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November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/1/2010 6:11:59 PM   
MrKicia


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Status: offline 		The goal of these threads is to share information and experiences with the different sex toys we use in the BDSM community. 

Please share what toys you like or dont like.  What works best for you and how you use it.  Please be aware that everyone is entitled their own opinions, arguing over those opinions is surely not going to change anyones minds.

With that said, this month will be all about BUTT PLUGS. I will start us off, enjoy!

Ok, just a preface about my wife and I, we are beginners.  So they toys that I post are just beginners toys.


This topic is a personal favorite of mine.  I LOVE anal play, sorry if thats TMI!

Ive had a few plugs over my so far short affair with anal play.

Currently ive been using these:
http://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/rectal-dilator-kit_277.html  I use them in the shower.  Insert before i start my shower, take a 15-20 minute show then remove.  Just to kinda keep things open, i guess.

http://www.extremerestraints.com/dildos-and-insertables_180/rear-ender_175.html
I also have something like this but it is much bigger, closer to 2.5-3 inches in diameter. 

Ive got a few more that i cant find links for but are pretty run of the mill.  I havent had the opportunity yet to wear a plug for long periods.  (only thin dildos so far)

What i like about the trainer kit that i think would come in handy are the holes they have in the tip.  I had issues, releasing gas while wearing the thin dildos for long periods.  I think the trainer kit would solve this problem. (I know its gross, but this stuff happens)

My only advice that im sure all of you already know is to take anal play SLOW.  Ive been subject to a couple anal fissures due to trying to rush things.  They suck, you have back off anal play and wait for them to heal, then start back at square one.

Be safe everyone!
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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/1/2010 6:32:52 PM   
pwnerandpwned


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Status: offline 		Question for buttplug enthusiasts: Does regular use of a plug affect bowel movements in anyway? Either regularity, size, inability to hold it as long...beats me. I'm no expert, but always wondered how stretching that hole might change my pooping. :P

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/1/2010 9:34:55 PM   
thatsub


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Status: offline 		I remember seeing recommendations for inflatable plugs for training one's ass. Are they any good? Has anyone had any personal experience with them for that purpose?


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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/2/2010 11:26:42 AM   
fairdom23


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ORIGINAL: pwnerandpwned

Question for buttplug enthusiasts: Does regular use of a plug affect bowel movements in anyway? Either regularity, size, inability to hold it as long...beats me. I'm no expert, but always wondered how stretching that hole might change my pooping. :P


it should not affect your bowel movements. as far as stretching you out, the anus is a muscle, and exercising the muscle(using a dildo or plug) should not affect your ability to retain normal functioning of the bowels.
granted, if you keep a large plug in for a long time, it may feel like you are loose down there.


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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/2/2010 7:51:56 PM   
MrKicia


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Status: offline 		I have not had any adverse effects due to butt plug usage.  Size of your stool is not usually governed by your anus, mostly the colon, compounded with how quickly or slowly stool passes through it.  How hydrated and how much fiber you intake also plays a part in stool size.  

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/2/2010 8:01:14 PM   
MrKicia


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I remember seeing recommendations for inflatable plugs for training one's ass. Are they any good? Has anyone had any personal experience with them for that purpose?



The only experience ive had with inflatable butt plugs is the one I used a few times for enema retention.  It was ok, not uncomfortable, but for the purpose i was using it for it put a lot of stress on my anus.  Not directly because of the plug, but because of the pressures of holding in an enema, combined with something large pushing on my anus.  It caused some inflammation, so i stopped using it.

I dont see why you couldnt use an inflatable plug for anal training.  I liked using it.  Maybe someone with more experience will chime in.

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/2/2010 8:35:06 PM   
pwnerandpwned


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ORIGINAL: MrKicia

I have not had any adverse effects due to butt plug usage.  Size of your stool is not usually governed by your anus, mostly the colon, compounded with how quickly or slowly stool passes through it.  How hydrated and how much fiber you intake also plays a part in stool size.  


Well now I know! And knowing is half the battle!

(Although the comment about multiple anal fissures scared me quite a bit).

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/3/2010 4:45:35 AM   
MrKicia


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ORIGINAL: pwnerandpwned


quote:

ORIGINAL: MrKicia

I have not had any adverse effects due to butt plug usage.  Size of your stool is not usually governed by your anus, mostly the colon, compounded with how quickly or slowly stool passes through it.  How hydrated and how much fiber you intake also plays a part in stool size.  


Well now I know! And knowing is half the battle!

(Although the comment about multiple anal fissures scared me quite a bit).


That was from trying to put in something too large that i wasnt ready for, my own fault.  :(

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/3/2010 11:08:31 AM   
fairdom23


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Status: offline 		the most comfortable plug i have is the large doc johnson plug.
apparently they make two styles, the one with the flexible base is not nearly as comfortable as it has too severe of a taper.
the other one with a more solid base that is filled with a soft pliable material(like the core of a plug) is the best one i have found thus far.


