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DMFParadox -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/9/2010 3:35:48 PM)

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Jegus. That is brilliant. I need to investigate this possibility.




CalifChick -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/9/2010 8:08:54 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slavegirl537

When your sub/slave touches your body intimately, without permission from you?....i ask because i'm curious about this..


Why would you think that what a master likes in the 'touching' category is any different than any other person?

Cali




sexyred1 -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/9/2010 8:17:51 PM)

I have never a known who did not want me to touch them. Why would anyone be against affection?




phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 2:30:21 AM)

massage yes a peck on teh check or top of his head if hes sitting and i am passing yes. a full on kiss i need permission, sexual touching i have to ask, gentle rubbing of legs or back for eg is yes but it depends on him he may let me or he may say stop. holding hands in public or linking arms he will 99percentof teh time already ahve offerend it. if not i jsut say can she.




DesFIP -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 4:48:25 AM)

There are people who are not physically affectionate. If the op got involved with one while she has a great need for this, then they need to sit down and discuss how best to find a solution that works for both of them.




NuevaVida -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 7:46:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Why would you think that what a master likes in the 'touching' category is any different than any other person?

Cali



Hi Cali,

My ex did not like me to touch him.  It was a control thing more than anything.  It was one of the ways he expressed his "masterlydom."  To each their own, of course, but over time it wore on me.

In any case, I can see where the OP might be asking of masterly-types.  Some use "no touching" as a form of control.

I'm glad I'm no longer in that boat. [;)]




breatheasone -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 9:09:25 AM)

my husband doesn't like to be touched too much. It's very difficult to live that way if you are a hugger, or just like contact. Fortunately my Master LOVES touching, and physical contact, so when i get to see Him, i get some! 




leadership527 -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 9:29:51 AM)

Yes, I like Carol being physically intimate with me.




Twoshoes -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 9:44:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I have never a known who did not want me to touch them. Why would anyone be against affection?


Some people need more 'space' in than others, I guess. [;)]




slavegirl537 -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 9:52:45 AM)

Thankyou very much for the replies e/Everyone!. i've only known my Master for a few weeks and very new to this life so i was curious as to whether it was normal for you sub/slaves to touch without permission and whether you Masters liked and encouraged that or not.

It is something i will discuss with my Master.




Hetouchedme -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 10:51:07 AM)

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DesFIP -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/10/2010 4:01:45 PM)

My ex was not very touchy feely. I felt lonely being without that casual hand holding, expression of intimacy. And it contributed to sexual difficulties because I got to the point that I didn't want him to hold my hand because I knew it was done as a precursor to sex, not because he wanted to hold me.




AnimusRex -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/15/2010 8:59:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slavegirl537

When your sub/slave touches your body intimately, without permission from you?.

For example, when you are lying with her and she decides to rub your leg or back, or your crotch. Do you like that?. 


What, are you dating some kind of pervert?

Having my girl rub my crotch is the VERY BEST THING about having a girl.




FredW -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/15/2010 9:16:22 PM)

That would depend on the relationship. A 24/7 slave may require permission. My sub is submissive only in the bedroom, and is always welcomed to touch outside the bedroom. In the bedroom, the dynamic would be more of an 'if I want it I will demand it' attitude.




lovingpet -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/15/2010 10:28:46 PM)

~FR~

My partner actually had to tell me it was okay to touch him spontaneously because, this being my first and hopefully only M/s relationship, I was afraid it was not appropriate and I would get in trouble.  On one of our early visits he had me undress him and he laid down on the bed and told me he wanted to be touched and kissed on every single inch of his body and he expected me to take my time and explore any area as closely as I desired.  I started at his toes and about four hours later I was drifting off to sleep with my lips pressed into the top of his head and my face buried and caressed in his hair.  Needless to say, there were a few side ventures along the way [:D], but it was extremely important in bonding us and helping me to finally let go and not be afraid to touch him.  It is something I will never forget and that night is etched in my mind and every single one of my senses to this very day. 

lovingpet




HisEvelyn -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/17/2010 11:12:37 AM)

There are certain situations (which I will not disclose for personal reasons) in which I am expressly forbidden to touch Master unless he tells me it is all right. During play, I am not allowed to touch either of us without permission, though believe me, he has me touching something during play unless I'm bound up. Otherwise, I am generally encouraged to snuggle or hug or touch as I please. Master loves when I initiate a backrub for him.




Musicmystery -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/17/2010 11:37:07 AM)

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Masters, do you like it...

When your sub/slave touches your body intimately


Yes. I'm rather fond of intimacy with women.




Arturas -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/18/2010 9:21:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavegirl537

When your sub/slave touches your body intimately, without permission from you?.

For example, when you are lying with her and she decides to rub your leg or back, or your crotch. Do you like that?. 

i ask because i'm curious about this..



Women are marvelous creatures. One of their amazing talents includes knowing what touch is needed without being told. As for her spontaneous touching habits, they are but be a light touch on my arm and shoulder and then to my face with her fingertips soon followed by seemingly idle and deceptively aimless caresses with her legs against mine. I do enjoy that always. You're a woman, does that sound familiar?

Arturas


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littlewonder -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/18/2010 9:28:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Arturas


Women are marvelous creatures. One of their amazing talents includes knowing what touch is needed without being told.



You're generalizing again. I'm all woman and to be honest I don't always know what touch is needed without being told. You see there's this thing about me not being a mind reader. Just because I'm female doesn't mean it's a given talent. I wish it were true though but it's not.




Arturas -> RE: Masters, do you like it... (11/18/2010 9:34:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

quote:

ORIGINAL: Arturas


Women are marvelous creatures. One of their amazing talents includes knowing what touch is needed without being told.



You're generalizing again. I'm all woman and to be honest I don't always know what touch is needed without being told. You see there's this thing about me not being a mind reader. Just because I'm female doesn't mean it's a given talent. I wish it were true though but it's not.




I think you sell yourself much to short, littlewonder. But, point well taken. The women I have known are marvelous creatures. One of their amazing talents with me...

Arturas




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