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Aha moments - 11/6/2010 10:53:09 AM   
hisbadkitty


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I have realized lately that I have unwittingly been in unhealthy M/s relationships for years (one after the other.)  Not defined as such but there just the same.  I never really knowingly gave my submission but it was taken from me before I had realized what happened.  These people either did not know how to care or simply did not really care for me.  In other words a lot of the same elements, but in short it was simply abuse.

Just recently I've been able to answer the question of why I've ended up in these situations and the answer was not what I expected.  I can finally see myself for who I am and I feel liberated to be able to recognize it and find a proper and healthy defined Master.  Everyday is a new discovery for me right now.
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RE: Aha moments - 11/6/2010 11:33:46 AM   
Takeylarose


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the forums and good luck! Keep us updated with how things progress for you!

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RE: Aha moments - 11/6/2010 11:35:55 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		How awesome that you figured things out...good luck in your search 

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RE: Aha moments - 11/6/2010 11:43:28 AM   
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RE: Aha moments - 11/6/2010 8:14:41 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM and the boards.  I've had similar experiences in the past, and hope to learn from those mistakes myself.  Wishing you all the best of luck and may you find who you're looking for.  Stick around the boards, lots of good advice to be had here.  You can also use the search feature top right hand corner of this page on any subject you may wish to explore further.  If you can't find it, then just post a new thread. 

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RE: Aha moments - 11/6/2010 8:15:10 PM   
hisbadkitty


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for the warm welcome.  This is definitely a very high spot in my life.  I feel like I can finally take control of myself by letting go completely to someone else.  All of a sudden so many things make sense.

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RE: Aha moments - 11/6/2010 8:21:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yay for aha moments!

Welcome, and i hope you find who you're looking for!

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RE: Aha moments - 11/6/2010 8:38:57 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Aha moments are the best.  Just make sure not to forget those ahas.  It's easily done, take if from someone who knows that all too well.  Have to keep them in mind at all times and be true to yourself, that's the best way. 

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RE: Aha moments - 11/7/2010 5:48:55 AM   
allnewtome


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Got to love the aha moments. Keep them close to your heart. They will keep you on the right track

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RE: Aha moments - 11/7/2010 7:19:39 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Welcome kitty, enjoy all those aha moments, such as they may seem!

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RE: Aha moments - 11/7/2010 9:01:07 AM   
hisbadkitty


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the advice.... part of what has gotten me into trouble in the past is NOT listening to my inner red flag feelings.  Trust is going to be a big issue for me .. I have quite a journey ahead of me.

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RE: Aha moments - 11/7/2010 9:17:53 AM   
Takeylarose


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Status: offline 		Just take your time, lessons come from the journey, not the destination. Hang around here for a while and you'll meet some great people who will be happy to help along the way!

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RE: Aha moments - 11/7/2010 10:01:46 AM   
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