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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/11/2010 12:42:36 AM   
curbisub


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Status: offline 		I use Anal Dilators from 1" to 2" dia

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 11/15/2010 2:25:07 PM   
humptiedumptie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fairdom23

quote:

ORIGINAL: pwnerandpwned

Question for buttplug enthusiasts: Does regular use of a plug affect bowel movements in anyway? Either regularity, size, inability to hold it as long...beats me. I'm no expert, but always wondered how stretching that hole might change my pooping. :P


it should not affect your bowel movements. as far as stretching you out, the anus is a muscle, and exercising the muscle(using a dildo or plug) should not affect your ability to retain normal functioning of the bowels.
granted, if you keep a large plug in for a long time, it may feel like you are loose down there.



As age sets in muscles tend to slacken and more effort is required to do what was eazy peazy when we were young. With that in mind i have always thought that as age creeps up the problem of holding things in would get harder. But i could be totally wrong as usual.

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 12/4/2010 2:00:57 AM   
survivornx


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ORIGINAL: fairdom23

the most comfortable plug i have is the large doc johnson plug.
apparently they make two styles, the one with the flexible base is not nearly as comfortable as it has too severe of a taper.
the other one with a more solid base that is filled with a soft pliable material(like the core of a plug) is the best one i have found thus far.




I think I have the same as you
http://ep.yimg.com/ca/I/yhst-16188711382874_2133_232849339

Thats been one of the most comfortable butt plug Ive worn. There was another one made out of silicon, That was also really comfortable even for long periods of time

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 12/7/2010 10:08:52 AM   
81song


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Status: offline 		Wow that is big survivornx, for me I just hate the things as far as but plugs go, I have a small one. I had had larger one but it is like fire to me so yes going slow and easy is the best of course.
The one toy I seemed to like is a black cock strap and I have a few different one but I do like that one.

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 12/8/2010 5:56:16 PM   
hereyesruponyou


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Status: offline 		We have quite the selection. My husband likes the metal one with the ball in it Rattler

http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D265.html

Good for when he is cutting the grass :) He mostly stoped using plugs once we started regular fisting 1-2x a week. Did have a funny story last year though...

We bought an insane monster plug where the bottom is about the size of a dinner plate. Hubby thought he could put on a chair and practice stretching for fisting when i wasn't home. Got it in Missouri. Go to check our bags to fly back to maryland and couldn't figure out why it was now overweight....then we remembered. They offered to let us take some stuff out. We declined and paid the extra cost. Of course when we got home there was the nice little TSA "we searched your stuff" note inside the bag from the store that the plug as in :)

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 2/10/2011 12:30:03 AM   
SubPJC


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Status: offline 		There are some really cool butt plugs made out of porcelain at www.earthlydesires.net
I like the minuteman which is solid and really heavy. It retains whatever temperature it was before inserting for a long time, either warm or cold so temperature play is great.

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 2/10/2011 7:18:57 AM   
xssve


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ORIGINAL: humptiedumptie


quote:

ORIGINAL: fairdom23

quote:

ORIGINAL: pwnerandpwned

Question for buttplug enthusiasts: Does regular use of a plug affect bowel movements in anyway? Either regularity, size, inability to hold it as long...beats me. I'm no expert, but always wondered how stretching that hole might change my pooping. :P


it should not affect your bowel movements. as far as stretching you out, the anus is a muscle, and exercising the muscle(using a dildo or plug) should not affect your ability to retain normal functioning of the bowels.
granted, if you keep a large plug in for a long time, it may feel like you are loose down there.



As age sets in muscles tend to slacken and more effort is required to do what was eazy peazy when we were young. With that in mind i have always thought that as age creeps up the problem of holding things in would get harder. But i could be totally wrong as usual.
Good reason to do kegals, but yeah, everybody stretches it out every time they crap, so while it's probably possible - there was a recent human trafficking case in Eastern Europe where some younger boys were reported as having been raped so often they'd become incontinent - if you don't have something up your ass 24/7, your anal sphincter should recover fairly rapidly.

And, I don't think it really a question of "damage" (though slow is better, re: anal fissure), it might be more an issue of expressing more of the hormone relaxin - but while you hear incontinence stories, most of them turn out to be apocryphal, scare tactics. If you play late into the night and you're a morning "mover", you might have some tense moments, but that would be more a question of timing I should think.

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 3/17/2011 7:57:45 AM   
nantz90


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Status: offline 		I'm really wanting to get into fisting and I'm looking at using plugs to try and get me started.What is a really good kit I could use for that?, and How long should I generally wear it in a day?

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RE: November Toy of the month: BUTT PLUGS! - 3/20/2011 7:20:20 PM   
limpdickbitch


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Status: offline 		i love my expanding butt plug use it all the time
i can take a baseball bat in my ass not allot but its opened wide enough so i can get it up in there

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