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RE: Turn offs - 11/8/2010 6:08:04 AM

anniezz338

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Judgemental people.
Arrogance (not to be confused with confidence)
People who talk badly about others, their opinions or physical looks
People who think they are better than others.
Selfishness.

And they would never find your body if you abused me in anger/rage.

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RE: Turn offs - 11/8/2010 7:32:04 AM

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Lack of cleanliness and grooming. I dont mean a ton of makeup and hair just so, I prefer the clean 'fresh scrubbed' look

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RE: Turn offs - 11/8/2010 8:03:50 AM

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Turn offs...hmmmm...

Probably men who think they are dominant and yet know nothing about women. Those same men post massive generalizations about women, how women don't know what they want, how women like jerks, how being mean to a woman works to score, men who talk about how often they score, men who monopolize the message boards on every thread just because they love the sound of their own posts, men who hide behind their computer monitors and act like complete passive aggressive douchebags and think that is attractive.

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RE: Turn offs - 11/8/2010 10:32:49 PM

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I figured it out. I hate guilt trips. Yep, I am vulnerable to guilt trips.

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RE: Turn offs - 11/12/2010 12:38:46 AM

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im too tired to make a full list, so ill just put the one that popped into my head. passive agressive! i fucking hate passive agressive things, it pisses me off wastes time and irritates me (wow im very tired_)-

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RE: Turn offs - 11/12/2010 8:37:23 AM

DarklySubtle

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1) People who can't hold up their end of a conversation. Especially people who can't field my one-liners.

If quips and puns puzzle you and your response to them is usually along the lines of "Oh, ok" or "That's interesting", we are seriously going to bore each other, and quickly.

2) People who don't "get" me or what I'm doing, in terms of D/s.

This ties in with my first item. What I do is very sensual, and very intellectual: If you're going to play with me, you quite simply have to have a good enough imagination to come along for the ride.

Which is not by any means to say that it will all be in your mind.

3) People who act a certain way because they think that's how they're supposed to do it.

You have to have patience with this, because new submissives will often start out parrotting things that they've read, and subs who have had a little training may tend to relate to you the way that they learned to relate to a previous Dom. So I usually just explain to them that whatever rule they're following does not need to be applied mindlessly.

But few things grate on me like robotic responses. I want sincere, natural reactions.

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RE: Turn offs - 11/12/2010 10:05:03 AM

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girls with big boobs LOL....

not

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RE: Turn offs - 11/12/2010 10:16:22 AM

Focus50

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagikMisstress

I was wondering what is your bigest turn offs. What is the worst thing a subbmissive can do to make you walk away?

Fem/subs who point and laugh. True Doms are "compact", dammit...!

And there's (anecdotal) proof - that all the geeks and wannabes claim to have 8" dicks....

Focus.

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RE: Turn offs - 11/13/2010 4:36:10 AM

phoenixmoonn13

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my masters are lying and breaking of trust,

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RE: Turn offs - 11/13/2010 4:53:30 AM

gentlemusings

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Male nasel hair... euwwww !

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RE: Turn offs - 12/4/2010 6:36:31 AM

masterlink65

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i cannot stand when a slave is not clean, especially if i smell ass. i also do not tolerate insubordination, submit, or leave my house, its that simple.

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RE: Turn offs - 12/4/2010 7:49:14 AM

steelearth

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Ling in particular about there tastes. If I ask how they feel about something I want to know the answer not what they think I want the answer to be.

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RE: Turn offs - 12/4/2010 7:51:20 AM

LifestyleDominat

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Gross long toe nails/finger nails.

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RE: Turn offs - 12/8/2010 5:17:15 PM

leadership527

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagikMisstress
I was wondering what is your bigest turn offs. What is the worst thing a subbmissive can do to make you walk away?

The worst thing? She could say, "I don't love you and I don't want to be your wife anymore." That'd pretty much be the end of it right there -- after I queried her at length to make sure she wasn't making a joke. Honestly, as long as Carol loves me in the way that word means to us (specifically, "incorporating someone else's happiness into your own") then it's hard for me to see any single thing that we couldn't work out/through/whatever.

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RE: Turn offs - 12/8/2010 7:10:14 PM

LadyRian

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MagikMisstress

I was wondering what is your bigest turn offs. What is the worst thing a subbmissive can do to make you walk away?

Lying to me. Deceit, and attempting to con me for whatever reason, thus destroying the trust and preventing it from being reestablished.
Selfishness.
Disrespecting me, and dishonouring our relationship through their behaviour.
Arrogance and ego tripping.
Embarrassing me in public.
Refusal to share their needs and feelings, expecting me to be a mind reader.
Not taking personal responsibilty for their actions, and owning their behaviour.

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RE: Turn offs - 12/9/2010 5:35:26 PM

BbcSlutKc

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i know my Daddy's biggest turn off is me not doing as he says. period.

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RE: Turn offs - 12/13/2010 11:43:41 AM

mjustinian

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I would have to say that people who are haughty or fake would be my first level. Then I would go as far to say disloyality or lies.

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