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ResidentSadist -> -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 3:51:10 PM)

If you can’t suck, don’t fuck, won’t anal, haven’t fucked, won’t be getting beat or tied up and don’t want to . . . why the hell are you prolifically posting your prudish drivel all over an alt sex BDSM forum?


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You don’t like getting cock shots in mail? Who cares?
You don’t like oral, anal or other sex? Who cares?
You don’t like emails demanding you submit? Who cares?
You put naked pics up and hate mail asking for sex . . . asshole! Who cares?
You don’t have anything to contribute to the OP . . . then shut up.

Really now, this prudish anti-sex thang has just gotten out of hand you guys . . . or should I say girls. Just stop it. I know you can’t be serious. Just because you don’t have sex, a lifestyle relationship and are uptight, doesn’t mean we are . . . or that we are even listening to your silly shit.

In today’s politically correct, gender neutral, handicapped biased, minority sensitive society, vanilla wannabees may be proud of prudish sexual perspectives and even get away with gender bashing. However, when the emotionally disturbed start posting all this anti sex, gender bashing, anti leather lifestyle shit on an alt sex leather forum . . . and the sheeple post in support of it, you are talking war.

This is my world. We have sex and and we like it. We have leather and we know how to use it. We play with our partners and even play with each other. Asshole sexless prudes that post prolifically all over these forums may just be a minor irritation to us old timers but, the wide-eyed newcomers read that shit have no idea they are the exception . . . because the authors have a high post count.

I have always been in favor of a forum with membership feedback ranks instead of a simple post count. If CollarMe implemented that, the readers could see who the assholes were. It might even inspire some of those old women with too many cats to be more careful of what they said if their foolish comments earned them a negative rank like “old prude with too many cats”. The completive Domly dick swingers just might post a helpful comment to redundant noob question instead of bashing if he would earn the title “lonely old curmudgeon”.


So, I don’t care if you are so emotionally fucked up you have no life, no relationship, haven’t seen a cock other than email pics and have nothing else to do than complain about anything and everything. Most of us don’t even bother to tell you to shut the fuck up, we really just don’t care about you and skip your replies when we recognize your avatar.

And . . . you newcomers should know that the prudish behavior by a few prolific posters does not reflect the reality of this community. We are a hot bed of lust with people meeting in person, exchanging ideas, meeting on cam, trading pics, finding LTRs, talking on the phone, going to meetings, traveling to events and just having fun in general. Some find find friends, some “true love” in the LTR they seek, others just “hook up” for a date and some of us aren’t seeking but spend time here amongst our existing friends and peers.

So send me your hate mail, send me your support, you can even send your dirty pics, I will happily receive it all and not complain further. But for all the times I kept my mouth shut in the past while prudes ran rampant and the competitive bulls bashed some noob for asking a redundant question, I respond with one BIG shut the fuck up.
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LOL . . . and there you have my complaint about the complainers! Don't you love the irony?

I suggest member feedback ranking as a future improvement to CollarMe. It will inspire content not quantity. [:)]




Tantriqu -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 3:59:44 PM)

Yeah, I know what you mean. There are guys who go 'squick' at the thought of giving oral sex during one's period, or don't want to dance on the end of a strap-on, and they call themselves a member of a site like this! Go figger.

And yes, the 'hide' button is our friend.




NuevaVida -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:03:35 PM)

Um wow, I must have missed something.  In any case, I hope you feel better...?

For what it's worth, I have a cat - AND I like sex.  [;)]




catize -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:06:46 PM)

Another pubic hair incident or just a bad day?




StrongSpirit -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:07:14 PM)

Yes, it is ironic that you are complaining about other people complaining too much. Good luck with that.

At least you are smart enough to realize what you are dong.

But the reason it is iron is that as upset as you are about the complaining, the other people are also upset about the things they are complaining.

I see no reason not to calm down, accept the fact that the internet is full of rudeness- hard to avoid considering the delayed reaction time to communication plus the lack of facial clues.

There is no way to avoid this rudeness - but that does not excuse it. I think it is far better to point out to the other people that they are generally just as rude as the people they complain about. Honestly, how many women actually respond politely to the POLITE men. Then they get upset when they are overwhelmed with rude emails- - surprise surprise. If you don't encourage politeness, then people start getting rude back at you.




BurntKitty -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:13:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

If you can’t suck (but I do), don’t fuck (But I will), won’t anal (butt I love it), haven’t fucked (want to?), won’t be getting beat or tied up(Yes, please and thank you) and don’t want to . . . why the hell are you prolifically posting your prudish drivel all over an alt sex BDSM forum?


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Damn, that made me all aquiver...
Now get off your soapbox and get on me!!!!

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ResidentSadist -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:15:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

Um wow, I must have missed something. In any case, I hope you feel better...?

