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littleone35 -> What to buy? (11/4/2010 3:13:51 PM)

Master's birthday is coming up in a few weeks, and i have asked and asked him what he wants and he always says you. Well that makes me feel great, but i say you already have me what esle would you want he says just you. I am not really asking what to buy him( but will welcome any other ideas) Ii have an idea (he reads this so i will not put my idea down). He is a hard man to buy for.

Last Christmas i asked Master what he wanted i got the expected answer you. He said i have an idea so he took meto the adult store and we browsed and he said you can buy me this(he indicated something on the shelf). I said Master that is more for me than you he said it is what i want. It was something for him to use on me. I bought it for him.

Now to my question has your Master/Dom every wanted you to get or buy him something that is for him but it will be used by him on you?

Matt's littleone



hlen5 -> RE: What to buy? (11/4/2010 3:16:15 PM)

No to your question.

I have an idea for a gift, if you have mail he wouldn't see.



phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: What to buy? (11/4/2010 4:29:06 PM)

almost imposible to anaswer without knowing him but for master i get somthing that goes with his hobbies , he loves winnie the pooh got him a soft eyore on bday. i ahve given books, a special mug, anything really



sweetsub1957 -> RE: What to buy? (11/4/2010 6:04:55 PM)

Littleone35, you have mail. I didn't want your Master to see my suggestion. [;)]



Aileen1968 -> RE: What to buy? (11/4/2010 6:16:27 PM)

I have an idea for a gift for him... he sounds just like my man in that he doesn't really enjoy gifts specifically for him.
I don't know if he reads your mail here or reads the boards so I'll wait until you return to let us know the best way to contact you.



Elisabella -> RE: What to buy? (11/4/2010 7:29:05 PM)

quote:

Now to my question has your Master/Dom every wanted you to get or buy him something that is for him but it will be used by him on you?


No, but in reverse...for my birthday this year I made my husband buy himself a new wallet because I was sick of looking at the old one XD I couldn't think of any gift I really wanted and I was sick of him saying he didn't need a new one, so that was my birthday gift :D

I think once you're a serious couple, the line between "me" and "you" gets blurred into "us" and the gift for him is not in having a brand new item of whatever, but having something that he can enjoy using, in this case on you.

Sounds like you're in a great relationship :D



switch2please -> RE: What to buy? (11/4/2010 10:53:45 PM)

I'm kind of like that - I don't usually need anything, and I don't like asking for things...so we've started saving my gifts for when I need them, lol. For example, I spent quite a bit on vet bills this past month and wasn't able to get a new winter coat - so he got it for me as a birthday present. My birthday is in August.
Most of what he likes I can't afford, so I make him something. He enjoys having art in his apartment and I draw and sculpt, so the fireplace mantel is now a mini-gallery of cartoons and female nudes.



nephandi -> RE: What to buy? (11/5/2010 2:19:26 AM)

Greetings

Men are hopeless when it comes to asking them for what they want for birthdays and Christmas and the like, they generally only answer you, or peace and quiet or I don't know or some other thing. Aswad is the same way. However to answer your question, yes I have bought him BDSM toys for his birthday which was intended for him to use on me. I bought the first collar we used as well as some spanking tools for him several years ago that he then used on me.

You Master is not alone in that sense, allot of men wish for lingerie for their wives and so on, it is rather common.

Oh and happy birthday to your Master.

I wish you both well.



DesFIP -> RE: What to buy? (11/5/2010 6:13:10 AM)

The Man likes eagles, so if I see a tee or a sweatshirt with a picture of one I buy it and squirrel it away for a present.
Is there something like that he likes? You could get a poster of it or a shirt with a picture of it. Or even get it made into a coffee cup.

The other thing I've gotten for The Man is an oversized coffee mug. I think this one holds 24 oz. He always complains at diners when they give little 4 oz coffee cups and don't come around refilling them, so I found the largest mug I could to solve the problem at home.



littleone35 -> RE: What to buy? (11/5/2010 11:18:07 AM)

Thank you for the responses you can mail me on my mail here with any suggestions. I will read them before Master gets home on Monday. To all who gave me suggestions and those who will do so thank you so much.

I know you don't know him but generic suggestions that can be tailored to my relationship will be great.

Matt's littleone



sexyred1 -> RE: What to buy? (11/5/2010 11:34:39 AM)

My ex husband would not buy anything for himself, especially pampering, even though he liked things like that, he would NEVER admit it.

So I bought us a couples massage at a spa, took him out to lunch and then went home and fooled around.

He was very happy. Maybe your guy would like that?



StrongSpirit -> RE: What to buy? (11/5/2010 4:33:45 PM)

I am very good at getting presents. This is what I would suggest:

1. Avoid getting a bdsm present. The only thing I would consider to be really a present for the dom is if a sub agrees to do something that the sub had previously declared off limits. But this is clearly a significant decision, not to be made simply because you couldn't come up with a present.

2. Instead consider your Dom's NON-kinky hobbies. Does he like to read: Nook/Kindle. Music: tickets to a live show. etc. I like to buy something that you would think is just a little bit too extravagant, but not outside your price range. That is, get the expensive Nook or good tickets if you can afford it. This shows an interest in what your Dom likes, not just his dominance.

3. Another option is to go for jewelry. Men buy it for women all time, there is nothing wrong with returning the favor. A nice watch, ring, or belt buckle can do very nicely. For this option, it is not that hard to find something with a slight bdsm tinge. The BDSM emblem is a nice one - people don't recognize it unless they are in the know.






Kaliko -> RE: What to buy? (11/5/2010 7:36:05 PM)

I don't buy him much of anything. I make things. One time I went to a ceramics shop and had them teach me how to use the pottery wheel (or whatever it's called) so I could make him a mug. Another time I made him rosary beads out of roses he gave me. Another time I drew a picture for him and framed it. Another time I made him quite an awesome (if I do say so myself) PowerPoint presentation celebrating his life. Another time I...well...you get the idea. I am spending next to nothing on his Christmas present, except hours...and hours...of my time. And I have never been disappointed by his reaction to what I've given him. It's so very much from me. That is what I recommend. When he says he wants only you, give him...you. That mug? It came out pretty awful. But there was so much of my time and love in it - he glued that sucker up every time it broke on him and probably got some kind of poisoning from whatever was in the glue, but he would still drink out of it every chance he got.



crystalclarinet -> RE: What to buy? (11/6/2010 9:17:57 AM)

Mine never seems to tell me anything... acutally what happens is this.... What do you want for xvy holiday.... nothing I love you and that's enough.... But really you could bring home another woman that would be great..... Then I give him that look like really... I don't think so. Mine seems to never want anything, but acutally really need things. Look at his closet and his underware drawer.... That's how I always know what to get!



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