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LadyPact -> RE: Goals for anal training... (11/8/2010 6:25:34 AM)
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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova
be ready to accept something.. and object, a dildo, a plug...
be prepared to accept activities that might entertain all those concerned. Although i favour longer term usage of plugs, I'm interested in what might be considered a good end result (pardon the pun) something a slave can invest in, a goal to work towards. Sometihng as entertaining as it might be perceived useful.
Which is fine, because it is your belief. What happens when you meet the Dominant woman who believes otherwise?
The highlighted above leads Me to believe that you are working from the fantasy angle, because the reality of a Dominant woman currently in your life doesn't exist yet. You are supposing that this is what she is going to want and you want to be prepared in anticipation of establishing this type of connection with someone. In My opinion, this is never a good idea, to conjure up what the Dominant woman is going to want based on what you think she's supposed to like. You don't really know her opinion of it. You're just going on the stereotype.
Some Dominant women are interested in anal play with their submissives and others are not. Where does all of your 'anal training' leave you if the Dominant woman that you choose to have a relationship with doesn't care one way or the other?
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