For what it's worth, I have a cat - AND I like sex. [;)]


You have to get 20 more cats to qualify. I don't think you missed anythiing. Maybe you are just numb to it and it doesn’t come to mind because you, like the rest of us have in your mind set to ignore such things as:

8 million post complaining about cock shots
6 million complaints about men demanding submission through email
100 million gender complaints about how the opposite sex is mindless chattel, either a cock with no brain or with tits with no common sense
. . . etc . . . oh, and the replies in the post about "girls don’t want oral sex"




ResidentSadist -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:19:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

If you can’t suck (but I do), don’t fuck (But I will), won’t anal (butt I love it), haven’t fucked (want to?), won’t be getting beat or tied up(Yes, please and thank you) and don’t want to . . . why the hell are you prolifically posting your prudish drivel all over an alt sex BDSM forum?


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Damn, that made me all aquiver...
Now get off your soapbox and get on me!!!!

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I'm not used to getting orders from a woman but in your case my fellow Floridian, I may make an exception.
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NuevaVida -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:19:43 PM)

Eh, it just doesn't bother me. 

And I'm not getting 20 cats!




sunshinemiss -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:20:38 PM)

Wait... the opposite sex is NOT mindless chattel?  What is this new fangled idea you have there?  [:D]




SorceressJ -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:23:30 PM)

I have 9 cats, but I am -SO- not an old prude.. just sayin'. [:D]




ResidentSadist -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:25:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: StrongSpirit

Yes, it is ironic that you are complaining about other people complaining too much. Good luck with that.

At least you are smart enough to realize what you are dong.

But the reason it is iron is that as upset as you are about the complaining, the other people are also upset about the things they are complaining.

I see no reason not to calm down, accept the fact that the internet is full of rudeness- hard to avoid considering the delayed reaction time to communication plus the lack of facial clues.

There is no way to avoid this rudeness - but that does not excuse it. I think it is far better to point out to the other people that they are generally just as rude as the people they complain about. Honestly, how many women actually respond politely to the POLITE men. Then they get upset when they are overwhelmed with rude emails- - surprise surprise. If you don't encourage politeness, then people start getting rude back at you.

I am DONG, here me roar. (I know it was a type-o)

True, respect does not always beget respect. But it cost us nothing to pay respect. I have a whole paper written about how people who say “respect is earned” are just rude assholes full of shit. Saying “Sir” is a courtesy, not respect. I respect poisonous snakes and I call my servant (the waiter) sir. But that is for another thread.




angelikaJ -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:27:03 PM)

I get his point: there are a lot of people who complain about the different variants of sex and this is a BDSM site.
However, the S in BDSM does not stand for sex.

It does seem silly to have the endless arguments > ahem< I, mean very civilised discussions, rather, about this is BDSM, but that does not automatically include kink and/or fetish.
That spanking is really vanilla.
Too much vs too little pussy/body hair. [;)]
YKINMK

And as for the whole body parts bits, maybe it does seem prudish, RS.
But this is a discussion forum and not a porn free for all.
Most (not all) of the women appreciate a say so on the exchange of the interface parts pics.





ResidentSadist -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:28:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SorceressJ

I have 9 cats, but I am -SO- not an old prude.. just sayin'. [:D]

Any dogs? One dog cancels out 10 cats. Besides, you need 11 more cats to qualify for the stereotype.

just sayin'




SorceressJ -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:33:11 PM)

I respect fire, and people with big brains like Stephen Hawking, and he's in a wheelchair, poor lamb.
I respect my friends, my local law enforcement/first responders, my country's servicefolk, my Husband, and my dead mother.
I have occasionally been known to be a rude asshole, but mostly, it's just because I'm so jaded on most of the rest of humanity, and I let people and their nonsense piss me off. This is a weakness on my part, on account of it's my choice on how to let people and things affect me. But I'm working on it, always.




CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:33:34 PM)

If the oral sex thread is what set this off, then I need to so some reading... [:D]


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SorceressJ -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:34:57 PM)

P.S. I love oral sex. Delicious and nutritious, does not taste like chicken.. [;)]




Hotch -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:37:38 PM)

Besides here (DAYUM!!! I've been here since 2004?!!!)... Anyway, besides here, I also frequent airbrush artist forums. THOSE forums are also over run with people who couldn't paint a stick figure if the lines were dotted out for them, yet they ruin threads with their bullshit advice, unwarrented attacks and general disruptive behavior. It's caused many talented and respected artist to leave. I guess imsay Internet bullshit knows no bounds. Let's face it, every reclusive shut-in can be a somebody on the computer.




kalikshama -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:46:45 PM)

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That spanking is really vanilla.


Aha! NOW I know why I don't care for spankings!




sunshinemiss -> RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- (11/8/2010 4:49:54 PM)

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Let's face it, every reclusive shut-in can be a somebody on the computer.



Hey now!  Mr. Fuzzy Paws and I resent that. 




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