for a moment that clothing, or rather how a man is dressed is never important to you. I would agree that once you know someone, the way they dress may be less important when judging them for who and what they are, but before we know someone, clothing does play a big part when it comes to sizing up that person.
I also think clothing can play a big part in our play relationships, because most of us have been taught from a very early age that some types of clothing project power and control, while others denote a passive nature. If I were trying to humble and humiliate a male, I certainly wouldn't put him in a $5000 pin stripe suite, but instead may dress him in a manner that would look childish, maybe even dress him as a little girl. Clothing certainly can set the scene during play, but unless you have a fetish for a certain article of clothing, it isn't the focal point, but rather the window dressing for the lack of a better expression.
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